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RE: love the Master - 2/28/2009 7:33:24 PM

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Pretty simple from my point of view. Can you love your sister or brother without being in love with them? How about your mom or dad? Your son or daughter? Your best friend? Your cat or dog? Ice cream? Of course you can. There are many many different types of love out there, the only thing that they have in common is that they are strong emotional responses. Definitely not the same types of love, but equally powerful.

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RE: love the Master - 3/1/2009 8:04:24 PM

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I not only love but am head over heels in love with my Master. He is also in love with me.

As not being able to displine if he loves me. Trust me it does not make a diference in our relationship. I see it as if he was not in love with me he would not bother displining me if i earn it. In a way it shows his love for me.

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RE: love the Master - 3/2/2009 4:25:41 AM

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I think it's possible for you to love a Master without being in love with him just as much as you can love a person and not be "in love" with them in a vanilla relationship. However, I believe that over time you grow to be in love with someone that you love. I have another question though. I was told by someone once that a Master/slave relationship is not possible if the Master is in love with the slave. The logic was that if a Master loves his slave it will be difficult for him/her to give discipline because he/she would be too afraid of hurting the sub/slave. I personally don't agree with this theory. What do you think?

I don't agree with that theory either. My Master loves me enough to make sure anything I might do to displease Him will be punished, that unwanted behavior will be swiftly dealt with. His methods aren't always to use physical punishments, but I know immediately if I've done or said something wrong and I know immediately how to correct it and not do it again. That, to me is real love. He wants me to be the best possible version of myself and that He's willing and able to do whatever it takes to see to it that I am ever pleasing to Him. It is His willingness to discipline that provides me with a sense of security. And after all, I firmly believe that drilled down to its core, what most women want is a sense of security. That, and for shoes to match ones outfit.

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RE: love the Master - 3/2/2009 7:30:01 AM

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couldn't the new OP find an article more than 5 years old to reopen?
There ARE other articles, same subject, less than 5 yrs old.

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RE: love the Master - 3/2/2009 7:30:31 AM

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ive been deeply in love with people and been deeply hurt - what ive chosen for myself this time around is the secure knowledge that i am valued for who and what i am to Sir. it is early days but i think im starting to love him for who he is and he has said that whilst he will never be my lover, he may well grow to love me for who i am and what i am to him.

we've talked alot about this and for a time i wasnt sure about how i felt about it all. but ive grown to realise that what we share and will share is so firmly developed from a foundation of honesty, trust and understanding that it goes far deeper than the changeable condition of love - if love develops it will develop from something far stronger than effemmarol emotion and that in fact gives me a greater sense of security.

but i accept that he will never be in love with me - if he ever does grow to love me it will be as his slave and all that i give to him on that basis.

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RE: love the Master - 3/2/2009 8:08:42 AM

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quote:

I was told by someone once that a Master/slave relationship is not possible if the Master is in love with the slave. The logic was that if a Master loves his slave it will be difficult for him/her to give discipline because he/she would be too afraid of hurting the sub/slave. I personally don't agree with this theory. What do you think?

replace the M/s with parent and child

a parent is going to be able to hand out discipline and set boundaries because they know it is for the childs own good and it is done out of care and love

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RE: love the Master - 3/2/2009 8:52:19 AM

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Yeah I know. It's the 6th necro thread she has revived.

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ORIGINAL: RealSub58

couldn't the new OP find an article more than 5 years old to reopen?
There ARE other articles, same subject, less than 5 yrs old.

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