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WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: Mastering D/s (10/27/2008 9:10:43 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ThundersCry
And once you have *mastered* it...
Then what...
LOL.. I love short one liners like this. Perhaps the word "Mastered" is not the best choice of words here. Because in reality it's more along the lines of Comfort of knowing the other person, their needs, wants, quarks, flaws and faults and being able to deal with it. Type of thing that takes time to occur.
In terms of fully Mastering anything, that's open to debate, since when does anybody fully Master anything. But if you have Mastered 80% of it compared to say 20-30% of it, so much the better.
It's the knowing in what aspects one needs to master, what they have on their hands, and what skills they need to improve upon or even work on more. Different partners in my experience can bring out different things/qualities of me, and vice versa so I have been told. I myself have had to face myself in the middle of relationships while they grow and develop. So Mastering including not only my partner by myself in the process.
The whole shaping and molding concept, which is a two way deal. Both the Dom and submissive tend to shape and mold one another along the way. That was a whole different topic, on another thread at one time on here.
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