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jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Fears (12/9/2005 11:44:39 PM)

greetings m who....
funny i have heard that question beofre...is it you ?????
anyway it is a firghtening question only an s would come up with and scares me to the core if i were asked in a room full of top sadists but if asked in bed by my lover well it would sweep me off my feet forever...
i dont expect that i really know the real answer to that question either .....i expect a top should know exactly what you like and dislike if
they like or want you at all.......




jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Fears (12/9/2005 11:55:28 PM)

greetings,m who.....
funny:
i know; i heard that same question before...(is it you!?),
if i were asked in a room full of doms; i'd be frightened,
if asked by my lover; i'd be swept away....
i expect a top should know what a slave likes and ,dislikes, if they like the slave ,if not;
they do the opposit of what a slave likes anyway.


i myself hate, to know what my doms'" worst fear is", because somehow it hurts me......




truesub4u -> RE: Fears (12/9/2005 11:59:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Sensualips

Failing to provide for or adequately protect my children.



BINGO! That alone is my biggest fear.

Second... Some idiot passes a law allowing Bush to run a 3rd time!




amayos -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 12:20:47 AM)

Someone dying while I'm beating them. lol




jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 2:15:36 AM)

greetings m who
i just thot of one of my worst fears
that really buggs me
and that's meeting one to one a very famous; well known ;respected world renouned person and, not knowing ,at all ,that they are that famous person with me........worst nitemare
other things next to that
i thot would never happen in a million years but ,did happen was knowing and ,seeing a crib hit...probably my darkest day of all........next to facing the end of the world...cause ,that's what it genuinely felt like,and, i hope i never have ,to face being a 'crib hit' witness, again .i still can't get over it and it leaves you with dread.something you never felt before, in your life
pure dread and stark reality,and,there's nothing you can say that will change it or take it back ,theres not even a comment you can make that makes any difference at all to you ,at that stark moment.
as a kid i imagined my worst fears would be the day i sepparated from mom or id have to end up in a bomb shelter wondering if a can of beans was radiated or safe to eat...thats the fifties for you ...t.v.ads on radiation fall out all the time growing up...
those are the 3 worst things
the other thing thats a worst fear was in the back of my mind is if the love of my life would stand up for me and, be so stupid as to, put herself in harms 'way and, pay with her life!
i try to not think ,about it, or i get extremely angry ,at the mere thot she'd consider, that risk and walk ,into it ,for me
i'd be,so g.d. b.s.and, that kinda' worst fear, just stays, in the back of my mind ,so i never have to admit that ,as ever possible ,or as ever really being real or coming true




jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 2:29:52 AM)

dear amayos
greetings,
i could'nt help but, notice your worst fear; short and simple but, not to worry ,that's just like dying in bed....
is that embarrassing to you ,or embarrassing,to a blonde bombshell or dont she expect the gallant older gent to ,maybe die in bed ,under her too?




BlkTallFullfig -> Fears??? (12/10/2005 2:31:01 AM)

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Someone dying while I'm beating them. lol
I actually have that fear too, but it usually isn't because I'm beating them. [8D] M




kisshou -> RE: Fears??? (12/10/2005 4:08:46 AM)

dying




MHOO314 -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 5:32:35 AM)

You know, I'd agree with this one ( as many of these I feel as well)---at My age, I am indeed afraid of that random heart attack, then I become some CSI episode---




JohnWarren -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 6:15:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

You know, I'd agree with this one ( as many of these I feel as well)---at My age, I am indeed afraid of that random heart attack, then I become some CSI episode---


We recently got a automated defib machine. It wasn't cheap but it cost less than a funeral





KnightofMists -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 6:16:20 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

We have lately had some awesome threads about expectations, questions that should be asked---now I pose to My esteemed colleagues--what are your greatest fears?




Not sure but it is either

being raped by a leather man while my hemmroids are acting up.

or

That chocolate is outlawed!




sweetpettjenny -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 6:18:09 AM)

being lied too...it leads to worse things




LadiesBladewing -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 6:19:40 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

We have lately had some awesome threads about expectations, questions that should be asked---now I pose to My esteemed colleagues--what are your greatest fears?




My greatest fear is that I will fail to complete the lessons that I have taken on for this lifetime, and I'll be required to repeat them. I don't think the Universe sets us up for failure, but sometimes it seems like it is taking such a long time to get things pulled together that I wonder if I will have enough years to complete what I need to complete, to fulfill the few (huge) promises I've made and dedicated my life to, and get everyone taken care of that I need to care for... if that makes any sense.

Lady Zephyr




amayos -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 6:55:25 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren


quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

You know, I'd agree with this one ( as many of these I feel as well)---at My age, I am indeed afraid of that random heart attack, then I become some CSI episode---


We recently got a automated defib machine. It wasn't cheap but it cost less than a funeral




Now THAT's being prepared!




MizSuz -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 8:07:14 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

We have lately had some awesome threads about expectations, questions that should be asked---now I pose to My esteemed colleagues--what are your greatest fears?



Losing my independence.
Failing someone I love or a team I have committed to.
Long term unmanagable pain with no end but death in sight.

All things I have endured and surmounted to some degree or another. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't fearful I may have to endure again.




fldrkhorse -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 8:27:23 AM)

If Lady M will allow me to expand on her thought, educate the DOMs and tell us, what are your fears as a sub?




slavejali -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 12:39:59 PM)

Greatest fear: having a car accident




Fawne -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 1:41:21 PM)

1.Abandonment. [&o]

2.Conflicted Doms who are fearful of integrating their dominance, sexuality, desire for control etc. with their "nice guy" image of themselves. I know they can do it: be a bad ass top and a good guy at the same time, if not the same moment [;)].

3.Circus clowns. Creepy... [&:]

love to all, fawne




Sensualips -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 1:50:31 PM)

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being raped by a leather man while my hemmroids are acting up.


Urk! Now chocolate being outlawed is no biggie. I'd just go underground and develop some super awesome connections.




fldrkhorse -> RE: Fears (12/10/2005 1:55:54 PM)

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My greatest fear is that I will fail to complete the lessons that I have taken on for this lifetime, and I'll be required to repeat them. I don't think the Universe sets us up for failure, but sometimes it seems like it is taking such a long time to get things pulled together that I wonder if I will have enough years to complete what I need to complete, to fulfill the few (huge) promises I've made and dedicated my life to, and get everyone taken care of that I need to care for... if that makes any sense.

Lady Zephyr


Wow, this is heavy. I believe everything I need I already have. I believe whatever I project to the universe i.e fear, hatred, love, kindness, etc, will be reflected back 100 fold. I believe there is no failure in life, only a series of lifes lessons. I believe there is ample time to complete whatever I was put here to do, whatever that might be.

I believe the fact that you've dedicated your life shows purpose and you've already touched many beyond your wildest imagination. Stop, understand, and rejoice in life given you. Enjoy whatever time there is, whatever way possible. Enjoy life.




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