allthatjaz -> RE: Removing a profile picture (10/10/2008 2:23:17 PM)
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ORIGINAL: goodgirlslave as superfical a topic as this may seem, i find it an extremely important issue, because - i use this site to vet potential play partners. therefore, i require a general - non-face/non-identifying pic for both sexes, but for different reasons. as a bi-sexual woman, i am not as concerned with a man's looks as i am a woman's. my attraction to women is very physical, the hair, the skin, the belly button. she could be as dumb as door knob, but if she has soft hair, nice skin and flat stomach, i may want to touch her . . . . for men, it is not that way for me. no matter how good looking a guy is, i would never have the urge to reach out and touch him. it is more of a mental connection, and a desire to please. so i am more concerned about him being attracted to me, than me to him. which is why i offer my pic (albeit no face). why would i want to dialogue with a man, hoping to find someone i could please, only to find out later i am not his physical type? however, a general body pic of a man is important for me because i am looking for a man who is 'in control.' that means, to me, partly, in control of himself. overweight, out of shape men do not give me that vibe. so, for that reason, i require a pic for men as well. go ahead, shoot me. . . . Ditto to that, though its probably a whole new topic. Im bi too but far more fussy about my women than I am about my men.
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