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sweetpettjenny -> Public Scening (12/12/2005 3:16:37 AM)
I am a member at a local club in Ct, and yes i play publically(because when im blindfolded no one can see me lol). I did a fire play scene , with a friend this weekend after a nice long scene with Sir and a switch friend i have. I noticed Sir was getting veryyyy uncomfortable watching the fire play. I asked if i could and he said yes, but i did make the mistake of asking in front of the other friend. I am fortunate that he is a great guy and will allow me to make mistakes and not belittle me or embarass me in public. Ive been on the other side , where my Ex would totally embarass me to the point of tears in front of others. We discussed that next time i will not do that ( in private on the way home), and he forgave it easily. Im very excited knowing that i met and am learning to accept that someone has no hidden agenda, no lies, and no games. He is simply interested in a relationship, and being my Dominant , and in time my owner.

Jasmyn -> RE: Public Scening (12/12/2005 4:29:40 AM)
[:)]

FTopinMichigan -> RE: Public Scening (12/12/2005 5:10:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny Im very excited knowing that i met and am learning to accept that someone has no hidden agenda, no lies, and no games. He is simply interested in a relationship, and being my Dominant , and in time my owner. This sounds wonderful, Jenny! [:)] I wish you well in your jouney together. K

Rayne58 -> RE: Public Scening (12/12/2005 5:26:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny I am a member at a local club in Ct, and yes i play publically(because when im blindfolded no one can see me lol). I did a fire play scene , with a friend this weekend after a nice long scene with Sir and a switch friend i have. I noticed Sir was getting veryyyy uncomfortable watching the fire play. I asked if i could and he said yes, but i did make the mistake of asking in front of the other friend. I am fortunate that he is a great guy and will allow me to make mistakes and not belittle me or embarass me in public. Ive been on the other side , where my Ex would totally embarass me to the point of tears in front of others. We discussed that next time i will not do that ( in private on the way home), and he forgave it easily. Im very excited knowing that i met and am learning to accept that someone has no hidden agenda, no lies, and no games. He is simply interested in a relationship, and being my Dominant , and in time my owner. smiles I do the blindfold thing too! Although I've only scened once at a play party I've been in situations with others (with Master present) and I've felt more comfortable with a blindfold on if there is a male there who I haven't met previously. Seems it is different with women[8\|] At the party I didn't have a blindfold so I just shut my eyes - Master was there with me and I was only conscious of Him, the Dom caning me, the girl in front of me holding my hands and my female friend behind me. There were probably about 20 or more others in the room but they just faded away as I floated up into "the Zone"[:D] It was my first time doing a public scene and I was just amazed at myself that I actually did it! Having Master there gave me the courage to go through with it.

BalletBob -> RE: Public Scening (12/12/2005 6:19:06 PM)
Congrats Sweets. I am very happy that you have someone to care for and about you. I never done a scene in public, but do love the Blindfold too. I helped on sessions where MADAM's husband was present, though he is a rel nice person. It added to the suspense. BalletBob

fastlane -> RE: Public Scening (12/12/2005 7:13:17 PM)
I'm very happy for you jenny as the world is so full of fakes and liars....I know, I just almost met one.... Best of luck to you and your endeavors with the Master. Awesome!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Public Scening (12/12/2005 7:53:17 PM)
I don't get it, what was the mistake exactly? I think it's good that you communicated and realized it wasn't anything of a big deal in the long term.

AlderTheKitty -> RE: Public Scening (12/12/2005 8:01:38 PM)
my ex did the same thing to me and was chewed out by my frinds for it and she whent off at me thats why if she comes near me i go to one of them and i am going to sa this no dom/me that publicly insults there sub to the point that they cry is worth serving as for the blind fold i never thought of useing it like that

Nuke718 -> RE: Public Scening (12/13/2005 2:12:04 PM)
Glad everything seems to be working out jenny!!! We don't really have a "public" play space around here, but we do have play parties of different sizes from time to time. It took me a great while to be comfortable being the top in a scene where others could watch. I am neither an exhibitionist nor a born performer. Also I am self conscious about my body and my skills, and the list goes on. But when I eventually did scene in front of people, I found the audience to be terribly supportive at best, and at worst not interested LoL. As for bottoming in a scene in public, well uhm I haven't. But then again I am new to admitting that I even HAVE a bottom/submissive side to most of my friends. When the time comes tho, I may take some advice from you here and ask for that blindfold. N }:-

sweetpettjenny -> RE: Public Scening (12/13/2005 6:54:13 PM)
thankyou fastlane and Fttop...smiles

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Public Scening (12/13/2005 6:55:37 PM)
I still don't get it- what was the mistake?

Jasmyn -> RE: Public Scening (12/13/2005 9:31:07 PM)
quote: did a fire play scene , with a friend this weekend after a nice long scene with Sir and a switch friend i have. I noticed Sir was getting veryyyy uncomfortable watching the fire play. I asked if i could and he said yes, but i did make the mistake of asking in front of the other friend. I am fortunate that he is a great guy and will allow me to make mistakes and not belittle me or embarass me in public. Ive been on the other side , where my Ex would totally embarass me to the point of tears in front of others. We discussed that next time i will not do that ( in private on the way home), and he forgave it easily. Im very excited knowing that i met and am learning to accept that someone has no hidden agenda, no lies, and no games. He is simply interested in a relationship, and being my Dominant , and in time my owner. ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I still don't get it- what was the mistake? Asking in front of the friend. I'm assuming because doing so may have put him on the spot to reply with a positive, despite him possibly having a personal issue or limit with fireplay; and up until this point that limit had also extended itself to his sub. Jenny's just seems pleased that his reaction was positive despite him finding fault in the circumstances she had asked in... other doms might have used the fault as an excuse to bawl a sub out, belittling them for the 'fault' as such, so that in affect they didn't have to actually make a decision of yes or no, you can or can't go play, and play the bad guy, especially if saying no is not necessarily spurned by the fault, but by the dominant's own insecurity or the uba ego. (I hope that makes sense, I know what I'm trying to say lol)

sweetpettjenny -> RE: Public Scening (12/14/2005 2:37:50 AM)
my mistake was asking in front of the other Dom , knowing that he didn't want others to touch me , without asking alone and ahead of time. quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I still don't get it- what was the mistake?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Public Scening (12/14/2005 6:20:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny my mistake was asking in front of the other Dom , knowing that he didn't want others to touch me , without asking alone and ahead of time Ohhh I didn't get that you knew he didn't want others to touch you. Thanks.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Public Scening (12/14/2005 6:22:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jasmyn so that in affect they didn't have to actually make a decision of yes or no, you can or can't go play, and play the bad guy, especially if saying no is not necessarily spurned by the fault, but by the dominant's own insecurity or the uba ego. (I hope that makes sense, I know what I'm trying to say lol) Well I wouldn't have belittled someone for it, but she DID do something wrong, and having negative consequences for such would not have been off the mark. However, it being in public AND involving another innocent party makes what he did to be the most graceful and mature response at the time. Kudos.

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