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JustBadEnough -> any advise welcome (10/21/2008 10:11:26 AM)

my master wishes to watch me with a domme i find this exciting what is a good way to approach a domme about thisis it possable to find a domme that does not mind me having a dom



JustDarkness -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 10:18:09 AM)

sounds logic.
I would just put the request in your journal/profile.
Better would be for your MAster to put the request in his journal too. A Domme might respond sooner to a Master then to a request of a sub/slave.



akisha -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 10:19:10 AM)

My advise would be to ask around in your local community and see if anyone is willing to Top you for play.

I am assuming that you will not be submitting to the Domme full time but just for a play session.

I know the community I'm involved in people will agree to Top for a session or two for fun. It's not a relationship just an agreement to play.



bound4more -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 11:21:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: JustBadEnough

my master wishes to watch me with a domme i find this exciting what is a good way to approach a domme about thisis it possable to find a domme that does not mind me having a dom


Y'know - this may sound bizarre, but - ha ha - why not just ask him how to do it. Or, perhaps write a polite, respectful letter, explaining your master's wishes and present it as an offering to the Domme. Request your master's perspective and approval and proceed from there.



girlivy -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 11:29:22 AM)

akisha i feel that is great advice. 
Happy negotiations!



ExKat -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 12:32:46 PM)

  I suppose the easiest way to find one is to pay for one. This way, your Master can suggest exactly what he wants. However, being that you're a woman and all, you'll be able to find a domme willing to play more easily than a male sub. Search collarme, make sure anyone getting involved with you knows what you're looking for.



IvyMorgan -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 1:09:18 PM)

Either asking around your local scene for a top, or paying for one (ideally one recommended by someone) would probably be your best bet.



windchymes -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 2:07:44 PM)

I'm curious, why doesn't Master just arrange for one if that is what he wants to see?



shewhoserves -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 2:18:46 PM)

Your local Scene sounds like the best way, and who knows maybe here on CM..........



TwoNYCDommes -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 2:21:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JustBadEnough
my master wishes to watch me with a domme i find this exciting what is a good way to approach a domme about thisis it possable to find a domme that does not mind me having a dom


Of course it's possible.  Many people--particularly those who are poly--enjoy playing with other people's toys.  However, I would suggest mentioning up front that you are searching for this at your master's behest.  Some dommes may object to serving as a tool for his fantasy.



azropedntied -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 2:46:31 PM)

A random stranger or faceless Online person Noooo i think Not . I also think you should  seek this exchange  and person at either an event  that you both attend , and also your local  community . Then you both can see  how this person  is , act's, and is a safe player .As to who should ask or find i think you both should , making clear what it is  you seek and see if any  in your area  respond  and have an interest , i have a feeling  this  should not be a problem  ,unless the Domme views it as a service top act and She is not into that .Having a couple respectfully request that you do an exchange while one watches  is honoring  choose wisely.Its also a great advantage to see and speak and experiance in person .An example of an approach would be  you both  walking up to her and Saying HELLO .Be respectful ask about her , go slow . Get to know Her instead of just saying Hi we saw you beat that  girl and bite her on the ass  and tie her up  me and my master  want to know if you have tme to  fit me in too while he watches ..?If there is  common intrest  then intro the request .Good luck



spanishkitten -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 3:40:33 PM)

Master lets a domme play with me every so often. It's different but allot of fun, more fun when they both are playing with me.



girlygurl -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 3:43:49 PM)

I love the idea of being with a Domme... and I know my Sir would love to take pictures during the session as well. There's a lovely Domme here on CM that I'd love to have as my first... but alas, she lives oh so far away.

girly



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: any advise welcome (10/21/2008 6:43:40 PM)

I can only ditto Kat- that's the easiest and simplest way to get what everyone wants with no post issues attached.  Go find a pro.  Otherwise, it's not going to be likely to find a quality female dom because they find male doms sending their girls for free performances to wank to somewhat distasteful and a waste of time.



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