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CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/14/2008 11:20:37 PM   
dregsz


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Status: offline 		Hi All,
I had a less then great incident at work a bout 3 weeks ago, where an argument w a coworker, (she was arguing, I was asking her nicely) got me into a little hot water for stirring up the staff.
Anyway, I said F it, and since then, have locked myself in my private back office and not said a word to anyone for nearly 3 weeks.
I just hang out in collarchat, and come out when paged to see clients, go back and chat.
The new office manager, (trouble shooter) came to me after a front office training session today that I didn't attend, (I'm back office), and said, "I don't know what you did, but Every comment made about you (me) today was positive". That never happens as I'm usually pissing someone off. ( I'm told Doms like to push button). Since I'm the newest guy the hen house likes to talk SH about me, and usually has a reason.
Well,I didn't do Anything but stay out of sight and chat chat chat online, here.
Thanks Collarchat, for making me look good at work.
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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/14/2008 11:28:20 PM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		Be sure you clean out your history and any other traces of your use of the employer's pc to go on CM.....I had a friend who ended in terrible trouble for this.
 
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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/14/2008 11:30:11 PM   
dregsz


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Status: offline 		I will say that some offices might not like execs or staff spending time on an adult site during the day, but I'm sort of an independant contractor/executive, not on payroll, and they asked me to, "Just don't print downloaded porn onto the main printer" (located right into the middle of the hen house), content isn't blocked or limited
So my condition is to keep what I do very private. I don't recommend trying this at your office

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/14/2008 11:36:42 PM   
dregsz


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Status: offline 		thanks candy, prolly a good privacy measure.

I usually try to just collapse the screen when I leave the privacy of my office, (mid scene ) and take a minute so to make sure I don't greet clients w a huge woody blasting through the front of my slacks.

but clearing history was something that crossed my mind as a good precaution

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 2:44:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		I totally acknowledge that I may have misread your OP however it seems that more than anything you are practicing avoidance by locking yourself in your office chatting all day and I am not sure how long that can successfully work for.

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 3:56:36 AM   
Motionflipotion


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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 11:33:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		OP, are there any openings at this company? :)

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 11:48:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		LMFAO === that is just to funny.  You might try using Googles new web server chrome because it does has a feature that does not record your movement.  There also a free program called CCleaner that is great for cleaning up messes.

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 12:25:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		so they are happy that you locked yourself away.

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 12:36:27 PM   
NorthernGent


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dregsz

Anyway, I said F it, and since then, have locked myself in my private back office and not said a word to anyone for nearly 3 weeks.

The new office manager, (trouble shooter) came to me after a front office training session today that I didn't attend, (I'm back office), and said, "I don't know what you did, but Every comment made about you (me) today was positive".



Have you considered the possiblity that he/she was concerned with you isolating yourself, and took the opportunity to boost your confidence? No manager worth his/her salt is going to let you fester in solitary confinement.

Having said that, you'll be wise to heed this piece of advice: grasp the peace offering, because in the event you don't, he/she will not risk a depression case on his/her hands, which means the manager will find a way to get rid of you.

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 1:48:00 PM   
JustDarkness


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Status: offline 		deleting cookies on your pc is not helping much when the companies server logs als traffic...lol

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 1:50:27 PM   
Motionflipotion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

quote:

ORIGINAL: dregsz

Anyway, I said F it, and since then, have locked myself in my private back office and not said a word to anyone for nearly 3 weeks.

The new office manager, (trouble shooter) came to me after a front office training session today that I didn't attend, (I'm back office), and said, "I don't know what you did, but Every comment made about you (me) today was positive".



Have you considered the possiblity that he/she was concerned with you isolating yourself, and took the opportunity to boost your confidence? No manager worth his/her salt is going to let you fester in solitary confinement.

Having said that, you'll be wise to heed this piece of advice: grasp the peace offering, because in the event you don't, he/she will not risk a depression case on his/her hands, which means the manager will find a way to get rid of you.



NorthernGent is right. I'd take both our advice in succession. Then tell them that you are part African American, then everyone will be afraid of offending you.

Half joking,

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 2:37:21 PM   
FRSguy


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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

deleting cookies on your pc is not helping much when the companies server logs als traffic...lol

:P


Thats true ... you would have to see if the individual company does that or not.  I am the I.T. director for ours and I make it a point not to. We have kind of a dont ask / dont tell / definatly dont show policy...lol

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 3:00:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Motionflipotion

My trich is to cry on demand. Also pretending to be gay works.
Sounds stupid but it works.
Women have a soft spot for cry babies and gay fem guys.


That is soooo not true.

Men that cry totally creep me out. As for gay men, i don't have a problem with them at all, most the guys I know are awesome, but if you are acting "fem" just to get attention I find it annoying as hell. If they are genuine then no issues.

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 3:09:54 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		I don't think I would count on this being the way to deal with your work life on a full time basis.  I think learning to control your button pushing impulses would be more effective and greatly appreciated.  There are ways to express dominance that do not have to result in you appearing to be a jackass.  Shouldn't you really have the hen house eagerly scratching and pecking for your attention?  (kidding, kidding... sheesh)

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 4:53:06 PM   
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My trick is to cry on demand. Also pretending to be gay works.
Sounds stupid but it works.
Women have a soft spot for cry babies and gay fem guys.


Oh really?


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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 5:04:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Motionflipotion

My trich is to cry on demand. Also pretending to be gay works.
Sounds stupid but it works.
Women have a soft spot for cry babies and gay fem guys.


how can u be a fem guy with all that hair????


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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 7:07:27 PM   
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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 7:08:29 PM   
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where are those tsp reports dammit  


Ummm...that would be "TPS" reports. Damn typos.

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RE: CollarMe helps Job Performance Review - 10/15/2008 7:14:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FRSguy
I am the I.T. director for ours and I make it a point not to. We have kind of a dont ask / dont tell / definatly dont show policy...lol


Awww, that's no fun.  The showing is the best part! 

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