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RE: Being naked - 10/8/2008 9:14:54 PM

VampiresLair

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Fox is naked when I am clothed sometimes.
He likes it, so im told. Its different than the usual.

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 12:21:02 AM

aravain

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I don't generally like being naked in front of others... even when I have to be... it makes me uncomfortable. If the other person is naked it makes it at least a little better.

I'd much rather have a Dom that wouldn't LET me be naked and force me to pleasure him while he was. It's a deprivation of the skin to skin that I love and long for, but that's partly why I like it.

*shrug* I'm just different :)

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 4:39:57 AM

NuevaVida

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Admittedly I like being naked. I used to have huge inhibitions about my nakedness but those were worked through in my last relationship. When I'm with "S" (the man I'm currently seeing), I goof around, shaking my ass or giving him a good breast-shimmy. I enjoy when he is dressed or undressed, and both elicit different feelings in me.

When he's undressed, there's a more intimate feeling of sharing. And yes, skin to skin feels awesome. When he is dressed I feel more "on display" to him, and probably a bit more vulnerable since that "intimate sharing" feeling is different.

Think of it this way - - Think of how much more desire you have for what's under his pants when you don't have access to it, and then savor the hell out of it when you do! From your OP he obviously shares that with you on occasion, so soak it up and appreciate it all the more when he does! It's like waiting for that special occasion to open the box of chocolates you've been saving...and wow don't you just melt all over when you finally open it.

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 5:45:13 AM

silkenfire

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I am extremely self conscious about my body and hate it (always have) so it's really hard for me to be declothed for extended periods, although it's happening more and more. But rarely am I less clothed than Master.

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 6:27:16 AM

OttersSwim

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I have found it strange how I suddenly feel better around Milady with less clothes. We make a joke about it "She said "Hi"...and all my clothes fell off!".

She seems to feel better with fewer clothes around me too as we both really are into skin contact and that sense of wanting to climb inside the other, you just cannot get close enough!

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 7:32:23 AM

WildHoneyPie

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Daddy and I both like for me to be wearing pretty lingerie (neither of us go for fetish wear, except for corsets) or innocent looking nighties. i usually end up with at least a piece of it still on, if only just tangled around some part of me. I have always liked sleeping and walking around the house naked. Daddy's last marriage was to a woman who didn't do naked at all, so he is delighted with the concept of being skin to skin in bed or anywhere we wish to be. I like him naked or when he wears those silky, clinging kind of boxer shorts. mmmm....i'm getting myself into quite a state writing about this!

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 8:12:07 AM

celticlord2112

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My personal preference is that my slave be naked all the time. The reality is that clothing is necessary more often than not.....but when clothing is not necessary, slaves should not wear any.

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 8:33:58 AM

Lordandmaster

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I prefer naked all around, though sometimes leaving a few bits of clothing can be hot. When you make a slave get naked, it's a strong way of saying that she isn't going to need clothes for what will come next. And I prefer to be naked so that I can feel everything.

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 11:40:21 AM

tkenslve

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i am the one who tends to be clothed and my Master is usually anywhere from shirtless to completely naked. It puts me in a more service oriented state of mind, focusing on His body and pleasure only.

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 2:39:35 PM

malloves69

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my mistress loves seeing me naked when she walks in my door

it lets her know im ready for her ..anything shes in the mood for

also being clean for her inside as well as outside ..yes by that i mean taking enemas ..since we do alot of anal play ...her fisting me anally is amazing

before or after strapon use

gawd i love being fucked in the ass by her

those are the 2 orders she gives me when its time to play

and when she gets naked too love the skin on skin contact with hers being so soft and smooth to touch

the lady is amazing

mal

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 3:17:41 PM

tweedydaddy

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I quite like having sub girls in lingerie or naked in front of other Doms, basically I like to show them off. I think you are mistaking sexual domination with romance, if he tells you to nude for him, then that's your duty, he may be staying clothed to reinforce his role in the game. Also, and let's be honest about this, once mister erection comes into the equation things tend to be a little less measured. and skin to skin can cause that. You might strip him off then find things don't last as long as you'd like.

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 6:11:05 PM

Zechriel

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Good evening,
Absolutely , positively HATE being naked in front of Daddy, only under the covers snuggling BUT it is his call. As is his call to undress or not. Often times, I can push up his shirt to rub his tummy-which he will take off, other times, I get my hand playfully slapped. There are times when we play that I can ask to change into a nightie rather than be undressed, or when we are cuddling, I can ask to remove my shirt but what I want is irrelevant.
Yes, I love that skin on skin closeness but just being in his arms is enough for me. I need to closeness-period. Have a great weekend!
Love,
Zechriel

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RE: Being naked - 10/9/2008 6:19:50 PM

kallisto

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There's a definite vulnerability to be naked in front of my Dom. There's a comfort and secure feeling being wrapped up in His arms, skin on skin.

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RE: Being naked - 10/13/2008 9:25:03 PM

DoctorCthulhu

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I enjoy nudity simply because it's so erotic. While I could see why a male Dom would keep their pants on to maintain the illusion of control, being naked is just a very erotic practice. Nothing beats putting a slave on your lap and spanking while making skin to skin contact.

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RE: Being naked - 10/14/2008 8:34:31 AM

mketom

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With you beiing NAKED It is a form of Humulation.. He is partley dress and your Completly naked

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RE: Being naked - 10/14/2008 9:05:30 AM

dangerousangel

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My Owner likes being naked, so he is a lot. Which is pretty awesome. :) I truly like being naked around people who are clothed. It's an inherantly sexy act for me. "Humbling" I suppose, as well, but I don't usually use the word because it's just how it is.

However, I get cold really really really easily, so if I'm just wandering around the house I'm usually in about 4 layers. I like high summer because I can actually go around naked and not be miserable. I usually sleep in just panties or panties and shorts b/c he really likes skin, and under the covers I get warm enough to not be miserable. I'm glad he's ok with me staying like that most of the time, becuse there's -nothing- that gets to me like cold.

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RE: Being naked - 10/14/2008 9:31:02 AM

sunshinedreams

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My Sir will come into our room and comment on how cold it is, and in the same breath, ask why i still have on clothes. lol So as always, i lose them mighty quickly.

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RE: Being naked - 10/14/2008 9:38:43 AM

AMaster

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bluefireroses

i have noticed with my exDom that he would do this when He wanted to prove a point or during a "scene". i, too, believe that Doms do this in order to reinforce the feeling of being dependant/vulnerable. For me, this tactic works!

Yes, that is the point.

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RE: Being naked - 10/14/2008 11:19:55 AM

littleone35

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it is not a humilation thing we don't play that game. It is just that he likes me naked. Not that i really mind it all that much cause i know he loves my boddy ( i know cause he told me). I just thought i would get others take on this.

To all who responded thank you very much.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Being naked - 10/14/2008 10:57:25 PM

exile509

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this is so me.

when i had my slave over all the time i always had her nude (wearing only a collar), while i usually kicked back in shorts and a t-shirt.

to be honest, it was just a comfort thing. i usually don't like being completely nude (because my sack velcro's to my leg), but i love seeing her complely naked. sometimes i would just sit there and run my fingers up and down the lines of her body, because i loves looking at her, because i love touching her, because she was mine.

if he wants to see you naked take it as a compliment, and if it helps, think of it as wearing the outfit he absoultely loves seeing you in.

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