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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 5:22:47 AM   
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OMG...lol... how can you tell if someone has a submissive streak when they give a blow job? lol  If they gobble you up... is it dominant?  If they shyly or coyly or slowly or gently... come in there and bite the fuck outta you... what is that... or gentle and slow.. is that submissive?  I must know this one! lol  A good blow job... in my opinion means a whole lot of all sorts of things and I sure as hell wouldn't want my submissive to think I for gods sakes was submitting in said blow job because it would freak his friggin ass out and blow my friggin blow job!


Your techique sounds complex, Lockit...I'm afraid I will need a demo to fully understand it.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 5:49:56 AM   
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Oral Servitude?  I also eat Reece's for someone else's benefit.

No really, Ma'am!!!  I honestly don't love chocolate and peanut-butter, whatever You do; i don't want to be tied down and force fed them for Your enjoyment.


For an act to be act of service, one does not have to dislike this act.




Uhhh, just my opinion, but i think he was being facetious.


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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 5:54:14 AM   
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69 for me is a scary proposition.  Many years ago, while doing this with a very talanted tonguester, i reached my zenith, and my teeth clamped down so hard, it left bruises for a week.  The thought that that could go the other way, effectively stopped me from participating again.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 6:17:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Every woman knows that a man's cock gets bigger when he's excited.  Fewer of them know that, at times, it'll actually shrink in fear, too. 

Thank you for that, Manxy.  Any embarrassing trouser-tent a man has developed while reading the rest of this thread will now have comfortably subsided!

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 7:07:43 AM   
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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 8:10:08 AM   
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Oral Servitude?  I also eat Reece's for someone else's benefit.

No really, Ma'am!!!  I honestly don't love chocolate and peanut-butter, whatever You do; i don't want to be tied down and force fed them for Your enjoyment.


For an act to be act of service, one does not have to dislike this act.


Uhhh, just my opinion, but i think he was being facetious.


Yes, I know. But what point do you think he was trying to convey via the facetious statement? It is this point at which I direct my response.

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Sea

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 11:09:24 AM   
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OMG...lol... how can you tell if someone has a submissive streak when they give a blow job? lol  If they gobble you up... is it dominant?  If they shyly or coyly or slowly or gently... come in there and bite the fuck outta you... what is that... or gentle and slow.. is that submissive?  I must know this one! lol  A good blow job... in my opinion means a whole lot of all sorts of things and I sure as hell wouldn't want my submissive to think I for gods sakes was submitting in said blow job because it would freak his friggin ass out and blow my friggin blow job!


Your techique sounds complex, Lockit...I'm afraid I will need a demo to fully understand it.


I have boxes I'm stumbling over... things all over the apt. and twenty thousand things to do and the guy wants a demo! lol  Actually, I was kind of needing some sort of demo myself as I was a bit confussed on how one submissivly gives a bj... like are they afraid or what? 

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 3:05:41 PM   
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I was kind of needing some sort of demo myself as I was a bit confussed on how one submissivly gives a bj... like are they afraid or what? 
I've actually been curious about that answer as well, but it doesn't look like subexploring will be indulging us with this particular explanation.   M


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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 5:02:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		You say you want info on how to submissively give a bj? This should clear that up.

http://tour.gaggingwhores.com/aa/?nats=McSpike:50RevShareNP:GWR,0,0,0,0

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 5:05:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL... you had that link and wanted a demo anyway... hummmmm ROFL 

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 5:19:20 PM   
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cjan wrote:
You say you want info on how to submissively give a bj? This should clear that up.
http://tour.gaggingwhores.com/aa/?nats=McSpike:50RevShareNP:GWR,0,0,0,0

So a submissive blowjob is one given to a guy whose cock smells so bad you have to employ a third party to hold your nose while you suck?

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 5:32:42 PM   
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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 5:53:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's acting, beebie. The nose holding is just to "make" her open her yap, also a nice change of pace from hair pulling. Of course, I don't have smell-o-rama, so you may be correct in this instance.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 9:13:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
I was kind of needing some sort of demo myself as I was a bit confussed on how one submissivly gives a bj... like are they afraid or what? 
I've actually been curious about that answer as well, but it doesn't look like subexploring will be indulging us with this particular explanation.   M



I have been summoned! ummm, anyway, not sure how much of a hard line I want to take defending that claim...it wasn't the main thrust of the comment anyway...I'll be here all night, folks!

But it may have something to do with how someone reacts when you take their head in your hands, thrust a bit more aggressively, etc. So perhaps it's my actions that are triggering their responses. People are pretty self-revealing in sex, though, you can tell things just from how someone looks in your eyes.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/30/2008 10:19:33 PM   
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Thanks cjan.

subexploring, we were just yanking your chain because we're bad like that, and some of us can play whatever role we like when it comes to sex.   M

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/31/2008 3:27:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
I was kind of needing some sort of demo myself as I was a bit confussed on how one submissivly gives a bj... like are they afraid or what? 
I've actually been curious about that answer as well, but it doesn't look like subexploring will be indulging us with this particular explanation.   M



Ah, i think i know this one. Is it where the submissive comes home and is not in the mood, yet is ordered to perform anyway. He has to continue until the Domina cries out " Yes yes yes! You`re the daddy " ( Ha ha i got carried away ) And then orders him to stop ?

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/31/2008 4:14:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		As mentioned so graphically above, I also have a bit of a problem concentrating on what I'm doing when in the 'throws'.  I have a very bad tenancy to to get overly 'rough' with the boys parts.  Hubby has learned that 69 is not a good idea with me.  In fact, he has learned to keep his tinder dangley bits as far away from my hands or teeth as possible during 'oral servitude'.  I tend to forget that he is NOT a sub and he is NOT into CBT.    Poor dear.  He doesn't like having me squeeze his nuts.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/31/2008 8:11:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		So basically guys I think the upshot is that if she's the one with the sore tongue and the pain in the neck you're in trouble.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/31/2008 8:27:53 AM   
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As mentioned so graphically above, I also have a bit of a problem concentrating on what I'm doing when in the 'throws'.  I have a very bad tenancy to to get overly 'rough' with the boys parts.  Hubby has learned that 69 is not a good idea with me.  In fact, he has learned to keep his tinder dangley bits as far away from my hands or teeth as possible during 'oral servitude'.  I tend to forget that he is NOT a sub and he is NOT into CBT.    Poor dear.  He doesn't like having me squeeze his nuts.



LOL.  Damm i was trying not to be too graphic.
manxy

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RE: Oral Servitude - 10/31/2008 8:29:30 AM   
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Every woman knows that a man's cock gets bigger when he's excited.  Fewer of them know that, at times, it'll actually shrink in fear, too. 

Thank you for that, Manxy.  Any embarrassing trouser-tent a man has developed while reading the rest of this thread will now have comfortably subsided!



Hmmm, don't remember any shrinkage.  Wonder what he was into, that i didn't realize at the time.  ;;-))
manxy

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