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LadyPact -> RE: Help your Mistress kick a bad habit? (11/5/2008 6:33:54 PM)
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Just a little advice. Any bad habit really does have to be kicked by the person who has the habit.
My sub, the one who posted above you there, handled this pretty well. The first thing he did was wait for Me to bring the subject up. My being ready to talk about it was a lot better than him trying to persuade Me. The information materials that he got for Me weren't waived in My face. In fact, he did it in such a quiet way, that I was really proud. This is only compounded by the fact that I know this is something he has hoped I would do for some time. Not once has he nagged, bitched, complained, or reminded Me that I haven't quit yet. He knows that I am under a considerable amount of stress in this past month and probably wouldn't have mentioned it at all if he hadn't been replying to this post.
Now, clip's case is a little different than yours. He knew I smoked and it was something we discussed before he was collared. I did ask him specifically if it would be an issue in his serving Me. What you have is a situation where it wasn't a current habit when you agreed to serve. If you've already discussed it a few times, it's time to let it rest for a little while. Have information ready for her when she's receptive to looking at it.
Oh, yeah, don't hide the cigarettes. As much as you want her to quit, that's not exactly something that is going to build on the trust she has in you. That's a little bit higher a cost than a pack of smokes these days.
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