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curiousexplorer -> RE: Male Lesbians (10/26/2008 2:55:18 PM)
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Male lesbian? Is that like a mammal fish?
"I have a friend who sometimes jokes that he's a male lesbian, because he tends to be attracted to lesbians."
I hate to disappoint your friend, but he is just a male. Most men like lesbians, at least lesbians with the fantasy that they are really bi.
"People should, IMO, be able to define themselves as they choose. "
Well yes, to a certain degree. The only way language works is if words have meaning, so it's kinda pointless if people can just use words as they personally want to use them, we may as well just grunt and say nothing.
"I think beargonewild's statement as an identifyer for a guy who just likes pussy might be what is meant. "
Except that is not a male lesbian, that is a straight (heterosexual) male. Guy's who like cock and call themselves straight are either scared or homophobic, but their fears do not change the meaning of the words straight, heterosexual or bisexual.
"yet has the most dyke folk music I've ever seen."
Since when has music or clothes or anything else made someone gay, straight, lesbian or anything else? Sad when people can't just appreciate music without adopting the culture the music comes from, like lilly white guys running around pretending to be black gangster rappers (especially lilly white Aussie guys pretending to be American black gang members).
"I was a male lesbian...
I had a Mistress that made me a lesbian for all practical purposes. Sexually I did not have a cock. I was dressed and treated like a girl during our sexual play and contact. We did not have intercourse unless it involved a strap-on. I used a strap-on to fuck her vagina and she fucked my ass. "
Isn't that crossdressing/sissification?
"Like Bill I could say, " I did not have sex with that Woman". "
Like Bill you would be a liar, sex is not just the specific act of sexual intercourse, it is any SEXual act.
"The only real value in labels is to help people find their peas or cranberry sauce easier."
Exactly, which is why using accurate labels is important. And don't get caught up on the word labels, it's actually language you are talking about. I know many people are "label" phobic, especially in this crowd, but labels are just accurate descriptions for communication, there is no negativity, except that which you bring yourself.
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