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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 12:49:40 AM

obis

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Only time I've ever "hidden" anything was to delete history/cookies when checking from someone else's computer (like from my Mom's over thanksgiving). It's not that I'm keeping anything secret, I just don't want them to autocomplete into a bondage site or be logged into my collarme messages by accident. I do the same to keep my mom from visiting slashdot.org by accident.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 3:15:07 AM

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The only thing i may do online that is a secret is if i am buying a gift. Other wise i dont hide or do anything secretly. My hub can stand right next to me and i dont hide or close the page. i have never.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 3:44:27 AM

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I access it whenever I want. I have not told anyone. I delete the cookies and cache but not for any reasons that stem from this site.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 4:08:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I access too much, but mainly the message board. I have a message board addiction, and this is one of a few that I visit with frequency.

Me too! I have 8 boards that I go to. Granted some are small and not much goes on most days, but I still pop in.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 6:10:32 AM

KatyLied

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Me too! I have 8 boards that I go to

Okay, pretty feet, your problem is bigger than mine!
Some of the smaller boards are the most fun, posters have an opportunity to get to know each other, support each other, on-line chat cocktail parties, etc.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 6:29:49 AM

GIGGLEBOB

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I've got friends that know what my tastes are and some that are curious but on the whole I keep it to myself. My family know cos they have stumbled upon me while I am looking but I wouldn't have told them cos I know they dont undersatnd.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 8:02:19 AM

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I live with my wife (who doesn't play) and I typically clean and delete histories. I'm not exactly hiding anything since I know she knows about this, but I'm not slapping her in the face with it either. Even my Sub doesn't know I come to CM. I enjoy having the ability to ask questions, get ideas and learn things here without her knowing that I'm doing it.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 8:38:45 AM

FTopinMichigan

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ORIGINAL: MojoRisin
Who here secretly accesses collarme.com when no one is home? Who deletes the internet history when people return? Who has told no one in their real life about this site?

I'm not ashamed of what sites I enjoy online, or what I do. If I had to be "sercret" about it, or deliberately delete things, everytime I signed on, I wouldn't bother with getting online in the first place.

K

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 8:46:52 AM

DesertRat

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I live alone....well, with my two cats, actually...so I can do what I want. Nothing to hide here. Two of my friends know the true extent of my proclivities. Others just know that I am "available".

Bob

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 12:12:39 PM

LadyHibiscus

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I have friends that I am not out to, but I have a private email address, so my family doesn't need to see my bookmarks. Of course, at any given moment, a 97 yr old is liable to come in and hang with me, so I have to learn about the fast use of the "minimize" key! Wouldn't want to excite her toooo much.......

I can't get to this site at work, and hey, when I am at work, I am *working*.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 1:51:33 PM

ExistentialSteel

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I'm not quite sure what you are asking? Do I let the world know that I am into bdsm?

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 1:59:32 PM

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Who here secretly accesses collarme.com when no one is home? Who deletes the internet history when people return? Who has told no one in their real life about this site?

1.None of your business.
2.None of your business.
3.None of your business.

Question for you....Do you work for the C.I.A./F.B.I. , or any investigative goverment organization? Why the Lame questions?

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 2:33:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MojoRisin

Who here secretly accesses collarme.com when no one is home? Who deletes the internet history when people return? Who has told no one in their real life about this site?

I admit, I do.

mmmmmmmm nope.... but then my life is different.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/8/2005 5:57:35 PM

sultryvoice

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I am not out to my family except for my daughter. Most of my friends are in this lifestyle, so there isn't a problem. This is my computer and what I do is my business only..I like the boards on cm. I'm not on any others..

There...straight and to the point!

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/9/2005 4:23:48 PM

Chris123

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OK I only just (just as in less than an hour ago!) finished my last exam of high school. I go (went) to an all boy's school. You can't let it get out that you cry during "I am Sam", let alone tell people that you think it would be neat for a girl to piss on you while laughing in your face.

I live with my Mom and she doesn't know. I don't tell anyone and I delete my history dilligently.

< Message edited by Chris123 -- 12/9/2005 4:27:06 PM >

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/10/2005 12:26:54 AM

amayos

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Having now the lifestyle I sought out from an early age (I knew I was different back when I was ten), I needn't hide from anything. It's really alien to me, thinking of having to cover one's tracks like that...must get quite tedious!

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/10/2005 10:29:38 PM

wipmebeetme100

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quote:

Everyone knows who I am. I would be a fraud if I had to hide who I was.

HEAR! HEAR! I agree completely.

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/10/2005 10:34:08 PM

wipmebeetme100

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quote:

You can't let it get out that you cry during "I am Sam", let alone tell people that you think it would be neat for a girl to piss on you while laughing in your face.

Well....it is a great way to meet like minded people.

Congrats on finishing highschool. I never did....and was 44 years old before i took my GED.

cathy

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/10/2005 10:40:00 PM

windy135

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I think most people would be surprised of my interest in BDSM, I have nothing to hide it's just something that doesn't always come up in convo. My best friend knows, but he doesn't really get it.. I have my own computer so joy!

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RE: When Do You Access CM? - 12/11/2005 12:53:21 AM

MsPurrmeow

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I hide nothing. There's no point. Of my two guys that I share my life with, one is a super-geek who can find anything he really wants to find online. He lurks around on some personals sites, so I'm pretty sure he reads a lot that I post. I also have no problem with them reading over my shoulder as I type. Like I said, there's nothing about my desires that I hide from them. It's up to them to bring it up in conversation, though. Tact is about not throwing it in their faces.
I love them both very dearly, and they can choose to be a part of this aspect of my life or not, but it's their choices to make. No point in hiding anything, that would just imply that it was worthy of guilt, which I do not believe my kink to be.

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