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SingleRarity -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:08:03 PM)
I always liked playing "Doctor" a little too much, but I really knew at fifteen when I watched a Real Sex episode about BDsM. I'd never been so turned on in my life. Daddy's Ballerina, e

leadership527 -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:21:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RealSub58 quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 In a serious way? Last November 16th... 7:30-ish PM. My wife brought me a collar and asked to be collared. That kind of got the ball rolling for me laughs At least you knew what the collar meant and could play ball ! I see the scenerio like a mini movie....... you take the collar, look at it, as she kneels in front of you, look at her, instinctively put it around her neck, thread your fingers through her hair, grab hard and pull her to yourself as you pinch her hard nipple fiercely. Huskily whispering as your warm hot aroused breath floats in her ear..... "That's my girl. Tell me, what is your desire?" [:)] Wow! I like your version so much better than how it actually went (which was more along the lines of "Huh? You gotta be kidding!") But at least I was shocked and confused in the most assertive way I could think of laughs. I will say this though, there is absolutely nothing like a woman with a collar in her hand and a question on her face to get a guy all focused on thinking about BDSM.

bobipanti -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:21:39 PM)
What is so special about Nov.16th ????

IvyMorgan -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:23:29 PM)
Tis my birthday smiles

leadership527 -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:28:52 PM)
and carol's... she got herself a collar for her birthday. To be fair, we'd talked about it a few months before. She asked about being a bedroom sub. I said I wasn't interested in bedroom only but if she wanted to be my 24/7 M/s slave girl, then we could talk. I told her that if she was serious, she should bring me a collar. I truly thought that was the end of the whole thing right there. Imagine my surprise... matter of fact, I'm still surprised. My life has very definitely gotten a lot weirder in the last year.

persephonee -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:33:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth quote: ORIGINAL: RealSub58 quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Yeah, I was about 3 and it all started with Penelope Pittstop and Polly Purebred. They were always getting tied up on some train tracks or some huge saw was about to slice them in half. I'd take all the toys out of my toybox, climb in, close the door, pretend I was one of them and masturbate. Wonders if a toddler of 3 yrs masturbates?? [sm=dunno.gif] this slave did at 5...and as soon as it was discovered, got the business end of a flyswatter for it. gosh, i wonder what happened next....my Gram had a switch and a flyswatter...i tended to get in a lot of trouble over the summer...hmmm.

DesFIP -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:42:04 PM)
Nell in the Dudley Do-Right cartoons was always getting tied to the railroad tracks. I was riveted.

Jeptha -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 5:40:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2 ... Of course the girl next door was my assisent for a lot of things... ~I wish I'd had a girl nextdoor... My friend in grade school (the single digits of the school years) had an older brother who had moved away but left his attic bedroom intact. My pal discovered his brother's porn stash, which I found fascinating. It wasn't bdsm related, specifically, but it had some unusual themes for that day and age (though those things are probably all very common now, via the wondernet.) I still recall an image of a cock pissing into a champagne glass while a woman held it to her mouth with her tongue in it, amongst other things. It looked like a mysterious kind of fun they were having. I took great interest in it and always wanted to check it out when I was over, but my friend seemed not similarly moved or terribly interested. So I don't know how much something like that influences one, since he saw it along with me and seemed pretty blase about the whole thing.

Padriag -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 6:20:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Max1000 And thus the seed was sewn. Anyone else care to share? Probably around the age of 8 or 9. My mom babysat other kids for some extra money... turns out it was me an six girls... my very first harem. I had a knack for talking them into letting me tie them up, getting them to take their clothes off, etc. At school I got picked on by bullies... my solution, I organized my own "gang" and we made a habit of bullying the bullies. When I was older fantasies about controlling and dominating people became more common and detailed. By my early teen years they started taking on a sexual aspect. Things have simply continued to develop over the years.

Lordandmaster -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 6:26:03 PM)
Well, you must have known quite a bit if you were able to tell her all that. So it didn't exactly start for you on Nov. 16. The most you can say is that Nov. 16 is when it became a reality. quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 To be fair, we'd talked about it a few months before. She asked about being a bedroom sub. I said I wasn't interested in bedroom only but if she wanted to be my 24/7 M/s slave girl, then we could talk. I told her that if she was serious, she should bring me a collar. I truly thought that was the end of the whole thing right there. Imagine my surprise... matter of fact, I'm still surprised. My life has very definitely gotten a lot weirder in the last year.

RumpusParable -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 9:14:34 PM)
I have many kink interests, but my only actual fetishes are money in a power-exchange (outside of one it does nothing) and technological upgrades to my stuff in any setting (larger drive, faster internet, more memory...). Money came about in my youth, from coming from a poor family, I think. I really learned the value of a dollar and things purchased with them (and am a budgeter, counter, and saver still) and how very personal, and touchy, a subject money can be for people. And that's where my fetish came in... it's such a very big deal in each person's life, having it given in tribute (rather than a vanilla business or friendly exchange for something) has a lot of gut-meaning to me that causes excitement. Technology upgrades came from growing up right on the cusp of home computers becoming realistic... I had my hands in them, building and programming commodores, apples, and the growth of pc's from the age of 5 and up. I'm lean strongly towards to animism with them, almost, and it's been a huge part of my life. In recent decades there have been such huge jumps... tech upgrades mean more access to knowledge, better time management, leisure options, contact with friends, and -as silly as some may find it- each piece has its own personality. Each upgrade is like simultaneously adding more to a pet, person, and myself. Plus, they're just sexy in their own right.

girlivy -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 9:29:35 PM)
It started around age 4, the first time I saw Bo Peep in town shackles by the hands of Tom Tom.... All up-hill from there!

CruelDesires -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 9:33:18 PM)
I think I was 8 or 9. I read a filthy X rated Popeye comic book where they dragged olive oil "sp?" around by her hair and took turns having their way with her. Bluto even tied her up and forced her to do kinky things to him. Talk about getting wood as such an early age. To this day I blame that damn comic book for my kinkiness. Hair pulling, forced oral, simulated rape play , etc etc are just some of the things I gleaned from that poorly written smut book. [:D] C-D

DavanKael -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 9:37:13 PM)
Leadership: Happy upcoming anniversary of carol's Collaring! And, happy birthday early to IvyMorgan and carol! I can look back to early childhood and see submissive things done to please those important to me. Sexually speaking, figured it out in no uncertain terms around 20. Husband balked, though I realize that I served as much as I could throughout my marriage despite his not being Dominant. Had a poly relationship where I was on the D-side of the kneel in my later 20's. Just had a relationship where I behaved in submission to a man with whom a very natural dynamic existed between us. Eventually, a lifepartner who shares my sex-positivity, kinks, creativity, and courage and who honours commitments would be dandy. :> Davan

moonvine -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 11:43:30 PM)
I have no idea where it came from, but at the age of.....6 or so? I would arrange interrogation scenes with other local kids..I was always the one tied down and "tortured" (by tickling), I got in a lot of trouble over that. Later I discovered spanking really turned me on, and I'm not sure how I discovered this but thanks to Mom and Dad and the copy of The Joy of Sex in their nightstand drawer, I discovered I wasn't the only one (I was never disciplined physically by my parents). Some trouble ensued when I had high school boyfriends and tried to convince them to spank me, they always were squicked out and turned off by the idea, so I kept it to myself from then until 30ish or so. I do remember the BDSM boards on Prodigy when it existed, but I lived in a small town and munches and organized groups were much less common then outside of the big cities. When I was in my 20's and early 30's I would have been mortified if anyone found out, now I'm much more open about it, but I seem to attract vanillas only for whatever reason.

LadyPact -> RE: When did it start? (10/31/2008 7:42:32 AM)
The funny thing is, I never really thought of it this way. I can't tell you how old I was, probably 9 or 10. There happened to be a pair of brothers who lived up the street from Me. They spent a lot of time with Me one particular summer playing a game that the concept was that they basically did anything I told them to do. Sorry to disappoint. There was no bondage, no overtly kinky stuff, or anything exciting. Just whatever amused Me at the time. I'm not sure I link that to darn near 20 years later when My first boy knelt in front of Me and asked Me to be his Mistress. I can't say I did as well as you, Leadership, because at the time, I didn't know jack.

OttersSwim -> RE: When did it start? (10/31/2008 10:10:36 AM)
At about age 19, while experimenting with my sexuality, I had a boyfriend who enjoyed dressing me up...and tying me up. I was pretty much lost from there...

FRSguy -> RE: When did it start? (10/31/2008 10:58:34 AM)
That would be really complicated for me to answer… its kind of two fold. The first was when I was really young and use to be into that body human tv series … anyways I wanted to become a doctor that specialized in the restoration of woman that had been maimed by doctors and crime… more specifically a gynecologist that specialized in reconstructive surgery in order to restore there ability to reproduce. I had thought at that age that woman were treated like shit. Anyways I beat up by everyone for it because lets see as I remember it in the 4th grade I was asked by a teacher what I wanted to be when I grew up and I of course said a doctor… then she said there were several different types of doctors and if I knew what kind of doctor I wanted to be…. Well my answer got me into a lot trouble…lol (it was like 1978 or so) . Needless to say I avoided becoming any kind of doctor or any kind of professional until I was in my late 20’s. Spin forward.. at age of about 13 or 14 friend nabbed a penthouse and told me there were articles… read an article about a man a woman and a banana… grossed me out and couldn’t believe people did shit like that… I began to research and have done so ever since.

antipode -> RE: When did it start? (10/31/2008 11:31:30 AM)
I think they mostly have to do with one's personality. I have a hard time believing you "became" who you are because of reading a comic. That's a symptom, not the disease. Not that it's a disease, but you get my drift. And I think there is rather a wide range between fetishes and skewed urges - being enamoured of a dominant woman is not, methinks, a fetish.

Barelily -> RE: When did it start? (10/31/2008 4:38:45 PM)
For me I think it was always there, but the incident that really jarred it and brought it actively to life was when I was 15. A boy in school a couple of years older then myself suddenly yanked me into the bathroom slammed me up against the wall (hard) pinned me and began pretty much raping my mouth with his and violating every part of my body he could find with his hands lol Once I got past the intitial anger society dictates to females we are suppose to feel when things like this happen, I found myself wishing he'd do it again. But alas he didn't and it wasn't until years later when I met my first dom, later to become my Master that I fully woke up. [;)]

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