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serisa -> Do you stay in space? (10/11/2008 4:48:56 PM)

have any other slaves/subs shared the experience of staying in space for days after a scene as oppose to Your Dom helping you come back out of it?   However, instead of the 'cant talk', 'cant do'... you are fully functioning to go about Your day to day life... just still in space?

love to hear others experiences of this.

thank you




littlewonder -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/11/2008 4:56:30 PM)

It usually goes something like this for me....

I zone out while playing. I can't talk, can't move..I just space out completely....
That usually lasts for the duration of the playing.
I then move into the drop stage. My body starts to feel a crash from the adrenaline and endorphins.
This usually lasts anywhere from an hour to 24 hours.
After that I fall into this stage where all I want to do is please him, do anything I can for him....I want to worship him. That lasts usually a day to a week and during that stage if we are not together I simply miss him to the point it hurts and that can last a really long time.




Esclava2one -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/11/2008 5:09:06 PM)

Oh my goodness that so happened to me.  During O/our session i kinda zoned out i was aware but not there, if you know what i mean.  But Master kept bringing me back to the surface, i would stay up for a bit and then back down i would go.  Afterward when leaving His home i was very shaking had a feeling like i had been drinking, and it took all my strength not to turn around and beg Him not to let me stay.  The next few days i felt like i just needed to be with and around Him and like you said i did miss Him to the point it hurt.




DesFIP -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/11/2008 7:08:07 PM)

I think you're confusing subspace and headspace. I don't stay in subspace afterwards, I couldn't walk straight let alone drive in that condition.

But I have been brought into a very submissive headspace where I just follow him around and try to be as close as possible afterwards, stand behind his chair while he's playing computer games, snuggle up on his lap if he sits down on the couch etc.




AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/11/2008 9:43:12 PM)

Only if I'm on a planet ruled by women like myself. ;)

(sorry, couldn't resist that one)




Viridana -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/11/2008 11:39:49 PM)

Look up the word "sub frenzy".  I think it would answer the majority of your question. 




sirsholly -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/12/2008 6:24:30 AM)

Subspace generally is still there with me the following morning....




natasha66 -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/12/2008 6:43:35 AM)

It stays with me anywhere from 12-24 hours generally....




CaraCaeth -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/12/2008 2:07:42 PM)

For me subspace is very intense, like Esclava said kind of a feeling like the disorientation from drinking heavily.  i also get very light-headed, shaky, can't walk straight kind of feeling.  But then i'll have periods that i think of as more like "clingy times" where i want to snuggle and do anything and everything for Master, just be close to Him no matter what i'm doing.  But for me, it really has no correlation with playtime, it's really just more of a emotional cycle i go through . . .




Honalori -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/13/2008 12:31:59 PM)

Okay, I am guessing the karmic wheel is kicking me in the head.... Two posts both very much touching my now issues after months of not wanting to post... But I think I am currently having a similar issue. I had a great weekend in which I met and played with a Dom. It was wonderful. But now, I am fairly disorganized mess. I am not functioning at my best mentally and am exhausted/ in a fugue.... I just assumed it was a lack of rest from the weekend.... Did I miss something? I am not myself... The Dom is fairly new to the whole BDSM, and I while I have been a submissive sexual partner all my life I have not had any real "Doms" long term or even a lot of interaction within the scene.... Its been at least 28 hours since I left him.... any advice is welcome...




lovingpet -> RE: Do you stay in space? (10/13/2008 4:38:23 PM)

I think that would be a yes for me.  I will not say that I am as deep down as I am at the end of a scene, but I am very much still inside my own head and not connecting fully with reality.  I am not quite sure how I function when I am like that, but I seem to manage.  Then the clingy, miss him sooo much thing starts in.

Given my current state of affairs, I think I will leave it at that before I get all mushy and emotional. 

lovingpet




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