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dominus -> Stripping (12/10/2005 6:31:14 AM)
I seek advice from all on this subject of 'stripping'. I ask in the context of a Master/slave-Dominant/submissive. When one is meeting with a new submissive it is reasonable to assume that the submissive will feel some level of apprehension at being expected to be naked in front of a Dom for the first time. What I ask is this: - Is it more humilliating and embarrassing it the submissive is (A) Forcibly and physically stripped by the Dom? (B) Made to strip by her own hand whilst the Master/Dom watches her do so?

sharpslave -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 6:40:08 AM)
I'd have to say B. If the Master forcibly stripped a slave, the slave would be less embarrassed because he or she had nothing to do with the actual stripping - the Master would've been the one who actually did it. On the other hand, if you had a slave strip his or herself, the slave would be aware of exactly what was going on as he or she was the one actually doing something.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 6:47:05 AM)
Go with B for a first time. It gives you a much greater sense of how REALLY comfortable she is, with you and with her body. Save the rough forcing stuff for once you've gotten the foundation laid. Seduction goes much better that way.

kyraofMists -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 7:20:51 AM)
It all depends on what your goal is; do you wish them to be a humiliated and embarrassed as possible or reassure them? Option A would be the most humiliating for me if it is the first time the person is seeing naked. Option B would be the least humiliating out of your choices. There is also a third option and one that my Lord used with me… The Dominant can slowly undress the submissive; make it a gentle sensual act. The appreciation my Lord showed for my body while he did this eradicated most of my concerns about being naked in front of him. Being that my Lord is a sadist, this is one of the few sensual acts that we have done and made all the more special for it’s uniqueness. Knight's kyra

IrishMist -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 7:34:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dominus I seek advice from all on this subject of 'stripping'. I ask in the context of a Master/slave-Dominant/submissive. When one is meeting with a new submissive it is reasonable to assume that the submissive will feel some level of apprehension at being expected to be naked in front of a Dom for the first time. What I ask is this: - Is it more humilliating and embarrassing it the submissive is (A) Forcibly and physically stripped by the Dom? (B) Made to strip by her own hand whilst the Master/Dom watches her do so? For me, it would be B, mainly because I have scars that I am very self-conscious about

orfunboi -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 7:46:02 AM)
If this is a case of meeting with a new submissive, why is anyone getting naked...shouldn't you get to know each other first....

windchymes -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 7:48:54 AM)
What about an option C)? Being slowly and seductively undressed by the Dom, without force or humiliation? chymes

champagnewishes -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 8:18:38 AM)
quote: Is it more humilliating and embarrassing it the submissive is (A) Forcibly and physically stripped by the Dom? (B) Made to strip by her own hand whilst the Master/Dom watches her do so? For me, the answer would most definately be "B"... I fail to see however WHY one would want to make a sub feel this way the first time he/she is naked before you.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 8:33:58 AM)
quote: Is it more humiliating and embarrassing it the submissive is (A) Forcibly and physically stripped by the Dom? (B) Made to strip by her own hand whilst the Master/Dom watches her do so? Thank you for taking us back to that first day. There was neither embarrassment or humiliation. beth did indeed at my direction strip naked slowly across the room from me as I sat fully dressed in a large overstuffed armchair. Once she was naked, she placed her hands on her head and rotated slowly, then posed for my pleasure. There was no force involved other than the force of my will and her submission. There was no pressure applied. I made no demand. The predominant thought that was in my head, at least the part that wasn't focused on her, was; "can it really be possible that this woman is real?" Not on the physical level, but on the more important aspects of a potential relationship. she is not just beautiful, she's intelligent, has a quick wit, is socially adept, is fun, and LOVES to have fun! Hell one of the reasons I wanted to see her naked was to be sure she WAS a woman! And you know, at that point, I don't know if it would have mattered if she wasn't. It was seemingly "too good to be true!"I just asked her to confirm this, she had similar thoughts. The only other thought that beth wanted to add, was that being the exhibitionist slut that she is; showing off her naked body to other people is a turn on, not something gross and disgusting or a red flag that someone is ONLY interested in seeing. Being naked is a turn on! Left up to her, she'd be naked 25/8. Yet there was something special about that first day between us. Now she is naked only for my pleasure, even if I decide to share it with others. It's been nearly four years and seeing her naked today generates even more passion. Ah, it's Saturday - back to bed!

substantialsub4u -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 10:26:46 AM)
For me, both option A and B would have been horribly embarassing, which is why i'm thankful Master took the approach He did. He knew i have all sorts of self image issues, and generally all around "uncomfortable in my own skin." To alleviate all this, the first time i was naked with Him, here's how He went about it. He stood behind me and undressed me (and no, we weren't anywhere near a mirror!). After He had tossed my clothes across the room, He dressed me in one of His shirts, which i could swim in. Somewhere along the line that night, His shirt magically disappeared, and i felt no shame/humiliation/embarassment etc, and am now 110% completely comfortable being naked with Him.

AlderTheKitty -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 10:58:20 AM)
i find being nakid to a domme vary humbling knowing that they see and accept all my flaws i like beth if given the choice with a domme would be nakid all the time as well

Maxiann -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 11:26:57 AM)
For me A would be the worst as forced stripping by nature has to be a little violent and violence scares me. However my master has overcome any problems there as I am not permitted any clothes in the house so I'm always naked at home regardless of who is in the house. At parties or a few of the clubs I am taken to if my master wishes me to be naked he just says so and I strip maybe being naked all the time has just got me used to being undressed infront of others so it does not really bother me. Maxiann

candystripper -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 12:24:32 PM)
Strangely, as i read this thread, i do not have any vision of what my "first time" with my One would be like. i want to believe it would seem natural, exciting and pleasurable, without room for insecurities. i don't know if that's possible, but that's what i'd like. As for details, such as whether He undressed me (which has always been a major turn-on for me) i just don't know. More than anything else, i'd want to feel safe and cared for as i followed His lead. camdystripper

KnightofMists -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 4:17:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dominus I seek advice from all on this subject of 'stripping'. I ask in the context of a Master/slave-Dominant/submissive. When one is meeting with a new submissive it is reasonable to assume that the submissive will feel some level of apprehension at being expected to be naked in front of a Dom for the first time. What I ask is this: - Is it more humilliating and embarrassing it the submissive is (A) Forcibly and physically stripped by the Dom? (B) Made to strip by her own hand whilst the Master/Dom watches her do so? Excuse my intrusion on the submissive's board, but your question and kyra's response ignited a very savored and intense memory of my kyra and I wish to share it. I am of the opinion that the first time that one is going to be nude together is indeed a significant event and making it unique and special is important to me. Kyra and I had been conversing in chat, emails and on phone for about 6 months before she came to visit me that first time. By the time kyra came to me, our feelings for each was undeniably strong. But, as strong as our feelings felt, they were kept private and only shared when we both touched each other and looked into each others eyes. I still remember that day in the airport. kyra came to me with instructions not to speak until I gave her permission. I held her tightly after my long wait in the airport (customs seemed to have noted her nervousness and questioned her greatly, which just made her more nervous). After holding her for what may be was for a few minutes, but seemed timeless, we walked over to a cafe shop and she got me a drink as instructed. As I sat there looking at her, I shared to her a few simple words. "I love you". My kyra still without permission to speak could only lean towards me to feel my touch and a hug. We left the airport and went to the hotel that she was going to stay at during her first visit. After getting into the room, I finally relented and allowed her to speak. I instructed her to kneel before me and told her, "You may speak. Do you have anything you wish to say?" After a moment or two my kyra gained her voice and simple said "I love you, I wish to be yours". I pulled her up from the floor onto the bed and held her tight and struggled to resist my urges... for I had a plan. We lay there for a bit holding tightly, the strongest sense I had was enjoying was the smell of her.... I savor that every day. After I couldn’t resist any longer, I got up and told her it was time to leave. I took her to my home to meet the entire family. As house, we went to a community workshop on fireplay that evening. My kyra made her first fire wand that night and later that week she enjoyed the experience with my firewands, the one she made was um not so good lol. By the time the work shop was over my kyra had been up many hours and was very exhausted. My slave alandra dropped us off at the hotel and kyra and I went to the room. It was obvious that kyra was very nervous. Not knowing what was going to occur for my plan was known only to me, but she was soon to find out. I told her to prepare herself for bed, except leave all her clothes on and stay to the right side of the bed when she was ready. As she stood beside the bed, I went behind her and slowly removed her clothes. Always holding her and touching her, I stripped her down until her beauty was complete for me to see and enjoy. I held her from behind and felt her softness and beauty. Slowly, I moved the covers back from the bed and tucked her in. I went about the room shutting off all the lights and then went to the left side of the bed and unclothed myself and climbed into bed. As I had done this, kyra shared with me at a later time that she was feeling very disappointed for the impression she was getting is I wouldn't be using her that night. But she was wrong. I climbed into bed, slowly moving across the king size bed as my body ached to feel her along my entire body. I spread her thighs and felt her again, "You are Mine" I simply stated, and I took her. We made love for well into the next morning, only stopping for brief hour or so to sleep. I woke often and took her each time I was awakened by my urges. In that time I marked her body with my grip. Many of the marks upon her that night still can be seen today. As I look upon her back from time to time and look at a mark or two I am reminded of this moment of our life. I am in love! I am Blessed!

Sensualips -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 6:05:56 PM)
I enjoy the perspectives from many of the regular posters, too many to list. I think I am particularly fascinated with postings from KnightsoMist, Kyra, and the less frequent posts of Alandra and Danika. Not only do the , but my voyeuristic nature enjoys reading the thoughts from various vantage points in a family or a relationship -- especially a poly relationships that is "working." Their willingness to share some private moments to illustrate a point or spark a discussion is appreciated by me. Thanks!

BalletBob -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 7:49:04 PM)
I would go with B. The first time with MADAM was a little embarassing, and not because I don't have much there. I never been naked in front of anyone ecvept for my wife, and I wasn't use to it. I did get over it quickly, when I found there wasn't anything to be afraid or embarassed of. BalletBob

LindaLashes -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 9:00:29 PM)
B definently, I felt like a small twig in the wind when I stood in front of my mistress naked for the first time after being told to strip.

jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Stripping (12/10/2005 10:07:33 PM)
greetings mistress goddess dominus happy hollidays if i may add my 2 cents on nudity and the slave expectations nude is a variable important in the 8 steps to murder and oppression of an individual found in the study of concentration camp psychology ,and i know i am always Stripped as a slave ,so i feel like an autioned race horse there are DANGLERS common ,on death row where THE inmate flashs nudity ; being near death ; and ,so oppressed and, able to be READY - murdered ;it is natural, that's how i look at it and you do survive, if youre not as ugly as a moose ,so they have to take you out in the woods and, shoot you ....... finally, if i dont take it off (slow is recommended by cosmo) she (dom)will always ripp it off so the slave is ever-ready; no matter how you do it . it's the 'results', that you are concerned with ,and that counts.

KnightofMists -> RE: Stripping (12/11/2005 6:24:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sensualips I enjoy the perspectives from many of the regular posters, too many to list. I think I am particularly fascinated with postings from KnightsoMist, Kyra, and the less frequent posts of Alandra and Danika. Not only do the , but my voyeuristic nature enjoys reading the thoughts from various vantage points in a family or a relationship -- especially a poly relationships that is "working." Their willingness to share some private moments to illustrate a point or spark a discussion is appreciated by me. Thanks! Thank You

imtempting -> RE: Stripping (12/11/2005 7:10:26 AM)
It all has to do with confidence... Ofcourse there will be a slight apprhension but its normal when getting naked around someone you have not been with before. Maybe an option D. Im confident with my body and will not worry me.

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