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ProtagonistLily -> RE: Christmas Present (12/13/2005 9:10:07 AM)
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how about asking Master what HE wants as a gift? is there a rule that it must be a "suprise" gift or an object that costs money or something suitable for wrapping and sticking under the tree?
it has been this slave's experience that as much as it might please THIS SLAVE to suprise Master with the "perfect" gift, it is FAR more important to obey Master's rules and if you don't know what the rule is, ASK.
Merc & beth
I would agree with Merc 100% here. Sometimes, we forget that essentially, regardless of what the dynamics of our relationship is, we are still in some sense boyfriend-girlfriend and those rules can and do still apply.
Sir was great. He didn't make me wonder what he wanted. He pointed me to his Christmas list in September and I've been ticking off the items ever since. I was told under no uncertain terms that socks and shirts and sweaters would be regarded with a high degree of disdain. He was looking for some specific things and I was able to procure 90% of them. I even stuck a few goodies in there for me, like a straight jacket ~grin~.
The thing that we always talk about with regard to D/s relationships is communication. Sir communicated his wants to me, and I gave him a list as well. I'm a submissive, not a clairvoyent, so I don't think our first Christmas would be as good if we hadn't communicated our lists to each other.
He may own my body and my heart, but I still have my own paycheck and I can still choose how I use it more or less. (Though, he did call me last week and told me I wasn't allowed to by another thing when he saw the pile of presents in my apartment that were for him. I'm wondering if that means I should send the straight jacket back....)
Lily
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