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SteelofUtah -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/28/2008 11:42:59 AM)
C-D, I believe it is time for that talk. I used to play a game with my former girl pawn. We would play Bullshit which is a game played with cards in which you start with an Ace then go 2's 3's 4's and so on you Take what you have of that card in your hand and lay it down face down . i.e: 3 Aces - then set them down face down. the next person says 2 two's - then sets them down face down the next person 1 three - then sets it down face down This goes on like this until someone thinks you are Lying and calls Bullshit. They pick up the cards the last person set down and if they lied then the person who got caught lying picks up all the cards and the person who caught them gets to start with any number they like but it goes on numerically from there. In addition to having to take the cards every time she got caught lying she would have to take 2 spanks for each card she lied about laying down. Basically I would go 2 eights, and set down my cards then she would go 11 nines, which there aren't that many of and she would have to take 22 spanks Fun Game always ended with her well used and well spanked and no one ever winning the game. Steel

DesFIP -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/28/2008 7:31:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx Well....sometimes I sneak chocolate behind HM's back... does that count? Oh! And I'm always real sorry after... Really? I'm never sorry after. Just hand over the chocolate and nobody will get hurt. Cheating is cheating. You keep your word or you don't. If you don't, when the partner has kept theirs then you aren't trustworthy and without trust there isn't much left to a relationship.

MasterTslave -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/30/2008 11:51:43 AM)
if you are a good Master, your sub will be way to busy to even think of cheating.

Lockit -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/30/2008 12:03:30 PM)
LOL Too busy to think? A good enough master can keep someone so busy they can't think of cheating or actually do so? Wow... not in my world. I mean... after all... there are three strokes and your out kinda guys and I doubt there are huge shortages of quickies... well, at least I hope not. If someone can think it and they can, I don't care how busy they are... they can do it. I mean... how many multitask and can do one thing while thinking another. lol

BeIgnited -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/30/2008 1:27:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterTslave if you are a good Master, your sub will be way to busy to even think of cheating. So, where does personal responsibility enter into it, then? Arguably, when one person cheats it is because they are going unfulfilled in the relationship, but the burden is on them to deal with their problems in a constructive manner (by making their concerns known), or end the relationship. But sometimes the person who cheats is a just a jerk, regardless of what side of the slash they fall on.

tweedydaddy -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/30/2008 3:59:43 PM)
What a sub or slave does in their spare time is actually none of my business! The game and playing stops when they leave my house. I have decided I am DommieDaddydiddymiss, since were all paying with words. DommieDaddyDiddymiss, and proud!

tazzygirl -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/30/2008 9:29:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kinkypuppy2 there is a difference between "cheating" in the vanilla world and fucking someone else if you are in a m-s relationship. I as her Master have the right to fuck anyone I wish with out her permission, or even telling her. NOW the catch to that statement..... I have absolutely no desire TO fuck anyone else as what she provides me is far and away better then just "fucking". or even tell her. guess the concept of dying to have sex is alive and well. to me, a Dominant who would put my life at risk isnt a Dominant at all. just a male needed some strange on the side and not man enough to speak up and say so. quote: ORIGINAL: DavanKael Dom, sub, swtich, I don't care how they identify in D/s parlance or otherwise; cheating is an immediate trip out the door, outta my life, and probably with much negative fanfare as I'm going to assume they don't mind attempting to potentially kill me. And, if they provided me with some sort of medically damaging 'gift' as a result of their duplicity, Hell would take the form of a small, dedicated female. Davan barva, davan! if i am his slave, he should put my health and life before the need of his cock. what happened to self control and accountability? tazzy edited to add i also feel a submissive who cheats isnt much better. she, or he, should also be held to the same accountability as the other side of the slash. some relationships enjoy the freedom to do what you please when the other is not around. thats known up front, and thats not cheating. when it has to take a back alley way and its hidden among the dark shadows, you know its sneaking, underhanded and simply wrong. we are supposed to be adults. be an adult and speak up first. i dont wish to die because my partner wasnt brave enough to give me that choice of life or death. tazzy

SirDominic -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/31/2008 10:08:27 AM)
It would not be the cheating that would distress me the most, it would be the dishonesty and deception. I believe honesty is a must, to the point that I have, from the very beginning, stated in my profile that I am married and not hiding anything from my wife. You think that wasn't a deal breaker for potential relationships time and time again. lol. Fortunately I have never had a sub cheat on me, so I've never had to face the issue. If it did happen, it would most likely kill the relationship, but I would want to hear her explanation first. There is no excuse for deception; their can be extenuating circumstances though. If I had some reason to believe the relationship was salvagible I would require a period of separation. Not as punishment, but time for us both to consider if we want to continue together or not.

WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/31/2008 10:12:26 AM)
If your submissive/slave is cheating on you, please consider buying a cage.

tazzygirl -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (10/31/2008 5:10:22 PM)
hey, not all who like cages cheat ~grins

WiseCracknSadist -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/1/2008 6:34:33 PM)
Wow this thread took a left turn in a hurry. It amuses me to watch subbies, yeah you, deflate a Doms thread because they don't like the subject. Then they all ban together in sisterhood and take shots at the guy. And yes I do expect there to be similar comments to what I've just said.

CalifChick -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/1/2008 7:01:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist It amuses me to watch subbies, yeah you, deflate a Dommies thread because they don't like the subject. If you're going to be condescending, at least be an equal-opportunity condescensionist. Cali

Lockit -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/1/2008 7:13:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist Wow this thread took a left turn in a hurry. It amuses me to watch subbies, yeah you, deflate a Doms thread because they don't like the subject. Then they all ban together in sisterhood and take shots at the guy. And yes I do expect there to be similar comments to what I've just said. (Does a head spin) Say what? Are you talking to CruelDesires or what? Who deflated what? Damn it, I hate when I miss stuff.

sirsholly -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/1/2008 7:18:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist Wow this thread took a left turn in a hurry. It amuses me to watch subbies, yeah you, deflate a Doms thread because they don't like the subject. Then they all ban together in sisterhood and take shots at the guy. And yes I do expect there to be similar comments to what I've just said. deflate..as in release the hot air?[8\|]

califsue -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/1/2008 7:37:19 PM)
Due to circumstances, Master is dealing with his own demons and has asked me to wait. I gave him my word that I would and I will honor my word and commitment to him. That does not take away the most basic physical needs which haven't been met in quite some time. At least going through what I am currently going through gives me a better insight as to WHY someone might cheat.

Lockit -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/1/2008 7:42:05 PM)
Maybe your Master can help with that and buy you some sweet lil toys! Hang in there... there may be some blessing you can't see at the moment. Most challenges have something wonderful in them if you can be patient and open to them.

NuevaVida -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/1/2008 7:53:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist It amuses me to watch subbies, yeah you, deflate a Dommies thread because they don't like the subject. If you're going to be condescending, at least be an equal-opportunity condescensionist. Cali Well done, Cali! Although I didn't see anyone deflate anything here. I read that post and thought, "Huh???"

califsue -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/1/2008 8:44:56 PM)
Lockit--Thank you for the encouragement and reminder!!

catize -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/2/2008 7:32:59 AM)
Fast Reply Ummm, guessing here, but it seems as if he’s piqued because Submissive people are posting their opinions That submissive people are posting where ever they want to post (on the “ ask a master” forum of all places!!!) That when submissive people have opinions and post on the ask a master forum his ego and perhaps something else suffers from deflation eta: the above is regarding post #31

IrishMist -> RE: subs that cheat on their doms (11/2/2008 7:42:09 AM)
~ fast general reply ~ Hmmm...I guess I actually took his question at face value; which is why I left the thread pretty much alone. He asked a question that is asked quite often by *submissives and slaves* in regards to their own partners...his only change from the norm was to instead ask his question of the other side ; which, even I can say, we often do not see asked here. Of course, I guess many took offense to the way he worded his question...I saw the humor in it though /shrug

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