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cbpzep6 -> THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 11:47:07 AM)
I dumped my dom today he was full of shit and not the good kind . I ask for no lies and time to build trust and I get jearked off . I had enfough now I am free to start looking again . I will not be verry easy to open up again to allow my self to be hurt. Is this a odd place for a submissive to make a stand ????? Still learning the ropes . Any input Is great .

kittinSol -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 11:54:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cbpzep6 I dumped my dom today he was full of shit and not the good kind . I just KNOW I'll regret asking this... but what kind of shit is the good kind [&:] ?

sirsholly -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 11:56:08 AM)
you followed your heart, and that is never a bad thing to do.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 11:58:42 AM)
quote: I just KNOW I'll regret asking this... but what kind of shit is the good kind ? kraft dinner mac n cheese

cbpzep6 -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 12:00:13 PM)
thanks for the support i needed a hugg Shit is nothing dirty just the bullcrap hoops I had to jump through to get some time together . And at the last min get a cancel message. I think I have more to offer than what I was given back to me

cbpzep6 -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 12:02:21 PM)
why the hell am I Vanilla still lol

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 12:28:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cbpzep6 why the hell am I Vanilla still lol Because you had the nerve to dump your dom, you have to start over fresh! Just kidding, the cone signifies the number of messages you've posted here; the more opinionated you are, the cuter your symbols will get. However if you express your opinions in a way that denigrates anyone personally, you'll get the boot before you get to cute things like cuffs and paddles. Welcome, and sending hugs, M

pahunkboy -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 1:18:25 PM)
in the end maybe it is for the better? I like people, but I could not spend an extended amount of time with anyone. Im too deranged. :-)

sub4hire -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 1:48:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cbpzep6 I dumped my dom today he was full of shit and not the good kind . I ask for no lies and time to build trust and I get jearked off . I had enfough now I am free to start looking again . I will not be verry easy to open up again to allow my self to be hurt. Is this a odd place for a submissive to make a stand ????? Still learning the ropes . Any input Is great . Why should it be odd for you to stand up. Value yourself and say you deserve better? That is a very good trait to have. More people need to feel that way. It may take you a while to find a decent new dom but don't get too disappointed. It took all of us a lot of time. Much more than we wanted to spend. In the end I know it was worth the time and effort it took me to find the right one. I'm sure in the end it will be the same for you.

SageFemmexx -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 1:53:48 PM)
Just think of every relationship as a learning experience. I looked at alot of doms until I found one that met my needs and didn't conflict with my school ambition. Now you know what you don't want in a relationship and that's a good thing. Sage.

cbpzep6 -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 1:55:53 PM)
but how can you trust some one for this type of lyfestyle right off the back?

cbpzep6 -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 1:59:27 PM)
ok I am dom shopping again lol thanks for the warm fuzzy thoughts you all are sending me

GreedyTop -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 3:32:55 PM)
hug

sub4hire -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 3:38:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cbpzep6 but how can you trust some one for this type of lyfestyle right off the back? You can't unless you are an idiot with no self worth. Trust takes time.

cbpzep6 -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 3:47:26 PM)
Just seems theres few good ones left I tell ya the best are probally already taken lol

slaveboyforyou -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 3:54:14 PM)
quote: I just KNOW I'll regret asking this... but what kind of shit is the good kind [&:] ? LOL, Is your mind always in the gutter, Kittin? [8D]

beargonewild -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 3:54:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cbpzep6 but how can you trust some one for this type of lyfestyle right off the back? Sorry to hear about your bad experience and a big Canadian bearhugz. Yea it's tough trying to find that one Dom who is quite compatible with us and vice versa. There are days when I doubt I'll find a decent man for a relationship. let along one who is willing and able to to understand my need to submit. I just keep forcing myself to saty positive that it'll happen even if it doesn't immediately!

cbpzep6 -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 3:57:07 PM)
I guess ill stay Vanilla for a long time it was sure easier I tell ya

beargonewild -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 4:04:14 PM)
It will take some time to heal from this breakup. Though there will come a point where the need for the D/s dynamic will reassert itself more and more! It's been a good eighteen months since I removed my collar and left my Sir at that time and it's only been in the past 5-6 months that my own needs for WIITWD has been growing more and more! I took a good year to reevaluate what I actually wanted in this and how I will go about incorporating the D/s into my vanilla life.

Esclava2one -> RE: THE SUB DUMPED THE DOM TODAY ;-( (10/22/2008 4:07:17 PM)
Do not let this experience cloud your vision. Like was said before every relationship is a learning experience. I have had bad relationships and almost let them get me down, until I realize my doing that give the person power over the rest of my life. I agree that trust does have to be earned no matter what relationship experiences you have had, good or bad. Do not let one bad experience close you off from a relationship that may be fabulous.

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