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Lifestyle Domina? - 10/14/2008 4:00:37 AM

malesubmissive4u

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Hi I am a 28 year old submissive. I do like servicing the Mistress...it could be doing house hold chores, foot massage and pampering the mistress. Not into a heavy pain but do like humiliation as well. I have noticed that I enjoy obeying orders and servicing. I have seen professional mistresses on few occassions before but somehow it doesnt turn me on. Whereas when I was in a realationship and my ex asked for a foot massage or ordered me to clean the house, I enjoyed it. Majority of Domina's on collarme are Professional, Where and how can I find a lifestyle domina? Please help

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RE: Lifestyle Domina? - 10/14/2008 4:11:40 AM

MsStarlett

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Drat! Still no 'house boys' in my area.

You could move to the States. ;)

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RE: Lifestyle Domina? - 10/14/2008 5:23:14 AM

Madame4a

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ORIGINAL: malesubmissive4u

Hi I am a 28 year old submissive. I do like servicing the Mistress...it could be doing house hold chores, foot massage and pampering the mistress. Not into a heavy pain but do like humiliation as well. I have noticed that I enjoy obeying orders and servicing. I have seen professional mistresses on few occassions before but somehow it doesnt turn me on. Whereas when I was in a realationship and my ex asked for a foot massage or ordered me to clean the house, I enjoyed it. Majority of Domina's on collarme are Professional, Where and how can I find a lifestyle domina? Please help

Search this forum on how to find a Mistress (there are pages of ideas)
turn off your computer and go out to local things in your area
don't try so hard, find a nice friend and then maybe a Domina...

by the way, the majority of the Domina's on collarme that you are interacting with might be professional, but I'm not sure that's true generally

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RE: Lifestyle Domina? - 10/14/2008 1:34:10 PM

Usako

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Simple answer, look harder.

I've never searched Aussie dommes but I'm sure not EVERY woman there is a pro. Try other websites, CM isn't the only BDSM dating site. Google and look for local clubs or gatherings, munches, etc.

Blah blah, cliché advice.

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RE: Lifestyle Domina? - 10/14/2008 2:05:39 PM

SnowRanger

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I mop a mean floor and I'm only one state away!

Hello All,

To the OP: I started out having sessions with pro also. Personally, I sought out one who was into the scene as a lifestyle also. I found it to be a very positive experience. I am sorry that you have not found it to be so. In any case, keep looking! Get involved locally if you can.
Don't give up!

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RE: Lifestyle Domina? - 10/14/2008 8:01:53 PM

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Plenty of lifestyle Dommes in Australia, though not all of Us live in the major cities! Over My years in the scene in Perth and here, I've met way more lifestylers than pros. However I am sure you must be able to find the scene in Melbourne and then locate a lifestyle Domme eventually. Good luck!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Lifestyle Domina? - 10/15/2008 9:22:04 AM

footlover55

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I know this is "Ask a Mistress" but I thought I would put this in. My experience is that Internet dating does not work very well. When I met someone for the first time we had similar interests but usually no chemistry. I think Madame4a had an excellent idea in that you go out to D&S functions and meet people.

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