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Time Limit - 12/7/2005 1:48:37 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Hello i was wondering if any subs/slaves have a Master who likes time limits. What i mean is i was playing with a Dom he was using his hands and he said if you don't cum in 30 seconds you are not going to cum.

Has anyone ever experienced that? Not with intercourse just hands or a toy or something?

littleone
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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 2:00:12 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Sure. Arbitrary time limits are used all the time. I use them with my boys occasionally.

The orgasming thing doesn't work for me because I am very difficult to orgasm and time limits just take focus away and make it not worth the effort. But that doesn't mean it's not fun for a very sadistic top...

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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 2:19:51 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Yep, all of the time. Except it flows beyond just kinky sex and into real life as well.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 2:21:18 PM   
veronicaofML


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Mistress has done it....

if i am not "finished" under 3 minutes...i am not GOING to finish.



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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 2:33:54 PM   
Jasmyn


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Status: offline 		Yes ... one particular game I play is to tell them I have a figure in my head and I am going to count backwards to zero, if they haven't cum by the time I get to zero then they will not get to cum for as many days as was the figure I started with.



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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 8:36:46 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		Yes, but.

I have a whole lot o' trouble orgasming with someone other than myself. Even with my partner it's taken a LOT of work to get me to be albe to orgasm.

Time limits, which were tried with some former partners, put me so far on edge I couldn't get off even if I wanted to. It got to the point where I wouldn't try, because I was so stressed I couldn't anyway. So, we pretty much stopped as it wasn't hot for anyone invovled.


Time limits to get someone -else- off? Lots of fun.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/8/2005 6:32:47 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I don't know about time limits, but I will make my slave give me head all the TIME!

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RE: Time Limit - 12/9/2005 3:48:09 AM   
sweetpettjenny


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Status: offline 		yes ...most likely if its 30 seconds, id not be cumming..sigh

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RE: Time Limit - 12/9/2005 6:30:16 AM   
FTopinMichigan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny

yes ...most likely if its 30 seconds, id not be cumming..sigh


I've never seen cumming in zero to thirty seconds as a "good" thing myself.

K

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RE: Time Limit - 12/10/2005 6:23:32 AM   
camigirl


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Status: offline 		I had an ex-Dominant that would time me, though not to orgasm.

Immediately after entering his home i was required to gracefully remove my clothes (down to my bra and panties) fold my clothes and place them neatly on a chair, light several candles in the room, turn on some music, and present myself kneeling, eyes lowered, at his feet, all within one minute.
If i did well, was rewarded with a spanking!
It was fun, kept me focused on him and i do love a challange.

camigirl

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RE: Time Limit - 12/10/2005 6:32:37 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I believe it was Johnson who said........

'When a man knows he's to be hanged in a fortnight, it concentrates his mind wonderfully.'

Time limits are useful in many situations.

Ron

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RE: Time Limit - 12/10/2005 6:33:41 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		I specifically use time limits for assignments--not so much for orgasm control or not as that can be dependent on many things, but I am adamant about time limits for assignments or projects---

and I never set a time limit for play, after all it is My time--

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RE: Time Limit - 12/10/2005 12:02:18 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		i have a fetish for time, i love being pressed for time or have to work within a defined time period to get something done. i think i enjoy the intensity and the focus that brings. This can be used quite well wth me within Master/slave relationship.
If Master however said, cum within 30 seconds, i doubt i could do it, unless, a whole lotta stuff had gone on beforehand and i was in the right frame of mind at the time.

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RE: Time Limit - 5/10/2006 6:17:41 AM   
painslave97


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Status: offline 		Master wishes this slave to cum on command & it usually can & does, but He keeps it on that edge as much as is possible. As far as actual time limits, which it doesn't think 'cum Now' fits, Master occassional sets time limits for random things & slave believes this to be good in bring focus to the value of Masters time & it helps point out what activities waste time in some areas.
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RE: Time Limit - 5/10/2006 6:33:49 AM   
Sensualips


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Status: offline 		Since this thread has already been ressurected, I'll speak up.  Time limits on orgasms would not work with me either, but after reading this thread I played with the idea in several ways with a boy.  It was very effective and great fun.  His feedback indicated he really liked it as well.

The first time we were at an event and he had never scened in public.  He was very nervous, mostly about being naked. For some reason (I forget why) I did not want to use a blindfold.  We did a light flogging/cropping sensory play type thing with him bound so that he was facing away from the small crowd watching.  At the end, I wanted to reward him with an orgasm because he had done so well despite his nervousness and insecurity.  I whispered in his ear as I was removing the cuffs and told him when I turned him around he had thirty seconds to cum or he could not orgasm for the rest of the evening.  This was mostly so he would be focused on THAT and not on realizing there were a dozen people watching just ten feet away.  As soon as I turned him around I went down on him and he came instantly.  Then before he really recovered from that I quickly wrapped a blanket around him, just so he would not feel so exposed.

So this is my testimonial.  Thanks collar me users, for that bit of inspiration last December.

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RE: Time Limit - 5/10/2006 6:36:11 AM   
unquenchable


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

I don't know about time limits, but I will make my slave give me head all the TIME!


Would that time limit be...........Keep it good and hard for 24 hours/??????

LOL

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RE: Time Limit - 5/10/2006 7:33:11 AM   
cloudboy


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scened in public......naked.....blindfold.....flogging/cropping......bound.....orgasm....whispered in his ear.....cuffs.....cum....dozen people watching.........exposed.....testimonial.....inspiration


If he were really submissive, he would have jismed at the prospect of washing your car and rubbing your feet. Clearly, you haven't been studying your assignments in Mistress School.

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RE: Time Limit - 5/10/2006 9:46:38 AM   
sweetbbwsub31


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Status: offline 		You bet. i love orgasm control.

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RE: Time Limit - 5/10/2006 11:44:11 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I have not had that exact experience, but my former dom would have me count out loud while I orgasmed as a way to control my orgasms. In other words that was a precursor to orgasming on command which I never was able to accomplish

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RE: Time Limit - 5/10/2006 12:18:34 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		30 seconds seems a bit fast to me, also...45 seconds...now you're talking!

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