nephandi
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Joined: 9/23/2005
From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen!
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i once had somone write me and said i was a liar, what i said confused. Well you ahve to profiles she said. Oh i said, another one of those, well i said i had the profile nella here before, but i deleted it for personal reasons, among other things my Master forund it inapropriate that i use the name he use for me privatly on a public webpage, so i made a new profile whit a new nick after deleting the old one, though one of the first lines in my profile state what nick i used before. Now that is cleared up i happily thinks, but it was not.
She wite me back and said i had lied to her right there, she knew of my nella accunt but she said what she was angry aboute was that she said i had another one, one that said i wad a slave of 25 years old, looking for a Master, while my profile say as the truth is i am 23 and am in a relationship whit my Master and i only skeeping playpartners. i steared at the screen confused and then wrote politely back and told her she was mistaken. She wrote me back and told me that some woman, whit a nick i can not spell, i have reading and writing disabilities, was from Bergen and had chosen the same color seme on background and letters as me in my profile, red on black. i was by now becommin werry sad, my mother, and my Grandparenths raised me well, and i was so sad to bed called a liar. i wrote herback and tried to explain that many pepole interested in alternative lifstyles like redand black colors, and that Bergen is a big city and a quite active one when it comes to D/s and BDSM. She then told me she knew this woman was me bacouse she made some of the same spelling mistakes as me, and even if i said that perhaps that was becouse we were both Norweegian, perhaps we both had reading and writing disabilities, i asked her to pleese belive me, i was no liar. By this time i was so sad my Master took the time to write to this woman, he wrote and said he had looked on the profile she claimed was mine, and and that it was not, and said that Bergen have a distinct dialect so the spelling errors could come from there, and generaly explained that his girl was not a liar trying to desive him, but she had bloked me so his letter never reatched her, she just called me a liar and then did not let me defend myself. And even if i was hurt, what hurt more was that she was insulting my Master and my Mother and my Grandparents by saying i was a liar.
Now this was notmeant to turn into a post where i pour out my troubbles sorry, but i am still sad aboute this, i know i need thiker skin, but i still wish to cry, and this girl i had done nothing against, she just ataced me out of the blue, mostly i think bacouse she felt i had no buisnis being on the Gorean forum, and ever sinse i have feared i am insulting pepole by being here. What my babbeling is suposed to be aboute however, is that no matter how hard one try, pepole come and write bad things to you, no matter how hard one try to make pepole like you, somone just will not like you. Do not be sad lisa, i think you are wonderful and an inspiration.
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