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kdmfl -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/17/2008 7:32:52 PM)

I imagine you have made it known that you desire to be "fucked" by him and maybe you do not like the answer he gave you, so you came here looking for thr answer you want.  It doesn't matter what we think, only you and your master are the ones that matter. Did your master know that you had a need to get fucked by him during the relationship or did you just assume it would happen?  Are you not getting what you wanted?  Did you say you wanted to belong to him?  Did you say there were conditions up front.  Who makes the rules.
I guess my point is, did you say you only wanted to be friends for mutual lifestyle fun or did you enter the relationship believing that it would progress to include sex. 
Communicate at all stages in a relationship and with the person in the relationship. 



Huntertn -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/19/2008 4:23:53 PM)

And I wondered  what had happened on this{This was a mistake...to come on here and post this question...has lead my Master to think that what He has told me, is not enough.
Today, i'm writing the report about our last weekend together...and know what that mentally and emotionally can do to me...and i know better than to do anything like this.
My Master has never hung up the phone on me...until right now. i could hear the disapointment, and even hurt in His voice...as well as how upset He is.
i have been foolish...very foolish... }
  Now I know..and I just don't have anything else to add...except well...naw forget it



Vinmier -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/19/2008 9:51:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MisterMonster
She's fucked, as she clearly worships this guy. I dunno...


I beg to differ.

On a serious note, it sounds as though your Master does everything you need/desire with the exception of fucking you. Ask yourself if you are happy in that respect, and if so, then so be it. Nowhere is it written that a slave has to be fucked.



MisterMonster -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/20/2008 3:35:47 PM)

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I beg to differ.


BADA-BING! Dude...that was fucking beautiful. I take my hat off in your honor.



bdsmbear -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/22/2008 9:24:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Subductrssss


To a lot of women, me included, sex is inherent with being found sexy, being loved and wanted, I myself would say get out before you have to spend the time and money I did on therapy to find out there is nothing wrong with me.



AYE, there's the rub! If His not using you sexually makes you feel like you are not Attractive, or sexy enough, then it is something deeply ingrained in you! your "NEEDS" are NOT being met, even tho you may not see it as such! A thorough re-evaluation is indicated here, if there is to be happiness in your service.
Bear
"We all dance to an invisible Whip"



NefertariReborn -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/22/2008 5:01:22 PM)

Ummmmmmmmmm Anyone notice that she hasn't been back????????????? Who are you people giving advice to? *looks around* Yep, lots of advice and no owned around to take it.  If advice is given and it's not read, is it still advice?



kdmfl -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/23/2008 7:54:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NefertariReborn

Ummmmmmmmmm Anyone notice that she hasn't been back????????????? Who are you people giving advice to? *looks around* Yep, lots of advice and no owned around to take it.  If advice is given and it's not read, is it still advice?


Its entertaining to read some of the responses and interesting to see how different people see each situation. 



Vinmier -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/23/2008 10:55:08 AM)

I find a wealth of advice and information in posts that have long since fallen to the wayside. So even though the OP isn't checking back on the topic, it may help someone else out down the line. [sm=book.gif]



Wolfie648 -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/23/2008 7:28:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ownedandnotused

Good morning,
i have decided to create this screenname, for the purpose of coming on here, and asking for help or advice.
i am an owned submissive, who has been owned for over one year. My Master and i have a great relationship, and it is my hope that we will continue to do so, and that i will remain His, for a long time to come.- Yet, in all of this time, He has never fucked my cunt or ass, with His cock.- why?



The only person that can answer that is him. Thanks for playing.



roland23 -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/26/2008 11:42:50 AM)

Fascinating! I have never believed that you had to have intercourse with your sub. Some subs I have. Most I have not. 



AMaster -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/26/2008 11:45:17 AM)

BDSM is not always about sex.



roland23 -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/26/2008 11:03:59 PM)

I agree with AMaster 100%. Unfortunately many of the folks on this website maintain that BDSM is all about SEX! 



NormalOutside -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/26/2008 11:30:28 PM)

1) Some secret moral or religious hangup.
2) STDs.
3) A really strange and elaborate headgame.

I know it's been said already, but either accept it or leave him.  He's said he won't fuck you.  The end.



NormalOutside -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/26/2008 11:31:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NefertariReborn
Ummmmmmmmmm Anyone notice that she hasn't been back????????????? Who are you people giving advice to? *looks around* Yep, lots of advice and no owned around to take it.  If advice is given and it's not read, is it still advice?

Often, people create an account to post a question, and then close the account so they can view the replies anonymously.



BondageBarbieX -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/28/2008 1:26:45 AM)

I have learned to never question my Dominant and some get very pissed if you do or if you cross that line.It's a respect issue.If he does not want sex you better learn to respect that or if you push the issue be prepared to lose him .



shesub -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/30/2008 4:43:18 PM)

I have read the responses to this question ... because my first mentor ... who was DOM never touched me below the waist. We were together for 3 years ... He taught me much ,,, how to please Himand what it means to be Dom. Over the time we were together I brought up the topic many many times ... I let Him know the need I was experiencing as well as the pain I was experiencing ... I was listened to and the subjest was dropped ... as he chose not to discuss it. I accepted His decision. 

At the point of 3 years I came to a point where I needed to understand ...

As I sit here I still wonder if it was all some sort of test of my willingness to service His needs that I some how failed because I left Him. 

I also have learned about erectile diysfunction and believe that He may have been experiencing this problem. If this is true I ache for Him becasue he did not trust me enough to accept Him as He was ... I could have handled that ... knowing that would have tied me to him more than I was.

He gave me much joy ... Love and happiness ... He taught me to enjoy the delights of sensual pain. 

I have yet to meet anyone to compare to compare what He was ... so now I still ache for what He was not  ... and for what He was.   



DominaSmartass -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/30/2008 8:39:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ownedandnotused
...but when we are together...He orders me to beg Him to fuck me...over and over and over again..and in His communication with me, verbal and written, He talks about it as if He is , indeed, fucking me.




This is REALLY far fetched, but please bear with me as I have to ask. Have you seen his cock? The first thing that comes to mind is that he may be a female-to-male transgendered person. Believe it or not, transmen exist who are so extremely passable that you would never know they were not born male unless you see their genitals. It would not be unheard of to me that someone would keep this a secret.



DominaSmartass -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/30/2008 9:01:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Kalista07

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ORIGINAL: Huntertn

ok brain check...How any Masters/Doms' or dommie's have never fucked their slaves not even once..anyone??????Anyone at all????Rr if you have a medical problemand cann't do the deed, havn't wanted to fuck them?????Anyone at all???I know this is a littel raw..but Anyone at all????


Mine has not.......Does that make us any less real?We have been together for over a year. We live together as well..... He is not cheating on me as we know each other's where abouts 24/7.. Oh damn!! Except that i do sleep at night, i suppose it's possible He could be sneaking out in the middle of the night to fuck all these other women.
*shrug*

Kali


Yeah...I don't want to hijack but I know a lot of masters who've never fucked (or induced an orgasm in any way) their slaves. Then again, I know gay masters with straight slaves, straight masters with gay slaves, and every combination you can possibly imagine of masters and slaves that may or may not be physically or sexually attracted to each other. We have no information to go on that this master is sexually attracted to this slave.



shesub -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/31/2008 4:46:37 PM)

LOL Yes I saw my mentor's cock ... and this is what mis lead me ... He had/has a beautiful cock .. It stood very nicely ... so I did not realize that he might have an issue with it ...

But I learned that a hard cock does not mean it can be used to fuck ... I met a man with very similar circumstances but he had no problem talking about it ... he had high blood pressure ... so did my mentor ... took meds for it ... so did my mentor ... and so on ... I learned a bit about what my mentor might have been experiencing.

DominaSmartass  .... You bring up a good point though.

shesub




Rayne58 -> RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. (12/31/2008 4:58:35 PM)

Sir is going through a stage of not being interested in sex.  Correction - His mind is going at it 24/7, but due to His health issues His body doesn't want to co-operate.  He has made it perfectly clear that it is nothing to do with me or anything I do/don't do. 

Hopefully the problem will correct itself in time, but until then we keep reinforcing the intimacy of the relationship with hugs, cuddles, kisses and gropes.  If I feel the need I'm allowed to take care of myself.  I've noticed however that I don't feel that need very often, it's like my body has switched off as well as His (going through the menopause doesn't help I'm guessing). 

We are still close and the relationship is loving and caring.  Sex is important but intimacy is much more than sex.



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