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kallisto -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 4:16:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

If someone wanders up to me to talk about oral or anal or indeed ......or ill scare them shitless by some story of a scene ive done.



This made me giggle [:)]   I find that response to be so true.  Shuts them up quicker than you can shake your head.  [:)]




MadRabbit -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 4:21:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: leadership527

@OP: Has it occurred to you that in our culture, men are awarded for being sexual and women are castigated? Looking at how we still treat sexuality between the two genders, it's no surprise to me that men talk about it more openly than women.


That's really the heart of the issue. In my experience, women are very subtly encouraged to be mongamious and celibate via negative reinforcement of being labeled a "slut".

I've found women in general to be far more curious, nasty and sexually charged then men and in an enviroment where there is no fear of her friends finding out, will gladly let it out.

The time between leaving the bar and the beginning of a one night stand is usually spent "pretending" that this just suddenly happened and she would never do this normally.




MistresseLotus -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 4:32:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: steelman1

Hi everyone, this question is mainly directed to the ladies, but men feel free to jump in if you got a good point.

I was surfing this site and thought to myself, WOW THERE ARE A LOT OF HORNY KINKY WOMEN OUT THERE! In society, most women seem to be discusted with the mention of cum, or pernis, or cunciligus. So my question is, do women on this site pretend to be discusted in public about sex, when they really want. And second, how can you find out a woman is kinky in public. Lastly, who are more perverted men or women behind closed doors. My bet is women are more perverted.


... you mean you are just finding this out?  Ever hear of the saying a Lady in public a whore in the bedroom?  Women are only as open as is comfortable for their partner.




missturbation -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 4:51:30 PM)

I really am baffled by the majority opinion that women should be lady like when it comes to discussing sex in public.




tweedydaddy -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 4:51:53 PM)

I never met a woman who was disgusted by sex in my life. Maybe it's just the way you approach them?




Usako -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 5:12:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I really am baffled by the majority opinion that women should be lady like when it comes to discussing sex in public.


I think men should be the same, gentlemanly in public. There is a time and a place for everything, that's what I always say.




marieToo -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 5:14:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I've found women in general to be far more curious, nasty and sexually charged then men and in an enviroment where there is no fear of her friends finding out, will gladly let it out.

The time between leaving the bar and the beginning of a one night stand is usually spent "pretending" that this just suddenly happened and she would never do this normally.


I don't think this can be accurately gauged when observing the behavior of someone who's been consuming alcohol.  (Assuming the girl was actually drinking while at the bar, of course.)




OneMoreWaste -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 8:55:57 PM)

Behind closed doors? I was wondering why "women" are only perverted on the Internets. I must be hanging out behind the wrong doors. [&:]




VivaciousSub -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/23/2008 11:13:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

Behind closed doors? I was wondering why "women" are only perverted on the Internets. I must be hanging out behind the wrong doors. [&:]


Come hang out behind my door! [;)]

Betcha I could teach you a few things....

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I've found women in general to be far more curious, nasty and sexually charged then men and in an enviroment where there is no fear of her friends finding out, will gladly let it out.

The time between leaving the bar and the beginning of a one night stand is usually spent "pretending" that this just suddenly happened and she would never do this normally.


What kind of women do you hang out with? LOL! I've nailed most of my one-night stands by not pretending I don't do that kind of thing normally. As one of my guy friends put it, "you don't hide it, but you don't flaunt it either". No complaints from the gentlemen. My friends all know I'm a kinky little slut, and we'll discuss that amongst ourselves, but I don't regale most random strangers with my exploits.

Unless, of course, I'm interested in them and the feeling is returned.




eyesopened -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 1:58:45 AM)

A good portion of my public life is spent at work.  Human Resources fobids the use of the words cum, penis, cunnilingus, and even the telling of "off-color" jokes, innuendos, etc.  When you start working, ask the HR manager about those words and they'll include the phrase "up to and including termination" in their response.  Just sayin...




shewhoserves -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 2:03:54 AM)

Behind closed doors? Who says the Door has to be closed




windchymes -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 6:36:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave

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lemmbeYourMine
Or you could watch their S.O. Slip his hand down her pants and rub her ass right there in public although he may have thought they were alone... and *drools* THen you know she is some kind of kinky slut. Of course having an S.O. could defeat the purpose of knowing. Happened at Wal-mart here with a co-worker.


What can be more kinky than admitting you work at Wal-Mart ?



Tar-zhay? [:D]  (Target)




wintertexan -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 7:42:06 AM)

This site has given you a false idea of the number of horny perverted women in the world. Actually, all of them to be found are here, and nowhere else. And of the ones you do find here, most are really just three specific very horny and perverted women with multiple profiles who keep the illusion alive. Let me ad: Alas.




Coupleofwhats -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 8:11:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: wintertexan

This site has given you a false idea of the number of horny perverted women in the world. Actually, all of them to be found are here, and nowhere else. And of the ones you do find here, most are really just three specific very horny and perverted women with multiple profiles who keep the illusion alive. Let me ad: Alas.


I don't think you're looking in the right places: I know a TON of female pervs!




LaTigresse -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 8:41:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Usako

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I really am baffled by the majority opinion that women should be lady like when it comes to discussing sex in public.


I think men should be the same, gentlemanly in public. There is a time and a place for everything, that's what I always say.



I agree. There is more to life than sex. If a person cannot have a conversation with an aquaintance without discussing sex, they've got bigger problems than whether someone is uptight or not.

I am the least uptight person I know, but I don't discuss sex or kink with very many people. It isn't necessary.




Beneathhumanity -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 8:45:50 AM)

Personally I can't answer for anyone else, being I am not particularly sexually oriented, however if I mention my desires to someone,imagine there reaction if I say "I want to submit so much, to be reduced below humanity," probably the whole world would want me as a pet or object. I am very careful with my submission,its about trust and giving myself to the right type of person who I find myself able to freely give myself to. Many of my friends know I am into BDSM, yet they don't know the details, I don't see the point in my life remaining an open book. I tell who I need to, besides several doms who seen me on the street came up to me varius times asking if I was a submissive, I don't know how they could tell. It may also be that the signs are there but your not watching or listening carefully;)




SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 11:31:14 AM)

Sorry haven't read any of the replies.
i am always thrown off guard with questions that are gender biased and force me into thinking about a binomial.
The degree of perversion has little to do with what plumbing one has between one's legs in my opinion.




GigglingGoddess -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 6:51:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: steelman1

discusted with the mention of cum, or pernis, or cunciligus.



EEWWW cunciligus!! gross!!
I mean, I love me some cunnilingus, but when it comes to cunciligus, or some guy wanting to stick his "pernis" in me, I just wanna puke!

Sorry, I have a need to correct spelling. Ask my boyfriend, he knows.

Anyway, I'm pretty open and comfortable about sex when the topic comes up in conversation. I generally don't mention BDSM much around my vanilla friends, but I hint at it occasionally, especially if I suspect it in them. I have a very dirty mind, and I'm often one of the most vulgar of my friends, as long as I know they won't get offended. I think I just got sick of being innocent, so once BDSM burst the innocent bubble...
Obviously the company I'm in determines my level of perversion; I keep it clean around older or younger people, but I'll let it all out when around peers that I know well enough. Then again, I'm a college student, so maybe older women have differing levels of openess about sex. But you're a student, too Steelman, so I don't know why you'd encounter such aversion to talking about sex. Do you go to a religious college? Do you hang out with girls who are too concerned about their reputation?




OsideGirl -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 7:00:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

A good portion of my public life is spent at work.  Human Resources fobids the use of the words cum, penis, cunnilingus
How about pernis and cunciligus?




juliaoceania -> RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? (10/24/2008 7:35:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: steelman1

Hi everyone, this question is mainly directed to the ladies, but men feel free to jump in if you got a good point.

I was surfing this site and thought to myself, WOW THERE ARE A LOT OF HORNY KINKY WOMEN OUT THERE! In society, most women seem to be discusted with the mention of cum, or pernis, or cunciligus. So my question is, do women on this site pretend to be discusted in public about sex, when they really want. And second, how can you find out a woman is kinky in public. Lastly, who are more perverted men or women behind closed doors. My bet is women are more perverted.




Those concepts have never disgusted me....

If a stranger approached me about those concepts I would be disgusted alright, with the person who did that.
Yep, the conversation in a lot of cases would go like....Hello? 911? I have some freak in my face talking about his penis, cum, and cunnilingus.....



Sounds like a guy I encountered on the bus the other day that wanted to talk about my "nice tits"[:'(]




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