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Dommes...subs...ages - 10/22/2008 5:04:02 PM

flutter17

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I would be interested in hearing from the males with respect to age differences between them and a/their Domme. Is there ever too great a gap in the ages or do you request audience with a Domme *because* of her age? Is it all just a subset of the whole 'older woman' thing that seems to fascinate males?

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RE: Dommes...subs...ages - 10/22/2008 5:26:15 PM

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unlike femsub/dom relations many of the male sub/domme relationship do not include sex /intercourse as part of their relationship and many are involved with prodommes ... so the answers you get could vary alot depending nature of the relationship ..so if you are interested in the anxwers from those who have a sexual relationship with their domme .. you would need to specify that

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RE: Dommes...subs...ages - 10/22/2008 5:29:57 PM

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Hmmm - excellent point. I think both perspectives would be interesting. Thank you for highlighting that !

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RE: Dommes...subs...ages - 10/22/2008 7:41:24 PM

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My Owner is 10 years older with me. We are not together because of our age difference. It's really something that's not even a factor.

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RE: Dommes...subs...ages - 10/23/2008 4:36:34 AM

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usually i have women tell me 'if i wasn't so old' before i can even think of the word relationship, but i'm sure in a case by case scenario rather than a set in concrete rule, there are certainly those relationships which would not be ideal due to age differences.

the high majority of women i am attracted to are in their 30's, 40's and so forth, but i don't go seeking any specific age group, i just apparently seek qualities more often found in those who are not in mine.

beyond what seems inherent, i also just feel more comfortable with someone older than me. i'm attracted to younger women too of course, but i don't look at them and see potential in relationships most of the time.

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RE: Dommes...subs...ages - 10/23/2008 6:38:58 AM

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When I was still a fulltime Domme I had many subs contact me that were roughly half my age. They were specifically looking for a "mature" woman. My style as a Domme was basically one of a teacher and I had many come to me who were looking to be punished. While for some it may have little to do with it, for others it is a major part in their decision.

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RE: Dommes...subs...ages - 10/23/2008 2:53:27 PM

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I'm older! By...almost 3 months. Yep, we're both young though. And for me, bdsm can, but not always, include sexual activities.

edited to add a comma.

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RE: Dommes...subs...ages - 10/25/2008 10:22:25 AM

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No I wouldn't mind an older Dom, age is just a number. As for too old, never really thought about it.

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RE: Dommes...subs...ages - 10/25/2008 11:35:29 AM

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( yes I know I am neither male nore submissive but I thought I would throw my .02 cents in anyway)

I can only answer for myself my beloved slave is 9 years older then I am, and in general all my slaves have been within a 10 year age gap of my own age. I tend to seek out submissives who are in my general age range, so I can enjoy comman interests, ideals and goals.
and P.S. I do enjoy a sexual releationship with my beloved slave, it is part of our releationship.

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