FTopinMichigan
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ORIGINAL: foxglove716 Just out of curiosity, I would like to know if there were any type of clothing that made you feel especially dom or sub. I yam what I yam! I think it's more an issue of how others may perceive you, by what you wear, versus it making me feel a certain way. I have noticed that I get treated differently when I wear a more demure style, which really isn't my style at all. Lace and frilly things do not serve me well. I always joked about getting into shape, so that I could dress like a "slut," but in all honestly...that style is just not for me either. I no longer wear short neckchains, or chokers, as I've been instantly mistaken for being a submissive, by my jewelry alone. A ridiculous assumption, for someone that has all but a few seconds to see me. (And oh my, they're quite surprised when they approach me then. ) It's what someone else "sees"...not about how "I" feel. After the ridiculous assumptions though....I've changed my jewelry at fetish events, but not for how it made me feel, but more to refrain from sparking some irritating and stupid approaches. (This helped me to better understand what some submissive ladies have to deal with from time to time.) K
< Message edited by FTopinMichigan -- 12/11/2005 6:08:37 AM >
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