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Going to bed - 10/28/2008 3:53:37 PM   
slaveSarah56


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Status: offline 		hi everyone!  last time i was here I was spook101  http://www.collarchat.com/m_2182661/tm.htm  my name has since changed by instruction, so here i am again as sarah!!!  sorry if there's any confussion.

when it's time for bed, on those occassions i am with my Master, i am not permitted to remove my make-up, and have to sleep in my stockings.  aside from kneeling and requestiong permission to get into the bed, that's about it. i would like to suggest to Master something a little more graceful, something small but enough to show my respect, and dedication to Him.

i know, tis a daft question, but any sugestions would be appreciated.

sarah xxx

ps.  i am fully aware slaveSarah has a big 'S' in it, it was a mistake, and Master did tell me off about it.  alot!

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RE: Going to bed - 10/28/2008 5:10:21 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		Perhaps giving him a kiss on his cheek and thanking him for being able to lie next to him.  

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RE: Going to bed - 10/28/2008 5:20:36 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Sounds like he pretty much knows what he wants. I'd suggest begging for permission to remove your make-up cause that is pretty bad for your skin and pimples *generally* aren't considered sexy. Just me.

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RE: Going to bed - 10/28/2008 5:45:37 PM   
RainydayNE


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Sounds like he pretty much knows what he wants. I'd suggest begging for permission to remove your make-up cause that is pretty bad for your skin and pimples *generally* aren't considered sexy. Just me.


yeah... agreeing with this one. =p

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RE: Going to bed - 10/28/2008 8:01:38 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Being unwashed and deliberately clogging your pores? Eww. Are you at least allowed to brush and floss?

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RE: Going to bed - 10/28/2008 9:05:01 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		You can try sharing with him that your skin will age more quickly if you are unable to cleanse it of make up and put moisturizer on it at night. Perhaps he will allow you to do this and then re-apply eye liner/mascara if he wishes to see you looking made up at night. But things like foundation, etc., will, in time, cause your skin to dry if worn constantly.

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RE: Going to bed - 10/28/2008 9:51:35 PM   
SingleRarity


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Status: offline 		I write in my journal every night, just a little something about my day.  It's important to him that I do this, as it will serve as a memoir of our relationship.  I have to agree with the above posters that the make up thing is a bit yucky.

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RE: Going to bed - 10/29/2008 3:29:50 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Perhaps you could kneel and kiss his feet before entering the bed. And yeah as the others have said wearing makeup to bed is a bad idea. He probably doesn't know this as I doubt he wears makeup (but ya never know).

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RE: Going to bed - 10/29/2008 3:43:22 AM   
MissIsis


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Status: offline 		Maybe you could ask him if you could help him get undressed & wash him in the shower before he retires for the evening.  (This would help get the make-up off of you as well.)

Sorry, Lashra, this was in response to the op, not your response.   It is too easy to hit the wrong reply button, especially when I am half awake still.


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RE: Going to bed - 10/29/2008 4:03:15 PM   
fairerthanshe


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Status: offline 		Greetings sarah,

I provide turn down service for SJ and use the lint roller to remove the cat hair from the covers.  Clawdette, his 23 toed feline, sleeps with him all the time, curled up next to him and she sheds like crazy.  So having the sheets freshened is something I do for him.  Regardless, just turning down the covers, smoothing out the sheets, fluffing up his pillow, are ways I can show him how much I appreciate him. 

He also lets me take off his socks, which is very sensual to me, kneeling at his feet, removing a sock and rubbing his foot, caressing my face against it and kissing it, is a lovely ritual which fills me with tenderness and longing. 

well wishes ~ fairer than she


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RE: Going to bed - 10/29/2008 5:20:09 PM   
ExKat


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Status: offline 		Golly...stockings every night? How do you a) keep from wrecking every pair and b) keep from getting raging yeast or bacterial infections from having them on all the time?

That would piss me off more than the make-up!

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RE: Going to bed - 10/29/2008 6:14:41 PM   
lilv


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Status: offline 		stockings generally stop at the thigh.  pantyhose are like tights from hell, and  if you ask me the opposite of sexy.  but like a previous poster said...you never know!

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RE: Going to bed - 10/29/2008 6:38:24 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		Will give an example of the bedtime rituals with my property:

1) Prepares the shower and washes me.
2) I scrub her down, like property while in the shower
3) She exits first and towels me off from top to bottom, feet are the last thing dried and she kisses them
4) Lotion rub, usually with hemp oil or sesame oil.
5) Once in the bedroom she kneels and crawls to the bed where she turns the covers down
6) Lights our night time candles
7) Kneels in obesience at the side of the bed awaiting for me to come to bed.
8) alternatine nights either a foot rub with good creme or a back, buttock and leg rub with asian oils
9) I then get myself comfortable while she kneels at the side of the bed
10) I then either allow her to sleep at the side of the bed on the floor, pull her up and her sleep at the foot, or on rare occasions into bed with me.
11) Before sleep I tell her how pleasing she has been, if she has been a good girl or that tomorrow presents another day to please me. I then issue my final command of the night and that is to sleep well.

The exact details are left up to you, and I did not want to fill the screen with every minute detail. I am very protocol and ritual driven as it helps in reinforcing ownership upon the slave, pleases me with order, and serenity.

Hope this helps.

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RE: Going to bed - 10/29/2008 9:47:57 PM   
moonvine


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Status: offline 		I just had to say what a cute name Clawdette is...hehe

I also second everyone's comments on the makeup, very bad for your skin...


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RE: Going to bed - 10/29/2008 11:14:48 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Not removing your make up at the end of the day, is supposed to be really really bad for your skin, and you can even get styes and infections in your eyes I think.

You could turn down the sheets before he gets in, or ready the bed in appealing ways, make sure it's warm if your room is very cold and he likes a warm bed. You could scent the sheets in his favorite scent before he gets into bed.

I don't know really what else you're looking for, but just think of ways of making it more pleasing to get into bed, if he wears jammies maybe help him get into them* or out if he sleeps naked*

Make sure the sheets are always smelling nice and fresh to his taste, plump the pillows? ectect 
quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveSarah56

hi everyone!  last time i was here I was spook101  http://www.collarchat.com/m_2182661/tm.htm  my name has since changed by instruction, so here i am again as sarah!!!  sorry if there's any confussion.

when it's time for bed, on those occassions i am with my Master, i am not permitted to remove my make-up, and have to sleep in my stockings.  aside from kneeling and requestiong permission to get into the bed, that's about it. i would like to suggest to Master something a little more graceful, something small but enough to show my respect, and dedication to Him.

i know, tis a daft question, but any sugestions would be appreciated.

sarah xxx

ps.  i am fully aware slaveSarah has a big 'S' in it, it was a mistake, and Master did tell me off about it.  alot!

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RE: Going to bed - 10/30/2008 4:16:13 AM   
misspapaya


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Status: offline 		You could always use mineral makeup. It is good for your skin and you don't need to remove it. (I love this stuff)

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RE: Going to bed - 10/30/2008 11:20:04 AM   
MasterTslave


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Status: offline 		as far as the makeup thing...I wash my face every night then use a special mineral powder foundation that is for people that want to look fab in the mornings (chanel costly, but great).  Just please CLEAN the face from the day first :)

I get ready for bed then Master usually has me suck his cock until he cums (helps him sleep better).  After I am done, I am to come to bed with him and keep him warm until he is asleep.  I get him up in the morning after his nightly sleep and get him in the shower and make his coffee and get his clothing ready for him to put on.

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RE: Going to bed - 10/30/2008 1:04:50 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: misspapaya

You could always use mineral makeup. It is good for your skin and you don't need to remove it. (I love this stuff)


You do have to be careful with it though. Not all minerals are made the same and some people are allergic to particular kinds. It's not quite the catch-all it's being advertised as.

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RE: Going to bed - 10/30/2008 5:27:54 PM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: misspapaya

You could always use mineral makeup. It is good for your skin and you don't need to remove it. (I love this stuff)


You do need to remove it and some mineral makeup contains poisonous minerals.
http://www.webmd.com/skin-beauty/features/the-lowdown-on-mineral-makeup

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RE: Going to bed - 10/31/2008 4:34:06 AM   
misspapaya


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the info on mineral makeup. Pity there is always a catch. If it seems to good to be true - usually it is huh .. 

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