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girlivy -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/18/2008 6:05:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ericpup Wow, I guess if I have fantasies, I shouldn't post them. God forbid I would want to share my fantasies with what I thought were like-minded people. Hey, if you don't like my story, don't read the damn thing. 'Cause your responses sure don't help much. I just like to write stories. You "should" do whatver you feel best for you. As far as likeminded people NOT liking your story, in all the posts not one mentioned to either like or dislike it. As stated above, you did post it on public, which leaves the door open to other like-minded peoples comments. About your comment "sure don't help much" Perhaps if this post was a cry for help, you should have stated as such. More power to ya for doing something you enjoy! But please remember, what one may feel is treasure, he may have found in the rubbish bin. Cheers!

desertdancer -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/18/2008 6:26:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: badlilthang quote: ORIGINAL: zach7 quote: ORIGINAL: ericpup Wow, I guess if I have fantasies, I shouldn't post them. God forbid I would want to share my fantasies with what I thought were like-minded people. Hey, if you don't like my story, don't read the damn thing. 'Cause your responses sure don't help much. I just like to write stories. I've seen this done a few times before (people posting stories on message boards) and it never gets a positive response. You posted a private fantasy on a public message board, what did you expect to happen? *a thought - would the response to "a perfect day - my fantasy" have been different if it was written by a female submissive - about her perfect day of serving her Dom? I think so. We seem to land hard on male submissives - for reasons unknown to me. * You know, I was thinkin' the exact same thing. I betcha if I wrote my perfect day fantasy it woulda been better received. In fact I think if this had been written by a girl in the "Ask A Submissive" with the invite for others to post their perfect days there would have been friendlier answers with others even posting their fantasy. I also think the same thing may be true if this were asked of the "Ask A Master" group as well, meaning it would be better received. It seems to me that the crowd is harder on male submissives then it is on everyone else, why I dunno. Though the Op's fantasy didn't do anything for me, I thought it was sweet. Why not dream of your perfect day and why not wanna share it with other like minded people. Good on ya OP, I hope your dream comes true for you one day !

windchymes -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/18/2008 7:25:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ericpup Wow, I guess if I have fantasies, I shouldn't post them. God forbid I would want to share my fantasies with what I thought were like-minded people. Hey, if you don't like my story, don't read the damn thing. 'Cause your responses sure don't help much. I just like to write stories. Literotica.com Your story would be very well received over there :)

Venatrix -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/18/2008 7:46:40 AM)
FR - So what if it's wank fodder? What's wrong with wanking? I like to watch men masturbate. And I actually wind up learning a lot from posts like the OP's. Gets the brain percolating for scene ideas. If it's so offensive to you to read something like this, why not just stop reading and move along?

Lockit -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/18/2008 12:39:35 PM)
I can see what seems to be three takes of this and can see the point of each. It does seem male submissive's have a harder time of this. We view a female submissive sharing her fantasy or story more attractive in a sense and a male's as wanker material and both can be seen as attention seeking. I think that this may be in part to how women are treated at a site like this. You carry a vagina and those seeking a vagina will fill your email with such stories and you get a lil tired of opening an email to find at least the first sentence you can't help but see.. being of the likes of... I want you to squeeze my cock so hard it nearly falls off and if it doesn't stick it in your mouth. Males send more email such as this than females do typically, so when a male shares with us, some of us are a bit jaded and tired of it all. Some of us would rather this be in private places because we are tired of wankers chasing us down. lol Sometimes we don't stop to think what a wanker might really be expressing because we don't consider them of much value. We are quick to lable them. Now... if someone we knew wrote that fantasy, our take on it might be far different. If we asked for it, we are ready for it. But many of us want to pick up whatever... and run those wankers off! lol We don't always stop to think of what promts a post such as this and some good points were brought up in this thread. Maybe some of us who are a lil jaded from too many emails and too many wankers... that we see wanker faster than we see the vulnerablity or the working out of personal things or anything else. And maybe we all need to step back at times and rather than quickly respond, think about some of this. I know I won't on some days... depending on what kind of email I am getting... lol... but I will try to use this thread and things people have said to temper myself and try to see more to it all.

OttersSwim -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/18/2008 12:58:18 PM)
I agree with Lockit. [:)] While yes, there is some wish fulfillment and wank fodder in this, I found that a male submissive expressing a desire to serve, provide pleasure, and do some actual work to be quite different from the normal Malibu Barbie Vending Machine of BDSM Delights junk that many of the Ladies here profess to get in their emails... TM, 2008 Ottersswim, all rights reserved, no purchase necessary, details inside!

Lockit -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/18/2008 1:12:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OttersSwim I agree with Lockit. [:)] While yes, there is some wish fulfillment and wank fodder in this, I found that a male submissive expressing a desire to serve, provide pleasure, and do some actual work to be quite different from the normal Malibu Barbie Vending Machine of BDSM Delights junk that many of the Ladies here profess to get in their emails... TM, 2008 Ottersswim, all rights reserved, no purchase necessary, details inside! I sure do like your Malibu Barbie Vending Machine of BDSM Delights better than my Mold-A-Mistress, Mistress Play-Toy... but mine is easier to spell. hehe... I never could remember how to spell Malibu for some reason... even though I was from the area! Maybe because I wasn't a beach girl... you gotta tan and nice legs help if you are gunna be a beach girl... so I went with bitchgirl... you got just as many guys that way. But a tan might be nice... friggin freackles suck! hehe I need medication....

celticlord2112 -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/18/2008 2:08:06 PM)
My perfect day would begin with slave waking me by bringing me my morning cup of coffee, wearing only her collar, slave bells, and a smile.....

UmbraDomina -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 12:21:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: badlilthang quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina so let me get this straight...... all I have to do to get a guy to make me breakfast is let him lick me all over, straddle him and ride him, give him a hand job, play with his butt plug while I eat (ewwww), then blow him? wow........ I do find it funny as hell as soon as I posted this I had 19 yes, 19 different male dominants who quickly viewed my profile....... guess they wanted to make me breakfast......lol ......... eckkkkkkkk and how many actually wrote you, i wonder...... Six wrote me out of the 19 male dominants who viewed my profile after the breakfast post. four wanted to know if I was willing to top them in some way ( fill in various fantasies here), one thought I would make a great slave if I just gave up this stupid idea I was a dominant, and one made a quasi funny breakfast food joke.

thishereboi -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 4:37:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Usako Wow. Congrats on being able to type all that while wanking off to it. [8\|] How do you know he didn't wank after he typed it?

cjan -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 6:09:00 AM)
Nothing wrong with wanking or wank fodder. Sheesh... Flaming someone for sharing a fantasy is, imo, rude and unnecessary. If it's not your cup of tea, shut the fuck up and move on. Glass houses, peeps.

badlilthang -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 9:15:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina quote: ORIGINAL: badlilthang quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina so let me get this straight...... all I have to do to get a guy to make me breakfast is let him lick me all over, straddle him and ride him, give him a hand job, play with his butt plug while I eat (ewwww), then blow him? wow........ I do find it funny as hell as soon as I posted this I had 19 yes, 19 different male dominants who quickly viewed my profile....... guess they wanted to make me breakfast......lol ......... eckkkkkkkk and how many actually wrote you, i wonder...... Six wrote me out of the 19 male dominants who viewed my profile after the breakfast post. four wanted to know if I was willing to top them in some way ( fill in various fantasies here), one thought I would make a great slave if I just gave up this stupid idea I was a dominant, and one made a quasi funny breakfast food joke. **well..laughs - this is interesting - because i got a few (not 19!) mails also - suggesting that since i had my own strong view of things - i was a Domme, and not a slave/submissive..L..(maybe it was the one suggesting You being a slave?) i also got a couple of very nice mails from Doms - what they said is private - but they made me smile - and in a good way*

badlilthang -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 9:18:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cjan Nothing wrong with wanking or wank fodder. Sheesh... Flaming someone for sharing a fantasy is, imo, rude and unnecessary. If it's not your cup of tea, shut the fuck up and move on. Glass houses, peeps. i am behind You on that...s...like what Thumper's mom said - if you don't have anything nice to say - don't say anything at all...hehe...

tsatske -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 10:41:28 AM)
Actually, the only problem I really have with his whole fantasy is the part where he does the dishes - in his fantasy, no less. From reading previous entries of this OPs, I have the opinion that he might get something closer to the rest of his fantasy, at home, if he did that part of it, in rl, as well.

tsatske -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 12:30:03 PM)
quote: My perfect day would begin with slave waking me by bringing me my morning cup of coffee, wearing only her collar, slave bells, and a smile..... every morning, CL, although that is number 3 or 4 in the morning routine. Sometimes are routines are a bit messed up by life. He had to get up a couple of hours earlier every morning last week. I got up and got his coffee while he was in the shower (which he went and started on his own, and showed himself), then waited by the door with his go cup of coffee. He was tired, he just wanted to hit snooze as many times as possible then get himeslef ready and out the door without interference. It was a 'life is going on, check with me next week' kind of thing. And, I really, REALLY missed the whole morning routine. a LOT.

hereyesruponyou -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 5:50:42 PM)
I guess the issue for me in this being stictly fantasy was the whole, everything being sexually related. I enjoy sex quite a bit, but to make a whole day of it seems a bit much. At least at this level. I mean honestly how many women out there really want to be licked for what seemed to me would be 5-6 during the day. I need a little more action than that to keep me interested. Stimulate my brain a bit boy...please! Or let's toss in some other activities to get us both moving mentally and physically! To me this a more of a male fantasy than a femal oriented one. Nothing wrong with that, but i want my boy to make my fantasies come true, not mold me to fit into his... *disclaimer* although this is just my opinion, those seem to be frowned upon here quite a bit from all sides, so feel free to flame me...i'm a big girl

ericpup -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 7:32:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hereyesruponyou I guess the issue for me in this being stictly fantasy was the whole, everything being sexually related. I enjoy sex quite a bit, but to make a whole day of it seems a bit much. At least at this level. I mean honestly how many women out there really want to be licked for what seemed to me would be 5-6 during the day. I need a little more action than that to keep me interested. Stimulate my brain a bit boy...please! Or let's toss in some other activities to get us both moving mentally and physically! To me this a more of a male fantasy than a femal oriented one. Nothing wrong with that, but i want my boy to make my fantasies come true, not mold me to fit into his... *disclaimer* although this is just my opinion, those seem to be frowned upon here quite a bit from all sides, so feel free to flame me...i'm a big girl Well, as I said, this is my fantasy. In reality, I like to read, discuss anything from politics to religion to history, etc, etc. I have been getting back into the gym, so the activity level has increased. I also watch the hell out of Jeopardy, and have been told several times that I should go on the show. I think that I'd do okay stimulating both your brains and your body.

yourMissTress -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 7:37:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ericpup We'd go to the kitchen, where I would fix breakfast for us both. I would eat on the floor next to her, my ass up in the air and my legs spread. For fun, she would move the buttplug back and forth as I ate. It's all good, your fantasy, hope you get all you want. Is she doing this while she's eating too?

hereyesruponyou -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/19/2008 8:33:30 PM)
nice answer. and your writing is very good. perhaps sharing it on a fic board would get your more positive reactions :) Now discussing religion and politics, i'll save that for the other side where it can be handled one on one. I'm not enough of a masochist to want to take that beating on here

tazzygirl -> RE: A perfect day, my fantasy (10/20/2008 5:28:37 AM)
my perfect day/fantasy a trip to tahiti including the cabana boys, margaritas, massages and sandy beaches... AFTER i won the lottery ~drifts off to daydream some more

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