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Ladies undies - 11/1/2008 1:01:44 PM   
Aneirin


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Status: offline 		I just have to ask this, as for some obscure reason I have recently developed an interest;

What is it with male submissives and female  underwear ?

I ask this following watching various profiles flick up on the other side, the men who identify as submissive, well fifty percent or more seem to be pictured wearing female attire.

Can someone please suggest why it is they were this stuff , I would genuinely like to know ?


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RE: Ladies undies - 11/1/2008 2:30:14 PM   
Usako


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Status: offline 		Either they like to crossdress or it's a form of humiliation for them.

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/1/2008 3:00:41 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Its the whole humiliation thing.  I've known too many male submissives so far in life.

They are much more visually oriented than females.  They also like humiliation.



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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 5:08:52 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		im not  sure if this will help you or not hopefully other male subs will com forward as well .
many times it used as a way too bring the male down a knotch or two example wearing them and being seen in them  or  takeing a real Macho Ego and crushing it even if mentaly or mind games and haveing them wear them . many sub male wear them and get hooked on them as a festish some feel more submissve wearing them helps too put them in a more submissve state of mind . and many who have high stress jobs or power postions at work  like it in submisson cause it like giveing the power too the other person whos now incharge. tere are so  amny thigns that can make or cause a sub too wear them . the style or the feel of the fabrics . there cut toofit the female body not  amles so there fit migth be tighter on them resticking  there cock holding down ect. 
Also many get into from getting a panty hand job the silky / nylon or satiny feel being j/o off as the panties are slideing up and down there shaft / cock . you'll find so many diffrent reason why each one wears them. but i think it mnore or less put the panty wearing male sub in more submissive
state . alot of Mistresss say they dont care for but some do. many feel male in panties is putting down a female or Mocking them but its not at least for this sub in them .  i feel when a cd, sub wears heavy make up  overly hugh tits that putting a females down. But that's  only my side or take on this as a submale who wears them Females see it diffrently  . one thigni have noticed alot here when this suject comes up many females / Mistress'es / Dommes put it down and talk bad  or Denouncing it makeing  us out as if where shameing the Female  Gender but we as sub alos have are likes and fetishes and yes they do as well  but scroll back at any time it comes up you"ll see it .

Please dont flame or bad motuh me for this since you asked i thoguthi help you out  as i am a long time panty wearer and mine started as a fetish.I rember havening a  blanket that had nylon edges or satiny edges and when it was taken away age 4 or 5, 6 or 7   i rember seeing and feeling a slip of my moms as it was drying in the bathroom   was wow same feeling was like in was in heaven agin then soon i saw that her panties felt the same as did my older sisters so there are mnay reasone each panty guy/boi/ sub / male wears them.   i have read befroe in i think it was a pole in payboy or huslter when women where asked as where men about panty wearing and there are more men out there that wear then we willever know and not all are subs some for the fabrice the feel the compfort some try them on as a joke with there wifes so once agian each has his own reason or likes or why they wear . sorry i so long winded but  i hope this helps you some what?

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 5:23:20 AM   
MasterTslave


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Status: offline 		don't know, but what is strange to me is that a sub could have any undies on at all :)  If I need to wear undies (like if I am going to church and wearing a dress) Master T will "allow" the undies, but then when I get home, he will make me cum (and cum a LOT) while wearing my undies then will make me put them in my mouth as a gag. 

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 7:17:28 AM   
Aneirin


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Status: offline 		Rest assured, I don't or at least try not to flame or bad mouth anyone who responds to a question I have asked, as every point is valid and it is up to me what I take from that point. Your input is welcomed and I thank you for it.

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 8:45:09 AM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		I do wear panties for my Owner rather regularly, in addition to other minor forms of crossdressing. 

It has nothing to do with humiliation, because we don't play with humiliation.  It has nothing to do with making me feel submissive either, because I feel submissive to her no matter what I'm wearing.  Heck, it's not even the fact that we enjoy playing with gender, because most of the time we do that regardless of clothing.  It's simply a fact that we enjoy the visuals and we enjoy the physical sensations that tend to be different with the clothing. 

My two cents,
DV's Fox

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 9:19:42 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		*shrug* What is it with female subs and NOT wearing undies?  What is it with male doms who want females to not wear bras?  What it is with female doms who want chastity devices on their subs?

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 12:53:33 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		if i may ask dose it hurt or feel diffrently when not wearing a bra ?

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 1:05:39 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Depends on how far you fall when taking off that bra!  Now if it is a two story fall.. yeah it might hurt a lil if the bra was really tight and actually held those babies up and was done quickly.  lol it only hurts me when I have to put one on!

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 1:08:57 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Putting the humiliation , the X dress  issues aside  those have been given and no i am not dismissing them as they too are valid .I think Male fetish wear  or just plain ole fun  fashion s and clothing for males  is missing  from the market big time .Look at the selection a male  can get  at most retail outlets .Sure there are silk boxers but i personally HATE boxers  even is i like the texture of the silken material  the fit  is lousy .Then you have the standard boxers , boxer briefs " my pick " ,tidy whiteys "gross" or the  joke undies  that also seldom fit . Sure you can always go commando and  play avoid the  zipper  at the restroom stops too .
Now  just walk through any women s undies dept  , hell even sears or jc pennys  have a better  selection than what us guys get and in many  different cuts and styles / materials .Women  ask why  us men  poke scratch and adjust our crotches  good gravy look at our underwear .So how about the plain ole fun factor  and pleasant feel ?if there is a better pair for us guys that feels great , looks  nice and  fits well  a company would make millions .I do wanna add the best thing i have  found  that fits and feels and works really well  are the Lycra spandex bike /work out shorts , now if they only had more pouch room .Come on  makers of men's  underoos we have a bat and balls we have to  carry around  make that convex pouch area is that so tough ?
So my vote would be variety and  fun factor .


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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 4:51:20 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		its amazeing other pant bois or submissives havent come forward on this

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 5:27:06 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		I am just me .. no more no less . I have been called a Fetishist among other things , maybe cuz i am greedy and dig MANY things .

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ORIGINAL: iwearpanties

its amazeing other pant bois or submissives havent come forward on this

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 6:24:18 PM   
girlygurl


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Status: offline 		Cause ours is prettier?


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RE: Ladies undies - 11/2/2008 8:05:51 PM   
monywildcat


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Status: offline 		I don't get the phenomena myself, seeing as how the majority of my panties are uncomfortable as all hell.  They ride up where they shouldn't, they don't stay where they should, the seams are itchy, blah blah blah.  I have maybe two pairs that I can deal with.  I must find more of them. 

Men's boxer briefs however?  Heavenly. 

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/3/2008 8:09:12 AM   
bound4more


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

*shrug* What is it with female subs and NOT wearing undies?  What is it with male doms who want females to not wear bras?  What it is with female doms who want chastity devices on their subs?


Ha ha ha ha ha ha - good one LA.

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/3/2008 9:43:39 AM   
RCdc


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bound4more

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

*shrug* What is it with female subs and NOT wearing undies?  What is it with male doms who want females to not wear bras?  What it is with female doms who want chastity devices on their subs?


Ha ha ha ha ha ha - good one LA.


And this is so humerous - why?
 
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RE: Ladies undies - 11/3/2008 10:52:00 AM   
mystsshykitty


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quote:

submissve wearing them helps too put them in a more submissve state of mind



when My wife and i were Playing regularly, She threw out all my BVDs and had me buy womens panties.  and i did feel more submissive in them.  I still do to this day.  

I didn't do it for the Cross Dressing, or the humiliation.  I just felt very submissive in them, 
ok so they felt good on too  :-P.    still don't know how you women wear string thongs lol  ouch.


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RE: Ladies undies - 11/3/2008 6:45:24 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		just  as i stated its the feeling of being submissve or more submissve when wearing

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RE: Ladies undies - 11/3/2008 9:32:33 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		I had a bf who enjoyed a small bit of crossdressing and he seemed to very much appreciate the softness of ladies garments as well as the 'naughtiness' of his wanting to and wearing them. 
  Davan

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