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BDSMWISCONSINDOM -> just my two cents (12/6/2005 6:08:40 PM)

Hello to my two cents.

There is no such thing as BDSM anything online in the lifestyle. This is a tool to set up meetings, munches, and to inform lifestyle people on events and news. Other than that, this shouldn't be a part of your lifestyle.

There was no mention of internet BDSM in the Story of O, Different Loving, or Screw the Roses. No self respecting Dom/me would ever accept a letter of intent for servitude from an e-mail.


Maybe I have been in the lifestyle too long. I still mess up protocol but I do remember what it is to have it. I remember there was a time we wanted to get together to learn from one another. Now it's like, well, I want to learn from others but they have to be just the right height or size or color or age or this or that or this or that. Experience doesn't come to you in a pretty wrapped box you open on Christmas. So for you young whippersnappers out there, you are never too old to learn new tricks. Learn from whom you can. You will know who they are when they open their mouths. Just my two cents....



Sir Diesel...



OscarHargraves -> RE: just my two cents (12/6/2005 6:27:42 PM)

Okay, don't hold back. Tell us how you REALLY feel.

Sounds a lot like another case of "You're not doing it my way so it can't be the right way!"

Grow up. Times change. Things change. Not everyone has to do it the old way to be right. The internet is here to stay, like it or not and it's replacing a lot of old communication methods. If it doesn't work for you, fine. But don't say "Your not a real Dom(me) if you use it" because that's just your opinion and a somewhat prejudiced one at that.



LadyJulieAnn -> RE: just my two cents (12/6/2005 6:54:48 PM)

Apparently it's also a tool for people to tell you how to live "your lifestyle".

Be well,
Julie



KatyLied -> RE: just my two cents (12/6/2005 7:03:45 PM)

quote:

There is no such thing as BDSM anything online in the lifestyle.


Technology has crept into many facets of life. Why not this as well? Or perhaps, in your case, not so well.



FangsNfeet -> RE: just my two cents (12/6/2005 7:35:14 PM)

Congratulations.

Not many would make such bold statements as there first post in the message boards. I commend you for that.
However, I call bull shit. If you're true to your statements then why are you here on the internet and have put up such well descriptive profile with a pic and a message down to the point of who you are and what you want?

Why wouldn't a self respecting dom/me ever accept a letter of servitude from an e-mail? You say the internet is a tool for meetings. If that's the case, then wouldn't a submissive submit such a letter to show interest in that dom which would start the process of arranging that first meeting? If the dom shows interest in the letter, then it's there call to reply and show interest in meeting and seeing if the sub really wants to serve. This web site is what brought pet and I together and it started off with a letter and a reply.

There's nothing wrong with a submissive sending a message that basicly says "I'd like to serve you" and there's nothing wrong with a dom sending a message "I want to dominate you and turn my wicked pain into your greatest pleasure" That's normally how some if not most of the meetings get started.

Welcome to the internet. I'm glad you were able to learn some new tricks.



siamsa24 -> RE: just my two cents (12/6/2005 7:53:17 PM)

quote:

So for you young whippersnappers out there, you are never too old to learn new tricks.


Maybe you should take this advice yourself and learn to accept the fact that the internet is here to stay.



sub4hire -> RE: just my two cents (12/6/2005 8:04:56 PM)

quote:

There is no such thing as BDSM anything online in the lifestyle. This is a tool to set up meetings, munches, and to inform lifestyle people on events and news. Other than that, this shouldn't be a part of your lifestyle.

There was no mention of internet BDSM in the Story of O, Different Loving, or Screw the Roses. No self respecting Dom/me would ever accept a letter of intent for servitude from an e-mail.


You have your opinion and other's have theirs. It is called mutual respect for one another.
The only issue I see here is you are judging people by saying no self respecting person would do this and that.
If you are all that old you know the word domme is not a word to, correct? Or, was that a typo?



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: just my two cents (12/6/2005 8:42:25 PM)

*wakes up*

Wow, now I see the light. I am ever so grateful that I am finally free of those horrible chains that have plagued me. A whipper snapper can be changed!



Cloudz -> RE: just my two cents (12/6/2005 9:43:51 PM)

My, that was an inflammatory first post. I look forward to future words of wisdom to educate all of us poor misguided folks.



lovingmaster45 -> RE: just my two cents (12/7/2005 4:31:38 AM)

I guess I misread the post. I thought the OP was just a rant against all these "on-line" relationships. I actually encountered one last night on chat. A very young college girl from Columbia SC. Said she was collared to a friend of mine. She in fact did have his name and his email right. I keep up with Robert so I called him while she was on line telling me about all the scenes she had done, etc. He informed me that he had never met this girl; but was hoping to meet her at Purgatory. Now how did she go from never having met Robert to sceneing with him? I guess that is the part about the internet the OP was ranting against. I join him in his rant.



windchymes -> RE: just my two cents (12/7/2005 6:01:28 AM)

Then goddammit, the US Postal Service better get back on horses!!!!

chymes



AbstractSavant -> RE: just my two cents (12/7/2005 12:17:07 PM)

Then why are you here on the big bad internets posting about it?



MHOO314 -> RE: just my two cents (12/7/2005 12:34:15 PM)

hmm are you the same Sir Diesel who was in the Atlanta area not too long ago? who chastised Me for not using online protocol in an IM to you? the arrogance is familiar--



Delvin -> RE: just my two cents (12/7/2005 4:03:20 PM)

hmm, perhaps Sir Diesel has struck a cord as there is a great deal of hostility to his post.

I agree that to keep this lifestyle online only makes it somewhat shallow as to what it "could" be, but in the years when I first had Sir Diesel's views I never really experienced the online only life. As time went on, and I met people either in person or online, I realized that for some, it may the only way for them to begin, and like anything, if we find something too comfortable, we tend to stay in one spot. I can see how an online only relationship can work and in fact my current slave was found online and I spoke with her for a couple of months before going and getting her.

Online is what it is like everything in this life, we make it what it is.

D



LadyJulieAnn -> RE: just my two cents (12/7/2005 4:40:28 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingmaster45

I guess I misread the post. I thought the OP was just a rant against all these "on-line" relationships. I actually encountered one last night on chat. A very young college girl from Columbia SC. Said she was collared to a friend of mine. She in fact did have his name and his email right. I keep up with Robert so I called him while she was on line telling me about all the scenes she had done, etc. He informed me that he had never met this girl; but was hoping to meet her at Purgatory. Now how did she go from never having met Robert to sceneing with him? I guess that is the part about the internet the OP was ranting against. I join him in his rant.


I'm not sure what this example has to do with the internet. Humans are behind the actions they take online. Sounds like a flaw in her character.

Be well,
Julie



happypervert -> RE: just my two cents (12/7/2005 4:41:19 PM)

quote:

hmm, perhaps Sir Diesel has struck a cord as there is a great deal of hostility to his post.

The only chord he has stuck is one of hypocrisy, superficial thinking, lack of self awareness and just overall foolishness. It is amusing that you could perceive the reactions to that as being hostility to him presenting some profound ideas.



missdriver -> RE: just my two cents (12/7/2005 4:43:04 PM)

For me, on line has been the only way to find out about this lifestyle. I wasnt lucky enough to know someone who i could ask about the feelings i was having. I couldnt understand why i needed to give control over to someone else. I thought there was something wrong with me.




FangsNfeet -> RE: just my two cents (12/8/2005 10:36:40 PM)

quote:

hmm, perhaps Sir Diesel has struck a cord as there is a great deal of hostility to his post.


No hostility here. Just disapointed that he has yet to repsond to any of these post. So much for having a debate. I nor the others here I'm sure had intentions to scare a DOM off Collarme.com. Please come back Diesel. We promise not to pick on you. He has such a convencing profile. It just goes to show you that not everyone can back up what they say or even admit when they might have been wrong.



Marquisd -> RE: just my two cents (12/8/2005 11:38:55 PM)

ok I am leaving this planet now.....


when earth was formed there were no whips, chains, floggers, canes.....................just hot molten lava to fry things in....................no condoms (there goes safe sex)..............OMG no delete buttons.............I am moving back into the hut......................and pull the women into my cave by their hair (hang on I am still doing that)

things and lifestyles evolve.......just as it is ok for everyone to live on-line and express themselves it is also ok to stay in ones old shoes and not to move.

there is really only one threshold (imho) and that is whatever gets your rocks off and what you can live with that is what you do - - - - as long as you do not make me do it TYVM :)

cheers

Marquisd



Wolf1020 -> RE: just my two cents (12/9/2005 12:24:54 AM)

I like my modern day gadgets. You don't have to but dang it I do. So if you don't like it go find a sybian sit on it and rotate cause I'm staying here.



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