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BoiJen -> Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 7:26:44 PM)

Okay...This is the story.

MsK and I are at it now cuz we disagree about something neither of us can prove at this very moment sowe're relying on you all to help us settle this. (No worries...we're not killing eachother.)

MsK thinks prostate milking is hot because:
A: She has control
B: It could be very humiliating to the male involved
C: Orgasm denial for the guy

I think whatever about A and B...I don't care unless it involves me. (I'm selfish like that lol). When it comes to C though...I think there's been lies spread. I think that the whole guys don't experience orgasm during prostate milking is a pitch to get Women to stick thier fingers up guys' asses and a way for straight guys to not admit they like it up the ass (who don't want to admit it). (As for those who do...right on for being honest!)

I'd like to hear the responses of those with experience and those with enough research to back up their view on this. I couldn't find conclusive evidence one way or the other in the search feature on the site.

Thanks for helping us settle this. Now, I'm going to see if we can play "Let's pretend I have a prostate." lol

boiJen




suhlut -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 7:33:25 PM)

k.. while you go play with MsK.. i will just sit right here.. with my empty milk glass and package of oreo cookies, to see what others answers are.




MsLadySue -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 7:49:06 PM)

Guys do experience orgasm from prostate milking. I gave my long term boy 5 in a row within about 30 minutes. He loves anal play and says his orgasms are much stronger that way than by masturbation. 




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 7:50:36 PM)

The responses I have got from milking is "that felt weird", coupled with amazement at how that fluid looked just falling out of the penis, instead of squirting.   No one has responded like there was an orgasm.  Not so far, anyway~[8D]




yourMissTress -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 8:00:16 PM)

I think it depends on the person.  How much they enjoy it, get into it, how sensitive the prostate is all has some impact on whether they are simply being milked or getting off on it. 

I have had men orgasm explosively from milking and others that just leaked semen.  




HandSolo -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 8:32:05 PM)

There's two things at work. A man can orgasm from prostate stimulation. Well, actually, a man could orgasm from practically anything, in certain circumstances...

What I think of as "prostate milking," however, would not involve orgasm, but massaging the prostate's secretions out of the urethra. There would be a very obvious difference in color and consistency, the prostate's volume being thinner, and more translucent than an ejaculation. If a man is not otherwise stimulated, an efficient (as opposed to sensual) milking will drain the prostate without providing much stimulation. If you ice down the gentleman before starting, it should be easy to get the desired result with virtually no chance of an orgasm.




CdnExplorer -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 8:40:41 PM)

I suspect that actual orgasms from milking are something that many guys could learn to do, but it takes a lot of time and effort. Take a look at the aneros forums to get an idea about what I mean: http://www.aneros.com/forum/index.php

It seems that through the use of a prostate massager some guys are able to achieve a very powerful orgasm, or a sensation that is very similar but far more intense. I've tried it a few times and haven't gotten anywhere close to anything I'd describe as overly stimulating. Some guys take ages to figure out how to do it, and that leads me to suspect that the vast majority of guys who get into the milking thing really don't experience an orgasm. What I always understood as the denial portion of milking though, is that once the prostate is empty orgasm is impossible. Basically what happens is all the stimulation causes prostatic fluid to build up, and once a certain threshold is reached orgasm can begin. The muscle contractions and whatnot force the fluid out etc. Without the fluid there to act on, the muscles can't really do anything (and they may not even be triggered into attempting to perform that function).




BoiJen -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 8:46:20 PM)

Specifically to CdnExplorer, how, then, do guys have "dry orgasms"? I been told about these too. But given what you're saying, if the prostate is drained then there would be no orgasm at all...which means it's "impossible" to have a dry orgasm. Again I have no idea.

boiJen
Checking out websites too

PS After reading some of the chat at the link provided, I've come to the conclusion (no offense) that some of those guys just aren't doing it right. With all of my personal encounters with guys who are willing to admit they enjoy anal stimulation from their partners, it's ALWAYS enhanced orgasm. Sorry...I just think some of the guys are masturbating wrong. Not tryna catch hell here.




BoiJen -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 9:06:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HandSolo

There's two things at work. A man can orgasm from prostate stimulation. Well, actually, a man could orgasm from practically anything, in certain circumstances...

What I think of as "prostate milking," however, would not involve orgasm, but massaging the prostate's secretions out of the urethra. There would be a very obvious difference in color and consistency, the prostate's volume being thinner, and more translucent than an ejaculation. If a man is not otherwise stimulated, an efficient (as opposed to sensual) milking will drain the prostate without providing much stimulation. If you ice down the gentleman before starting, it should be easy to get the desired result with virtually no chance of an orgasm.



Please define the techincal differences of medical (only) prostate draining and sensual milking. Is it a matter of how long the stimulation is occuring? Is it how it occurs? What draws that line? Is it a matter of the end result? And can you identify where you got your information please? Thanks.

boiJen




OttersSwim -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/15/2008 10:13:03 PM)

I cannot speak to milking, but can definitely say from direct experience that, at least for me, stimulation of my prostate before a climax makes that climax a whole body, mind, soul, and neighborhood experience as I cry out and flop around like a fish totally out of my head!  Definitely a WHOA moment... [:D]  




undergroundsea -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/16/2008 6:05:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen
Specifically to CdnExplorer, how, then, do guys have "dry orgasms"?


I interpret dry orgasm to mean that a man achieves orgasm without noticeable ejaculation.

If several ejaculations have recently been had, it is possible to achieve orgasm in which very little ejaculate, if any, exits. I think the factors that are relevant here are how much inventory there is in the factory (which in turn depends on how many ejaculations have occurred in the recent past and how much time has elapsed since then, diet, hydration) and how much stimulation or how much time elapsed in the build up to orgasm (if the mind gets there much before the body). I expect age and stress could also play a role.

Other than that, who knows;  maybe guys also fake orgasms ;-)

Cheers,

Sea




HandSolo -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/16/2008 7:45:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

quote:

ORIGINAL: HandSolo

There's two things at work. A man can orgasm from prostate stimulation. Well, actually, a man could orgasm from practically anything, in certain circumstances...

What I think of as "prostate milking," however, would not involve orgasm, but massaging the prostate's secretions out of the urethra. There would be a very obvious difference in color and consistency, the prostate's volume being thinner, and more translucent than an ejaculation. If a man is not otherwise stimulated, an efficient (as opposed to sensual) milking will drain the prostate without providing much stimulation. If you ice down the gentleman before starting, it should be easy to get the desired result with virtually no chance of an orgasm.



Please define the techincal differences of medical (only) prostate draining and sensual milking. Is it a matter of how long the stimulation is occuring? Is it how it occurs? What draws that line? Is it a matter of the end result? And can you identify where you got your information please? Thanks.

boiJen



Well, I'm not a doctor, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.

As I understand it/ in my experience/YMMV:

The prostate is an erogenous zone, I have orgasmed solely from prostate stimulation, but only when I was highly aroused already, and only from a pretty determined stimulation. The more arousal, the less direct stimulation would be required. For example (skip to the next paragraph if a frank discussion of male naughty bits is icky), for a while I engaged in a lot of solo anal play, with a mind towards increasing my maximum capacity. I was working on a new, larger toy, I was quite worked up. As the toy made it past it's widest point, and made a quick move upwards and forward, I went off like an IED. The emission was unmistakably semen, the experience was unmistakably an orgasm. It is also a bit difficult to replicate. I like to imagine that the prostate orgasm is somewhat akin to the experience of the female orgasm.

As for the milking, if  the male starts physically unaroused, and the prostate is massaged without fanfare, and the stimulation is kept brief and businesslike, the prostate's contents will be moved out, with a sensation much like urination. The physical pressure to orgasm will be relieved, however, the usual sorts of stimulation of the male anatomy will result in an orgasm without the mandatory recharge time, albeit with a reduced volume of ejaculate.






malloves69 -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/16/2008 1:25:41 PM)

my mistress milks my prostate alot since she fists me on a weekly basis [:)] she loves the control she has over me when she does so ..when her fingers get ahold of my prostate im totally at her mercy because theres noway shes going to stop until i stop dripping cum out of my cock [:)] once its all out she usually feeds it back to me ..i have no control over it and it does feel different then a normal way of coming ...while i drip out more cum from her fingers the one big shot of cum at the begining just doesnt happen ..at least to me it doesnt ..when she goes couple times i have jacked off after she has left and i swear i have nothing left in me to let out [:)] my mistress knows my ass and prostate well i must say [:)] she is a amazing woman indeed ..sometimes when she gives me a hand job or a bj and rubs my prostate at the same time ..that way of coming can be pretty intense too [:)] have fun ..mal




tweedydaddy -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/16/2008 3:21:53 PM)

What on Earth have I been missing ?????




MistresseLotus -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/16/2008 3:43:40 PM)

It doesn't matter.. it's a total win for the guy :)




Steponme73 -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/16/2008 3:48:54 PM)

I think this is fascinating...however, way more information than I needed.
And I didn't stay in a Holiday Inn Express last night.




malloves69 -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/17/2008 3:51:36 AM)

agree ..[:)] a ladys fingers up a guys butt is a win situation once she finds his prostate [:)]just make sure your clean for her to go  exploring [:)]love a lady in control [:)] mal




MsStarlett -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/17/2008 4:16:25 AM)

Thank you Han for your clinical observation.  Very informative. 

Somehow, I always find Mal's descriptions way more fun.  After all, he IS the forum expert on male ass play and clean up. 

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PeonForHer -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/17/2008 4:33:17 AM)

 . . . .What Otters said - though I'd never heard it called "prostate milking" before.  Orgasms that were super-strong, and really good, but of an entirely different kind to "the usual".  Maybe the nearest a male could get to having a "female-type orgasm" - though that'd be impossible for me to know, of course.  The woman involved seemed to have a 'magic touch' - it never happened after her.




sfdrew -> RE: Prostate Milking- I think those guys are full of something (10/17/2008 5:37:59 AM)

For me it feels like that moment just before you're going to orgasm, but you don't. That feeling that usually lasts for only a fraction of a second to warn you that orgasm is imminent gets strung out for tens of minutes.




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