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RE: A Few questions - 10/13/2008 5:41:09 PM

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Me and Sir talked and Im feeling alot better, i have a feeling the post was spurned on by sub drop for one thing and the fact a couple relationships broke up at about the same time (wont get into details here on the board). Everythings pretty ok now, i wont say great, because of extenuateing circumstances but its most deffinately better. It was a good night me and the other sub and him got to cuddle on the couch eat ice cream and watch a movie. It's the little things like that that heal me the most.

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RE: A Few questions - 10/13/2008 5:48:18 PM

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A panic attack is a condition caused by fight or flight. It's physiological. You can't 'stop' one even if you wanted to!

Sure you can. You just need to find the right trigger. It's similar to self-hypnosis/meditation. Not everyone can do it, but it certainly is possible. Mind over matter, you know?

That being said, I know that when I used to end up helpless while in the grip of a panic attack, I sometimes felt silly for a long time afterwards because I was unexpectedly thrown into a position of weakness against my wishes/will/what have you. Sudden loss of self-control isn't always a good thing, and this would throw me off-balance on an emotional level for quite some time. Since this was the first time for you, Sunnyfey, maybe that's why it's affecting you so intensely?

Let yourself be upset, let yourself be down for a bit, and let your master guide you out of it. I am of the opinion that everything is a learning experience, even the negative aspects of our lives, and your reaction to this incident may just make you a bit better equipped to handle it if it happens again. It's fantastic that he loves you enough to want to be there for you through this. You're a blessed woman. : )

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RE: A Few questions - 10/13/2008 5:53:16 PM

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It's fantastic that he loves you enough to want to be there for you through this. You're a blessed woman. : )

More then I could ever tell you. He is an amazing man, I thank my stars everyday We found each other again. (we knew each other in high school, when we were kids at the lunch table)

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RE: A Few questions - 10/14/2008 8:39:37 AM

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Just wants to give Sunnyfey a hug.

Branding is not lightweight stuff, especially if it was a fire brand? My guess is that 95% of us in here would of fainted or had a panic attack too.

I was the same about piercings at one time. I used to nearly hyperventilate and the first time I had a suture I passed clean out.

The most important thing is that he is with you, listening to you, taking care of you and understanding you. He knows when its just too much, just as he knows when the right time will be. Sounds like a great guy.

Dont punish yourself over this. Your body can only take what your mind will let you.

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RE: A Few questions - 10/14/2008 8:55:03 AM

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*hugs jaz back* thanks sweetheart. and yeah Sirs been really great about it, even if he tease me *covert eyeroll*

"yeah even though you pussed out on your brand hotshit"
"Sir, I love you, remember that when i kick your ass ok?"
"I'll be waiting with baited breath princess"

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RE: A Few questions - 10/14/2008 9:15:52 AM

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No pain no Gain...right? But you will do it as you are stronger than you let on. Just dont watch next time as it might help okay? You are lucky you have a kind and patient Master