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Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/9/2008 7:48:37 PM

uneed2relax

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Hello

I am a submissive. I am a pain slut and I need to be owned. Perhaps I am a slave I am not sure.

I am Hetro. Although I do not have any homosexual urges, I want to be dominated by a male. Even better to be dominated, beaten and tortured by a male inforn of one or more females.

I have serverd many Mistresses many times but I this need to serve a master is new and strong in me. I have dreasm of being used by master and hsi friends as a urinal, even though I have never done any golden play or ever sucked a cock.

Of course I thin htat thee may be homesxual tendencies but I am not interested in sex with male or felame in this scenario.

Does this make sense? Is it possible? Does anyone understand me?

Thank you for you input.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/9/2008 7:53:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: uneed2relax

Is it possible?

Of course it is. Just find someone interested in the same activities. It took one short post here to describe, relatively thoroughly, the dynamic you'd want. It should take you no more time to be able to individually say/write it to individuals or adjust your profile to reflect the interest.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/9/2008 8:04:07 PM

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I play with a bondage boy that is str8. The first thing I asked are you sure about this, the 2nd are you sure about this. He has played with men before he told me and it would not be a problem. In later conversations he told me that it took him a while to be comfortable with this, but it's the bondage and submission that is what he is looking for. Hey it works for me as most of my play does not end in sex. I could have a str8 piss boy around and it would not be a problem, it's the D/s and/or SM for me. Sex is great and I love it but as I said it's just not part of my normal play. I have some play that leads to sex and that is normally more primal type of play.

So you see it is possible.
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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/9/2008 9:56:32 PM

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There are no rules, you make it up as you go along. So there is no issue. You're in charge.

I hope you don't mind my sticking my nose into your business, but you state "Although I do not have any homosexual urges, I want to be dominated by a male." I need to point out to you that that is a homosexual urge, there are no two ways about that. I don't have a problem with it, but if you do, see a therapist. Being in denial will eventually catch up with you, it will hurt you, and it is not necessary.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/10/2008 5:25:00 AM

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I'd spank you . . .

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/10/2008 5:53:01 AM

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like you said.. there are no rules.. and you do NOT get to decide what is a homosexual urge or not for another person.. maybe it would be for you... but not necessarily for anyone else...

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ORIGINAL: antipode

There are no rules, you make it up as you go along. So there is no issue. You're in charge.

I hope you don't mind my sticking my nose into your business, but you state "Although I do not have any homosexual urges, I want to be dominated by a male." I need to point out to you that that is a homosexual urge, there are no two ways about that. I don't have a problem with it, but if you do, see a therapist. Being in denial will eventually catch up with you, it will hurt you, and it is not necessary.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/10/2008 9:56:04 AM

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Well, I meant that I do not desire to suck a cock or have anal sex. On the other hand I suppose there are latent urges in everything I do. For me it appears to be the humiliation of submittting to a male, it seems to be even hightened to submit in front of a woman, worse of the male is smaller than me.

By the way, I may be in denial, but in no way did I intend to disparrage anyone elses life style. I may be a perve but I am a nice friendly perve :)

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/10/2008 10:28:07 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: uneed2relax
Does this make sense? Is it possible? Does anyone understand me?

Some men are made to rule. Some men are made to be ruled. It is that simple.

Find a man you can serve joyfully and in good conscience, and politely direct any naysayers to take the shortest route to Hell (provide directions if necessary).

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/10/2008 12:46:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: uneed2relax

By the way, I may be in denial, but in no way did I intend to disparrage anyone elses life style. I may be a perve but I am a nice friendly perve :)

Speaking for this gay male, I never took your question as negative about anyone.

Mike

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/11/2008 6:10:59 AM

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The answer is of course very easy ~~ YES! Were you (for example) collared to Bruin Cottage, primarily you would be a service slave but you may well be required to sexually service the Lady of the Home (My wife, and the odd female slave who may be there too). Your service to me would be primarily serving food and beverage, assisting in dressing (valet) and shaving. On a BDSM basis depending on our discussions you may feel my floggers, crop and cane as well as needle in needle play etc. Both my wife and I have a shared interest in CBT as well, however these are secondary matters though and as such, less important.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/11/2008 11:07:32 AM

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i would be very careful with couples. some say you are there to serve the mistress. 2 weeks later your giving the male oral or anal or some other for of sex.

you have to be damn sure you to tell them that you would leave right away no questions asked if this scenario happens. while yes there is the occasional couple who wont do this to you. it is like anything else...you have to weed through them to find the match.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/12/2008 9:06:27 PM

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Sage advise. I have found that what you say is true, but alos that may are up front about this too.

I have serrved a couple of couples (no pun intended) with no such trouble. But if I keep looking I imagine it will eventally pop up (again no pun intended)

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/12/2008 9:11:29 PM

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Thank you Sir.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/12/2008 9:25:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: uneed2relax

Hello

I am a submissive. I am a pain slut and I need to be owned. Perhaps I am a slave I am not sure.

I am Hetro. Although I do not have any homosexual urges, I want to be dominated by a male. Even better to be dominated, beaten and tortured by a male inforn of one or more females.

I have serverd many Mistresses many times but I this need to serve a master is new and strong in me. I have dreasm of being used by master and hsi friends as a urinal, even though I have never done any golden play or ever sucked a cock.

Of course I thin htat thee may be homesxual tendencies but I am not interested in sex with male or felame in this scenario.

Does this make sense? Is it possible? Does anyone understand me?

Thank you for you input.

Yes it is possible you will find a Master who simply wants a sub like yourself to serve his sadistic needs though without the sex. Though what you seek may be a bit more difficult to find yet it's not impossible. A friend of mine is in similar situation where he has a male sub who is heterosexual. His boy is strictly a service sub who enjoys submitting to a gay male yet there isn't any sex involved.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/13/2008 4:34:46 PM

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My Wife has four male slaves, which apparently we share. so yes.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/13/2008 8:52:51 PM

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My Sir has several straight male subs that come to him to be topped. They enjoy the pain, he enjoys inflicting pain on males. There is no sex involved. I am always present. Seems that we actually do what you fantasize about.

In answer to your question....YES.

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/15/2008 8:56:09 PM

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Yes, I know of one male sub who serves a man and doesn't have any kind of SM or sexual relationship with him. He is simply his butler. Their relationship is mutually beneficial and I hold them both in high regard.

There are no rules. Good luck!

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/15/2008 11:10:41 PM

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I'd get in contact with your local Leather Men. Be respectfull and polite of the fact their are a large number of homosexual men in the Leather scene, and dont forget about the hankey code......

http://members.aol.com/OfficerJim/hankycodes.html

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/16/2008 4:45:32 AM

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I dsay of course I know people in similar situations, the beauty is that if you can think i up there will be someone out there who has the same thought/desire as you. Its jsut a case of being clear about what you want.

The fear that you may be in denial is a common one, I was scared that I wouldnt actually want any of the things that I desired if faced with them in reality. Luckily I was wrong, however its about communication, if you explain your fears and are careful with weho you decide to give it a go with there should be no problem if it doesnt work the way you want it to, if you dont enjoy it, thats one of the beautiful things about safe words.

To the person who said it is a homosexual urge

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RE: Can a Str8 Male sub serve a Master - 10/16/2008 7:18:17 AM

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Yes, in fact we have a gay male submissive here who submits to Women but dominates other straight males.

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