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theobserver -> Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 1:05:31 PM)

A random question came into my head after reading the Clarity thread.

One theme that was discussed in the thread, is how BDSM is personally defined by each individual who participate in the lifestyle.  

I was interested in doing a word association type of post, to find out what comes to your mind when certain words are thrown out. I don't know if someone has done this before here, if so I apologize in advance.


So here goes, I will post 20 random words that come to my mind and I'm interested in knowing what immediately comes to your mind when you see the word. I'm very much interested in your initial thoughts. They can be one word responses to each word, a sentence or a long ramble.

Edit: So as to not confuse, I answered in a post below why I originally posted the title as Rorschach and BDSM, although we are indeed technically doing word association. Both are pretty much the same and meant to produce the same outcome, just by different methods.



1. Bondage

(my answer - Rope)

3. Slave
(My answer - submissive)

4. Flog
(my answer - leather)

5. Dominant
( my answer - man/strength)

6. Knees
(my answer - release)

7. Limits
(my answer - stop sign)

8. Security
(my answer -trust)

9. Trust
(my answer - love)

10. Confidence
(my answer - personal acceptance)

11. Submission
(my answer - a folded flower)

12. Satisfaction
(my answer - fulfilled in the present)

13. Fulfillment
(my answer - content with circumstances, evironment and being)

14. Respect
(my answer - enough admiration to listen, acknowledge, agree with and maybe emulate.)

15. curiosity
(my answer - a thirst to know more than what we do)

16. Bind
(my answer - to be kept)

17. Intelligence
(my answer - having a curiosity for and ability to relay, knowledge)

18. Society
(my answer - the general bubble we live in)

19. Fringe
(my answer - on the edges of societal norms)

20. Normal
(my answer - what is generally considered acceptable)



JustDarkness -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 1:23:52 PM)

1. Bondage 
the ads on CM mainpage

3. Slave 
what I need

4. Flog 
make obey

5. Dominant 
those I would follow

6. Knees 
submission

7. Limits 
holy part of our relation


8. Security 
what I offer

9. Trust 
Something I often lost 

10. Confidence 
Without it doesn't work

11. Submission 
What she gives

12. Satisfaction 
For both important

13. Fulfillment 
Beeing happy


14. Respect 
Soemthing I feel and can not explain

15. curiosity
Hardly anymore

16. Bind 
relation

17. Intelligence 
Different from person to person

18. Society 
Don't care much about it

19. Fringe 
(skipped don't know the word)

20. Normal 
No one



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 1:50:44 PM)

1. Bondage

(my answer - freedom)

3. Slave
(My answer - servant)

4. Flog
(my answer - massage)

5. Dominant
( my answer - boss)

6. Knees
(my answer - surrender)

7. Limits
(my answer -boundaries)

8. Security
(my answer -trust)

9. Trust
(my answer - confidence)

10. Confidence
(my answer - faith)

11. Submission
(my answer - service)

12. Satisfaction
(my answer - success )

13. Fulfillment
(my answer - accomplishment)

14. Respect
(my answer - knowledge and acceptance.)

15. curiosity
(my answer - thirst)

16. Bind
(my answer - unite)

17. Intelligence
(my answer - application of knowledge)

18. Society
(my answer - structure)

19. Fringe
(my answer - independent )

20. Normal
(my answer - unexplored)




BLGirl -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 1:51:28 PM)

Um, Rorschach is actually an inkblot test, but I love the idea of word association, so here goes.

1. Bondage = hogtied
2. What happened to number two?
3. Slave = Charleton Heston (sorry, Planet of the Apes fetish)
4. Flog = please
5. Dominant = nope (only in the real world, never at home)
6. Knees = sore
7. Limits = Sammy Hagar (can't drive 55)
8. Security = handcuffs
9. Trust = love
10. Confidence = power
11. Submission = freedom
12. Satisfaction = floating
13. Fulfillment = happiness
14. Respect = honor
15. Curiosity = kittycat
16. Bind = collar
17. Intelligence = conversation
18. Society = everyone else
19. Fringe = edge of jeans
20. Normal = fantasy

There, honestly...



theobserver -> RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM (11/1/2008 1:58:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BLGirl

Um, Rorschach is actually an inkblot test, but I love the idea of word association, so here goes.

1. Bondage = hogtied
2. What happened to number two?
3. Slave = Charleton Heston (sorry, Planet of the Apes fetish)
4. Flog = please
5. Dominant = nope (only in the real world, never at home)
6. Knees = sore
7. Limits = Sammy Hagar (can't drive 55)
8. Security = handcuffs
9. Trust = love
10. Confidence = power
11. Submission = freedom
12. Satisfaction = floating
13. Fulfillment = happiness
14. Respect = honor
15. Curiosity = kittycat
16. Bind = collar
17. Intelligence = conversation
18. Society = everyone else
19. Fringe = edge of jeans
20. Normal = fantasy

There, honestly...


Thank you for responding I know it's an ink blot test but it and word association sort of goes hand in hand. If you look at an ink blot, you are asked to relay to the examiner what you see. If you are given a word in word association, the same applies ... what do you see, when you read or hear that word.

So maybe I didn't have a inkblot up but it basically it's the same thing only delivered in different methods. However as not to confuse, or people think I am daft, I'll just edit the title and main post.



BLGirl -> RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM (11/1/2008 2:02:24 PM)

To theobserver, the title is fine! I am just anal (wink)!

By the way, do you always see something sexual in those things? They always get me all excited!

BLGirl (Angela)



JustDarkness -> RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM (11/1/2008 2:04:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BLGirl



By the way, do you always see something sexual in those things?

BLGirl (Angela)


lol..that is why they have let people make the test...to cure them in the end :P  lol



BLGirl -> RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM (11/1/2008 2:08:50 PM)

JustDarkness, I love being "cured in the end!" [8D]



camille65 -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 2:09:11 PM)

Mine seem weird, they are the immediate words that popped into my mind:
bondage-leather
slave-bells
flog-hit
dominant-him
knees-ouch
limits-skies
security-cuffs
trust-soul
confidence-quiet
submission-ivy
satisfaction-smiles
fulfillment-whole
respect-good
curiosity-open
bind-wrap
intelligence-high
society-heels
fringe-bangs
normal-where



XaviersXian -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 2:14:37 PM)

greetings to all,

theobserver, I hope this is what you were after (if not, let me know!)

1. Bondage

(my answer - mmmmm)

3. Slave
(My answer - heavenly)

4. Flog
(my answer - no thanks)

5. Dominant
( my answer - sexy)

6. Knees
(my answer - ouch)

7. Limits
(my answer - what are they?)

8. Security
(my answer - my everything)

9. Trust
(my answer - Master)

10. Confidence
(my answer - Master)

11. Submission
(my answer - fake)

12. Satisfaction
(my answer - a cup of vanilla tea)

13. Fulfillment
(my answer - my life with Master)

14. Respect
(my answer - L (my sister) )

15. curiosity
(my answer - S (my precious little daughter))

16. Bind
(my answer - rope)

17. Intelligence
(my answer - the German Shepherd dog that lives up the street)

18. Society
(my answer - wandering amongst the people in the city)

19. Fringe
(my answer - yep, it needs a cut) (for those of you outside Australia, a fringe aka. "bangs")

20. Normal
(my answer - . . . . )

[/quote]

well wishes,



JustDarkness -> RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM (11/1/2008 2:20:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BLGirl

JustDarkness, I love being "cured in the end!" [8D]


grin...yeah yeah :P



JustDarkness -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 2:21:25 PM)

I liked the slave-bells answer.
Remind me of someone



PsyVamp -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 2:57:39 PM)



1. Bondage - committed

3. Slave - capable

4. Flog - hit

5. Dominant - strong personality

6. Knees - respect

7. Limits - sanity

8. Security - trust

9. Trust - to know

10. Confidence - sexy

11. Submission - strength

12. Satisfaction - happy

13. Fulfillment - contentment

14. Respect - obedience

15. curiosity - questions

16. Bind - to bring closer

17. Intelligence - strength of mind

18. Society - group of people with something in common

19. Fringe - on the outside

20. Normal - what is accepted by society



softness -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 3:10:56 PM)


1. Bondage  (my answer - restraint)
3. Slave( My answer - strong)
4. Flog (my answer - perfect)
5. Dominant ( my answer - duminant)
6. Knees (my answer - humble)
7. Limits  (my answer -proving ground)
8. Security (my answer -comfort)
9. Trust (my answer - fragile)
10. Confidence (my answer - self-belief)
11. Submission (my answer - unknowable)
12. Satisfaction (my answer - release/completion)
13. Fulfillment (my answer - contentment/being at peace)
14. Respect (my answer - mutual)
15. curiosity (my answer - desire)
16. Bind (my answer - secure)
17. Intelligence (my answer - glitter)
18. Society (my answer - collective investment
19. Fringe (my answer - edgy, dynamic)
20. Normal (my answer - what is generally held, the most common)

[/quote]



laura2161 -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 3:37:48 PM)





1. Bondage

(my answer - Fun)

3. Slave
(My answer - work)

4. Flog
(my answer - leather)

5. Dominant
( my answer - Man)

6. Knees
(my answer - sore)

7. Limits
(my answer - the usual)

8. Security
(my answer -Brinks)

9. Trust
(my answer -my heart)

10. Confidence
(my answer -yes)

11. Submission
(my answer - happiness)

12. Satisfaction
(my answer - every day)

13. Fulfillment
(my answer - firm grip)

14. Respect
(my answer - absolute)

15. curiosity
(my answer - always learning)

16. Bind
(my answer - hands)

17. Intelligence
(my answer -smart)

18. Society
(my answer - everyone)

19. Fringe
(my answer - a weird television show)

20. Normal
(my answer - who's normal?)




everhope -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 3:38:02 PM)

a few months back, i started to be able to make myself squirt via masturbation. i was amazed the first time it happen (still am actually) and was so intrigued by the patterns my squirting left on the sheets. the first one was an exact replica of the rock formations in Cabo San Lucas (the arches ..i think they call them) with a bird in full flight above them. ResidentSadistSir nicked them my Rorschach blots...not that this had anything to do with your thread, but
so ummm...here's my answers to your questions. 


quote:

ORIGINAL: theobserver

.1. Bondage
    captive

3. Slave
    selfless

4. Flog
   ahhhhh if thuddy
    ow ow if stingy

5. Dominant
    focused control


6. Knees
   home

. Limits
   trust

8. Security
    a sense of feeling safe physicallly and emotionally   

9. Trust
      love

10. Confidence
      comfortable with ones power

11. Submission
      joy

12. Satisfaction
      helping even in the smallest of ways.
     
13. Fulfillment
    when i am allowed to serve and when my heart touches anothers heart.

14. Respect
stands behind their words through actions


15. curiosity
always

16. Bind
rope and intimacy


17. Intelligence
      stimulating

18. Society
      roles and rules

19. Fringe
     the 60's.


20. Normal
      what is this?




theobserver -> RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM (11/1/2008 3:55:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BLGirl

To theobserver, the title is fine! I am just anal (wink)!

By the way, do you always see something sexual in those things? They always get me all excited!

BLGirl (Angela)


No worries, just didn't want you all to think I was just pulling shit out the air. *lol*





JustDarkness -> RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM (11/1/2008 3:56:05 PM)

at OP

so...what can we do with what we did ?



theobserver -> RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM (11/1/2008 3:57:31 PM)

Thank you to everyone that has responded so far. This is a fun thread, I'm enjoying reading it.




RCdc -> RE: Rorschach and BDSM (11/1/2008 3:57:39 PM)

1. Bondage
Freedom

3. Slave
submission

4. Flog
Mmmmm

5. Dominant
Authority

6. Knees
scrubbing

7. Limits
pointless

8. Security
Darcy

9. Trust
Of course

10. Confidence
happens

11. Submission
submission

12. Satisfaction
Always

13. Fulfillment
Being with Darcy

14. Respect
Never earnt.

15. curiosity
knowledge

16. Bind
Freedom

17. Intelligence
Over rated

18. Society
Never pleased

19. Fringe
Theatre

20. Normal
Myth

the.dark.



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