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True Slavery - 10/13/2008 8:54:35 PM   
slave694UtoUse


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone,
I just want to hear from other subs, especially slaves who are owned, on true slavery and the urge to be a slave before enslavement occurred. In particular what I would term true slavery.

Does anyone else have or have had the deep seated need to be hunted like an animal by Women or TS or Shemale Lady's. Captured, enslaved by force, kept by them dressed, naked or any combination of the two dressed states and made to serve them sexually as well as be their pain slut or anything else they want. In fact it doesn't really need to be bdsm.
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RE: True Slavery - 10/13/2008 9:29:31 PM   
sravaka


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Status: offline 		I hate to say it... but it's not a bad question underneath the "true"ness and general wankerdom....   Not what is a slave vs. sub (god forbid)... but, how do you decide for yourself where/how you fit?

But, I'll refrain from hijacking.  No doubt this has been done to death too.


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RE: True Slavery - 10/13/2008 9:32:53 PM   
trueshadow


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Status: offline 		I've been a slave all of my life, though I didn't realize it until in my teens and twenties.  I've never thought about be hunted down by a dominant woman, but that would be delightful.  I have had a life-long desire to submit to a woman, service her, minister to her, take care of her needs while she rules me.  I especially enjoy being naked in front of my owner, and who ever she brings over to the house, as she desires.  Practically, one must be clothed most of the time unless one lives on a South Seas island paradise.  Being a sexual slave would be the ultimate, but it doesn't have to be part of my slavery. 

I expect my owner to have the freedom to sample whomever she wants, while I don't have that freedom.  I would love to be punished on a regular or irregular basis, as she sees fit.  As everyone makes mistakes, I expect that some of those moments will result in me being whipped, flogged, or otherwise beaten. 

One must learn to live with one's expectations or desires not being fulfilled, as she is the one in control. 

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RE: True Slavery - 10/13/2008 10:32:57 PM   
Usako


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No offense, but your username might have more dominant women running for the hills rather than chasing you down. And no, I've never thought such things and I would be turned off if a guy suggested the idea as how he wanted to be approached. It sounds like wanker fodder and aside from maybe a role play session, I don't see anyone jumping at the bit to do it.

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 1:42:47 AM   
RCdc


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Yes - many people have that 'urge'.  Few realise it however.  But before you can become the prey, you have to know and understand what is hunting you.  And I don't know, by looking at your profile nor your choice of name that you do.  I'm not even sure you know yourself? Get that worked out first hunni.
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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 2:16:28 AM   
leashseeker


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Status: offline 		Personally it sounds like a fantasy unless you find a group or place like the OWK. This is definately a fantasy of mine. Of course this is my opinion.

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 2:20:49 AM   
allyC


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Status: offline 		Hello to you. I won't berate you on the "true" slavery thing.  To each his or her own I guess :)   As for having the urge to be a slave before enslavement, I never really had that urge.  I did, however, have the urge to be dominated  - to know what it was to be in a relationship with someone who was strong enough and trustworthy enough for me to not fear such dominance.  It was a relatively new urge or rather a final acknowledgement of one that existed for some time. It was the way our relationship progressed that drove me to where I am now.  It was an organic thing that evolved naturally as a result of who he was and his mastery and who I was and my reaction to it.  It wasn't until I was smack dab in the middle of the process that I realized I wanted to be his slave.  In fact, for the most part I already was before he ever placed the collar on my neck.
As for the second paragraph, I do understand the desire to feel like "prey" to some extent.  I rather felt like his prey quite a bit during the onset of our relationship.  Sometimes I still do!  I have never had that urge, however, with a woman, a TS, or a shemale as you put it.  Well wishes, Cav's ally  

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 4:59:30 AM   
ExKat


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Status: offline 		  You certainly aren't the only male sub with this fantasy (certainly, one seems to be posting it every few months). However, it's essentially impossible for this to happen as you fantasize it...first, you would have to find a domina/ts/shemale/dare I say, dom? to date. Then you'd have to do the whole wine and dine, get into a relationship with them. And then, maybe, you could convince her to play out this fantasy with you.

Hot females aren't kidnapping men off the street. Predatorial women don't have Sub Scanners (c) to identify which men secretly desire to be captured and led into a life of slavery- and to be honest, I doubt most men with your fantasy actually want a life of slavery....maybe just a weekend.

It might be possible for you to convince a pro-domina to act out something similar, although I kind of doubt it, since there would always be the risk they'd kidnap the wrong submissive!

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 5:04:19 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		I actually do think the OP sounds a bit like an advert more than anything else. However benifit of the doubt being given I had a desire to be submissive before being with someone or else I wouldnt have joined the website. I notice more now that the desire was there before I realised it. Im not sure about the hunting analogy I think that entering into the relationship is more a case of choosing someone compatable rather than simply being with whatever picks you. I wouldnt want to be enslaved by force because then I would be driven by fear I far prefer being driven by desire, respect and often times awe.

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 10:41:38 AM   
littlemisssnarf


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Status: offline 		for me it has depended on the Dom/Master.... for example in my last D/s relationship i was certainly submissive but was not a slave... in my own determination of what the differences are - which i suspect are as individual as we all are!

Now however with Master my inner being has gone much deeper than subbie and i am yearning and leaning towards what i believe is slave.... currently i am having a little inner turmoil around some of this but with lots of talk and acceptance on my part i am becoming proud of my new self titled position.....

i truly believe that this is as subjective as art or poetry and equally as beautiful!

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 11:05:12 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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quote:

Women or TS or Shemale


sigh...here i am again.... there is NO such thing as a shemale.  a shemale is a porno term  that was used alot in the 50s,60s.  shemales are the same as transsexuals although this type of transsexual does not take hormones and gets implants and often is in the sex industry where they use the $ to pay for SRS although some of this type dont get SRS.  however shemale is often used in places like thailand.  but the term isnt real.

and as far as being true.... all subs and slaves are true.  each have their own way of doing things and set of rules/limits.  there is no one difinitive way to be a sub or slave.  just as there is no difinitive way of being a dom/mistress.


< Message edited by faerytattoodgirl -- 10/14/2008 11:06:49 AM >

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 11:20:57 AM   
OttersSwim


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ExKat
...Hot females aren't kidnapping men off the street. ...


Dammit! 

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 12:16:08 PM   
softness


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Status: offline 		Otter .... put that Bond-Trap down ... its bad and naughty ... you have to learn to SHARE!


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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 1:41:36 PM   
IvyMorgan


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Status: offline 		Part of why it has taken me so long to think about finding a relationship is that I have been getting to know me, what I want, what makes me tick, etc.

I knew who I was, even if that scares me, before I started thinking about this relationship.

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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 2:59:32 PM   
metalmiss


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Status: offline 		It all seems a little too "fantasy" to me, and as colouredin says.. It does really seem like an advert. But each to their own.

i could be wrong but you don't seem too sure about who you are or what you are really seeking.. In my experience before taking a step into the place of a slave, it best to do a LOT of self analysing first.. You have to be able to know, understand and accept exactly what it is that you are offering. The hunting seems a little off to me too, again in an ideal world i can see the appeal, but there's this little thing called real life.. And the chances of finding somebody who would seriously want to do that to you, with a view to following it with the lifestyle you seem to be seeking are minimal in the first place.. The chances that your wants and needs would be compatible? I wouldn't like to think..

i have had, what i now recognise as a natural urge to submit, all of my life.. And i am lucky enough to have found my Master.. Even more lucky in the level of our compatibility.. i am now completely lost in my own submission, as His slave, with His control touching all parts of my life. But the journey to get here was a long and rocky one.

i hope that you find what you seek xxx


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RE: True Slavery - 10/14/2008 6:25:01 PM   
UWILLSERVEUS


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Status: offline 		Do a search and you'll find your answer

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