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xXLithiumXx -> RE: Jelous Dommes (10/12/2008 5:10:05 PM)
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Oh gawd...where to start...Hm.. *warning, this could be scary for some of you, and could cause a series of side effects including nausea, vomiting, upset stomach, dry eyes, nasal drainage, sore throat, athletes foot, water on the knee, and oily anal seepage*
The beginning....I had made friends with a "domme" from here. She claimed she was new to being a D-type, and wanted to learn as much as she could. So, I said, what the hell, and started teaching her. Eventually, she found a boy. Bless his lil pea pickin heart, that kid...he didnt know which end was up. He was in heaven. Time goes by, and me and the other chic go our seperate ways. She gets on the boy because he and I had stayed friends. She felt it was a violation of her trust to speak to me. She felt it showed a lack of loyalty on his part. Which was a total crock of tripe. She claimed that he was HERS...now...she hadnt offered him a collar but had sessioned with him a few times, basic bondage type stuff. She had even expressed to me that she wouldnt consider collaring him because of some medical issues that he had that she felt limited her to what she could do with him...which again, a total load of tripe. So the poor guy starts messaging me in a panic, not thinking he has given the wicked witch of the west his pass word...so lady no brain calls me one day and goes into sastic stupidity in my ear about who the hell do I think I am stealing her boy. Which was laughable. He was a sweet kid, but he wasnt what I was looking for, I had my hands full training a girl at the time, and had no intrest in working with two untrained subs. I just didnt have it in me. I just laughed at her and hung up.
Maybe that doesnt make much sense to most, because in my post migrain caffeine induced stupor I condensed 6 months worth of trauma into a parahgraph of run on rambling, but the thing is, as a woman in a Dominant position, the attraction for most boys is the confidence. If she lacks that and second guesses him, her skill and her position in his life....I just dont think its going to work long term for either of them. And of course you have the scammers that say dont speak to this one or that one, because of course they will warn you that I am trying to ass rape your wallet and I dont want them handing you common sense with which to arm yourself against my thievery...(sp)
As for me, the Dominant in me says...speak to who ever you want. Hell, even play with who ever you want...why? Because I obviously have something that the others dont that you want...and they may be able to offer something that I cant. I mean hell, Im a wife and a mother before anything else...I dont have all the time in the world and at the end of the average day...I may not have it in me to throw a beatin to some one, or to issue orders to them. Some one else may be able to help me with that. Do I expect my subs to ask me? Yes, I do. Talk to me, tell me what is going on. Dont hide it from me, you have no reason to.
I dont think any one has any right to take friends from their sub. Thats just messed up. Hell, make friends with them, get to know them, that would probably help the sub more than you could know...But dont be jealous. Thats weak.
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