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tsatske -> RE: Assumed Monogamy (10/18/2008 7:09:34 AM)
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Honestly, as a submissive, the concept of being submissive to more than one person is what would give me pause. What if they give you conflicting instructions?
The Military, a centuries old Dominance and submissive model in which one is generally officially submissive to thousands of Dominant persons, has developed an answer to this delemia.
'Last Legal Order'. Who ever spoke to you most recently gets obeyed first.
Many people think the military solves this problem with a hierarchy of Dominants, but, although they clearly do have a hierarchy, this problem is handled with the above rule.
If the General says rake this yard, and the Sergeant comes along and says, 'Stop what you are doing and take this envelope to the office', you obey the Sergeant. He was the last order you were given. If you get done with his command and have time on your hands, you go back to raking the yard.
I can see how this would work perfectly well in a multi-Dom house. It worked perfectly well raising my children - this was the instruction and explanation they were given throughout their childhood. ( by their ex-military father)
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