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knees2you -> When was the Age? (12/13/2005 8:26:43 PM)
Subs/Slaves[:D] When was the Age that you couldn't wait to find a Master or Mistress? I've been submissive all my life, and when I finally found out that I could use it for self/Mistress gain {Age 37} That was when I knew I needed to find a Mistress. For some it might have been when You where first legally able to get into Bdsm. I got very excited my first play party. I learned alot there. That is when I met my first Mistress.[:)] quote: "You can see but Still be blind." Sincerely, Ant[;)]

foxglove716 -> RE: When was the Age? (12/13/2005 8:38:33 PM)
I came to my senses when I was 20. Before that I thought I was just a sick pervert and denied all my kinky feelings. I finally built up the courage to research just what was wrong with me online and discovered... nothing was wrong with me!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: When was the Age? (12/13/2005 9:03:40 PM)
Gosh I was having fantasies of being kept in a slave house when I was 8. I was having fantasies of being trained in a servants groupat 13. I was trying to get my lovers to force me into sex when I was 16. Legality has nothing to do with desire.

perverseangelic -> RE: When was the Age? (12/13/2005 9:12:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Gosh I was having fantasies of being kept in a slave house when I was 8. I was having fantasies of being trained in a servants groupat 13. Legality has nothing to do with desire. Seconded, though, I'd make the ages several years younger ;) I didn't start trying to act on it till I was much older, but I remember wanting to be a slave forever. I remember first studying early American slavery and thinking that that was the life I wanted. And, heck, reading about the Salem Witch trials and the inquition and wishing I'd lived then.

Sensualips -> RE: When was the Age? (12/13/2005 9:21:31 PM)
When I was 11-12, my best friend and I took turns "hypnotizing" each other and then controlling the other's actions, "forcing" each other to do things. At 13 we dressed in slutty black clothes and carved patterns on each other's skin with exacto knives. At 14 we seduced boys and played with them, making them beg for things or ask permission to cum. Sometimes we'd tie one to her four poster bed, write on him with lipstick, and walk around the bed, giggling and whispering. And at 16...well, by 16 she was had been sent to a 30 day treatment facility and then boarding school. We sure had fun when she came home for the summer vacation though. She was such a bad influence on me. I miss her. I didn't know what bdsm was though. We just thought we were sexy little vixens, reclaiming our own sexual identity in the name of feminism...we could do whatever we wanted with our own bodies and f anyone that tried to stop us!!!!

veronicaofML -> RE: When was the Age? (12/13/2005 9:24:57 PM)
When was the Age that you couldn't wait to find a Mistress? ========================== well let's do some basic math. this is 2005...i am 52. it was "about" 1998 to 2000...sooooo say "maybe"............5 or 7 yrs ago? 52 minus 5 = 48? maybe 46? somewhere in that area...give or take a year ehhh yeah.....about 6 or 7 yrs...so i guess yeah...about 46........when i started hunting for information on this stuff. vanilla ladies don't want a nice guy...so 'a' friend told me to go-look-for-kinky-shit....... okay my story and i am sticking to it. take care

sweetpettjenny -> RE: When was the Age? (12/14/2005 2:41:57 AM)
all my life , but at 19 i became a slave

plantlady64 -> RE: When was the Age? (12/14/2005 3:22:17 AM)
Hello All, I was 41, and still am before I found myself kinky and in need of a Master. Sincerely, sub suzanne

fastlane -> RE: When was the Age? (12/14/2005 6:06:21 AM)
I think with the birth of my first son, when I asked the doctor "when your through with him I wanna smack his ass too!" My wife glared at me, so I smacked hers instead and thus "A Dom was Born!"

littleone35 -> RE: When was the Age? (12/14/2005 8:10:39 AM)
I really don't know. I have always been submissive my Master found me i was not activelly looking he was a friend who became my Master. littleone

AlderTheKitty -> RE: When was the Age? (12/14/2005 8:17:16 AM)
lol i was between 9 and 11 when i had my first it got me so hard for that age atleast lol but i didn't find out about bdsm till i was like 13 and it wasn't till i was like 15 till i started realising i was a slave then at 16 a firend of mien asked me to dom her and i was so jelous of her that she got to submit that i was a total ass to her and when we broke it off was was a switch by the way i found out she had a dom who lived in the uk and i was so depressed thinking i'd never find someone that i wanted to comit sucide she dcided to dom me to keep me from doing so and eventualy i becomes so attatched i scared her. long story short the road to this life isnt easy you'll meat a few ass holes allong the way i met 1 with in 3 months of eachother but you have to put your head up i'm now 18 and i think i might of found her finaly

KatyLied -> RE: When was the Age? (12/14/2005 3:17:53 PM)
36 But that's not when I searched for someone. That was the watershed relationship for me. He was a natural Dom (to me, anyway), we had a D/s relationship, although at the time I didn't know what it was. It was the first time I ever melted for someone. There was no bondage or spanking, but other new things for me.

nephandi -> RE: When was the Age? (12/14/2005 4:11:34 PM)
i had fantasies aboute being a slave when a little girl and i do mean little, for as long as i can remember, this developed into both sexual and psycological cravings when i became old enough to think of sex, around 13 or 14 i think. i remember reading this fantasy bood, and the man charecters had sex, and what intresed me the most was not the romance, it was that the woman, a virgin felt pain when having sex whit this huge man. i was 16 when i had my first sexual encounter, an BDSM one, and i tried BDSM now and then for years but it did not work, then i realised that the play was not enough, the play was fun but what i needed was to submitt and be owned, and then the play and everything got a deeper meaning, i was then 22, and i am developing a D/s relationship now at 23.

BalletBob -> RE: When was the Age? (12/14/2005 9:02:59 PM)
I didn't get the urge till late, about 5 years ago. That's when I found out I could get a Mistress to help me with my addiction......LMCLAO Still looking for MADAM's replacement, BalletBob

sunshine333 -> RE: When was the Age? (12/15/2005 3:53:24 AM)
i can remember being really little ... like 5 maybe? ... and fantisizing about being kidnapped by a man ... who would keep me as a slave (thought i didn't know that word then). he would govern my life and punish me for disobeying him. sometimes it was a ship captain and i would have to "serve" the whole crew. it wasn't a sexual fantasy as a child, though. it was just the idea of being kept and owned and disciplined. i remember being in my late teens and early 20's and actually saying that i wanted a Master .. i wanted someone to own me. but i didn't discover that there was an actual lifestyle until about 4 years ago. how liberating. ~sunshine

Lenina -> RE: When was the Age? (12/16/2005 7:19:53 PM)
When I was younger, I used to have rape fantasies. I pictured being tied down and controlled. I always surpressed the feelings, because to a large group of people, those are messed up feelings. I was in a vanilla relationship for the last 3 years that I actually just left less than a month ago. I always tried to get him to do psuedo kinky things in bed, like tie me down, pour wax over me, play with knives, etc. He always was hesitant and thought I was kind of crazy with requests like that. So for about a year before the breakup I started researching BDSM and what I might be interested in, and now, since I left him, I've researched it more heavily. Still no practice yet ;) but I'm sure I can change that. SO in short, I've had submissive tendencies most of my life, it's just now that I'm starting to act on them. But I'm young, there's still plenty of time.

invisibledream -> RE: When was the Age? (12/16/2005 8:46:36 PM)
i'm 19, and it's something i've been interested in for about 2 years. as i've read and learned more about it, my interest has delved deeper and deeper. i've always had a bit of a kinky side. i guess you can say it kind of blossomed out more as i gained more knowledge

slavejali -> RE: When was the Age? (12/16/2005 10:09:03 PM)
Like a few of the posts here, i had dreams and fantasies about being a slave since i can remember. Interesting im not poly really, cuz in my dreams and fantasies there was always more than one Master and many many slaves.

raney -> RE: When was the Age? (12/17/2005 1:06:55 AM)
gosh this made me think and bring back a FLOOD of memories. i can remember being at my dads house with his friends. i always "served" him and his friends. i can remember when i was, gee, 12, sitting down playing cards with a friend of ours. i have to said friend of our because he was somewhere in between our ages. was one of the neighborhood kids in a way. hard to explain. anyway lol, my thought was, gosh, i sure would like for him to tie me up and spank me. it was very disturbing to me. there was nothing sexual in the thought. i lost my virginity to an older boy the next year. with that, came a flood of things into my head. i thought they were always wayyy perverted. the men that i slept with in my teens, we always the Dominant type. always older. i wanted them to tell me what to do, wanted to feel "dirty". boy was it ever confusing. the bdsm never got heavy at all. it was always very light. until after my first son was born, and i got the internet!!! boy did that open up MY eyes. i am like a sponge. i read and read and read some more. i didnt act upon any of it for two years. i wanted to make sure that is what i really wanted. when i brought it up to my ex husband, he simply said i was sick in the head, and he wanted nothing more to do with me. so i was 21 id say when i decided to actively look. it hasnt always been an active search, or lifestlye for me. heck, before now, i didnt think i ever wanted 24/7. but now i know that is what i need. i know now, that no matter what, i will not go back to vanilla. stephanie

mons -> RE: When was the Age? (12/17/2005 2:13:32 AM)
i was different i remember having a doll house my father was very no not a dom but dominant and i was mad at him i adore him but oi know i was not going to be and submissvie do not take this wrong but i was not going to be push around like my mother i would have dreams of cutting off the penis's and having them for totrue and this was so real to me i was always telling someone when i was in my 20's how i would tie them up and beat them and then i know i was a person a woman who wanted all control over men but i did not kno wwhat it was until i went into an aol chat room which was for domianant men i saw the power they had and i wanted it too remember i would go there and this one woman would pick one me i was like so mad then when i became a domme i went back to that room just to see her and tell her i am now a domme and to my surpise she was so kind to me and fun to talk with it was a turning point in my life and then my first submissive well it was so powerful and sexy hot and all of the things all of us think of it was hot mons [:)]

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