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VibeRaider -> RE: The Elusive Orgasm (10/30/2008 5:54:20 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MadameMarque
The part of the clitoris you see protruding is only the "tip of the iceberg." Have a look at a good diagram of the clitoris and Gspot, under the surface.
From what you say, my guess is that, when you're on "that place," you're stimulating the clitoris at the root, but because you're overstimulating, it's turning numb or painful, right away. Industrial-strength vibrators, such as are used for major muscles, and stimulation directly on the clitoris, are not for every woman.
So, less intense vibration and/or indirect stimulation. Try placing the vibrator so that it's not directly on the desired area, but next to it, to find a way of relaying the vibration there without getting numb or over-sensitized. You may find that the position of your body makes a difference, too. You might experiment with placing the vibrator on or in your hand, then using your vibrating hand to touch yourself. Before investing in a vibrating dildo, you might try inserting your fingers or other object, and placing the vibrator on your hand or the object. The indirect stimulation from the vibration while it's inserted might work for you.
Have you had orgasms with other methods besides vibrators?
Wow thanks for the info. I think it is the root of the clit that I've been stimulating. It feels so different from the clit though, or maybe that's the treasure and the clit is just the map [;)]
I've had orgasms through oral, and from my partner touching me, but not through sex. The reason I like vibes when alone is that it's easier to get into the mood because I can let my mind wander and not have to keep my hand down there. I have 2, one which is one of those industrial strength massagers and is so intense, I can't use it for actually masturbating but if I need a quick start to get in the mood that thing will push a button, and the other is one of those little vibrating eggs with varying speeds. It's a cheapy one though and I don't like the way it vibrates. It's fast and buzzing, and I want something more slow and pulsing if that makes sense. Also I think those are for inside use, and I always end up just putting it between my labia. Do they sell vibes with different types of vibrations? And are there some for external use? I just found out my countrys equivalent of the hitachi magic wand costs 200 dollars and I can't buy an American one because the voltage incompatibility will cause it to explode.
Thank you all for answering :) I was confused about if it was the g-spot because everytime I've had a partner try to find the g spot (using a finger and doing that crooked finger motion) it just felt irritating or made me feel like I had to pee. Never anything like what I feel getting to it from the outside, so I think it is the base of the clit.
And no this isn't a bogus thread LOL I think the world would be a better place if men knew as much about female anatomy as I'm posting...but hey now you all have a new technique. There's this spot...just behind the clit...you have to put pressure on it...yeah.
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