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rcf101 -> ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/10/2008 10:12:06 PM)

Ok I was just wondering if any of you dominants, or submissive, switches etc, find tickling, even outside of BDSM play, to be an erotic form of foreplay leading to other things? I mean that from either the tickler or ticklee perspective. I was just curious, having never experienced this myself , it is exciting only in my imagination. I think I might be turned on by it but I am not sure, I only know the IDEA is a turn-on. So I was hoping I'm not the only one who feels this way. For this reason, I would only be willing to be tickled by a female as a male doing it, should I become aroused, would make me sick to my stomach and force me to question my sexual identity. I always thought I was straight...In any case was just trying to figure out if I was alone in this? And is it wrong to be turned on in a supposed "torture" session w/ the domme? I mean would it be an insult to a Domme if her dominating you turned you on? I'm new to all this so please understand my lack of understanding, and forgive any disrespect in my asking these questions. ThankYou, RCF



ElectraGlide -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/10/2008 10:22:50 PM)

Tickling is a growing fetish, like spanking only groups, that have munches and parties, for that one fetish only. Do a google search, maybe you can find a tickling group in your area.

I have enjoyed tickling submissives and slaves, the reaction of the laughter is fun. It can be a wrestling match, forcing them into submission. I do not mix it with play, it is the opposite. I use tickling as a warm up for snuggling and lovemaking. Sometimes pre-play also.



Lockit -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/10/2008 10:27:21 PM)

My domination should turn my submissive on!  It is no offense to be turned on by something your dominant does.  We kind of expect that. lol

Just hang around here a while, read, research and then when ready, go exploring.  You won't really know until you try, whether you like it or not or what your response will be.  Don't worry so much and enjoy the ride... good luck



rcf101 -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/10/2008 10:51:38 PM)

Thanks for your replies I appreciate the input. -RCF



DesFIP -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 8:21:57 AM)

Tickling is one of those things you either love or loathe. For myself, I find him tickling me just a little to be fun, but he knows the line that takes it to too much and never goes there. If he did, I doubt I would enjoy it at all in future.

It isn;t the tickling per se that is erotic, it's the control. He tickles, I wriggle around and wind up on my knees pleading with him to stop, promising to be good. And while I'm down there, something else usually comes up [:D]



beargonewild -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 8:52:23 AM)

Any sort of tickling, no matter in what context is an absolute no-no. I always warn anyone that they run a risk of getting kicked if they attempt to tickle me! Last person who tried to tickle me after pinning my legs down, ended up with a couple bruised ribs. 



ApathyRomance -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 11:12:08 AM)

Started tickling with my friend the other day.  Led to more.  Was fun.



windchymes -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 12:46:18 PM)

Little teasing tickles in moderation have their place, it can be fun and cute, but you have to learn when to stop.  Tickling unmercifully until I can't breathe and I'm peeing myself will get you killed while you sleep.



sailorfrank -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 6:02:36 PM)

    Tickling is of course safer after my slave is nicely bound as she does kick quite abit?   Of course I dont go to far as I hate wet sheets and a wet mattress.    And it is usually at the end of training, amazing how much it eases her pain too.  Leads to a real sweet intimate moment as well.

Afterwards when I am happy and very relaxed....well Fair is Fair...as she knows my spots well.

Tickling is really enhanced with a blindfold...so they cant see it coming![:)]



Sandyshores29718 -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 6:05:11 PM)

*Fast reply*

I like tickling, but not for the erotic side of it.  I enjoy the laughter and just being young.  Tickling can bring out the child in almost anyone; however, tickling can VERY much lead to other things and in my case it does. lol



Roselaure -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 6:24:17 PM)

I have always hated tickling.  Really, really hated it.  My Dom and I had never discussed it.  One afternoon, I was lying on my side next to him, when he casually pinned my legs down with his, and lifted my arm over my head.  He began lightly, slowly and quite playfully running his fingers over my ribs.  Reflexively I tried to jerk away but I didn't get far.  I steeled myself and took it, whimpering, he knew how much of a challenge it was for me to hold myself still and allow myself to be tickled, but I did not ask him to stop and he continued.  In that moment I reached a level of physical and mental surrender that I had not known before.  I know it seems silly from just tickling and he certainly didn't start out for it to be that way, but it was a huge moment, both for me personally and for the cementing of our dynamic.



silkncarol -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 6:34:21 PM)

Light teasing tickling i can deal with..... more than that it tends to make me really angry! 

When we were kids my older brother would tickle me unmercifully...way past the point of it being funny.



QandA -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 6:50:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
It isn;t the tickling per se that is erotic, it's the control. He tickles, I wriggle around and wind up on my knees pleading with him to stop, promising to be good. And while I'm down there, something else usually comes up [:D]


quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes
Little teasing tickles in moderation have their place, it can be fun and cute, but you have to learn when to stop.  Tickling unmercifully until I can't breathe and I'm peeing myself will get you killed while you sleep.


I've got to agree with these ladies. (And had to bold that last segment to get Q's attention.  *impish grin*  Love you, Sir!)

I have a love/hate relationship with being tickled.  I don't particularly enjoy the sensation of being tickled, but I love knowing that I have my Sir's undivided attention at that moment.

Unintentional tickles (when he doesn't know that his foot is brushing up against me, or when he's stroking my hand or face and it's tickly instead) are just obnoxious.  Leaves me feeling prickly.

Either we've been really lucky, or he's very good at reading me and knowing when he's about to go too far.  He's never tickled me breathless.  If he did that then something that started as fun and silly would quickly turn into something scary and semi-traumatic.

lil Aidan



monywildcat -> RE: ANOTHER Tickling and also a general question on BDSM relationships (10/11/2008 8:20:27 PM)

I love the tickling.  I love it when I get tackled, tickled mercilessly, this leads to playful chasing and wrestling around, and other things...

But I always seem to forget that Daddy is not ticklish.  At all.  Grr. 



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