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hello - 12/16/2005 12:14:22 AM

walldawg92

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just wanted to untroduce myself. i am a 45 yr old male . i have a very dominating personality., which has cost me some relationships.this includes the last one. i mistakenly tried to cater to her whims it made me uncomfortable and her disrespect me. never again, as i have explored my sexuality i have discovered an intense desire to control my partner. to reward only when it is earned and to punish for bad behavior of any kind.as i am learningthis kind of control only comes with a master/slave relationship.i have started to make friends with a few people in the life, as i seek guidance from more experienced doms/subs. i will welcome all input as it will only serve to create in me a more wise and and even handed master to any slave i may take as my own. the one thing i already know is that my punishments may be harsh but never cruel. thank you and i welcome any comments. til later....R.

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RE: hello - 12/17/2005 10:54:53 AM

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Hello and Welcome!!
I hope you find lots of good information during your time here and that it does indeed enrich and fullfill your journey through life.

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RE: hello - 12/17/2005 12:11:51 PM

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Hello Walldawg92, and welcome to the boards :)

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RE: hello - 12/17/2005 8:32:06 PM

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G'Day and Welcome walldawg92 well each mistake is a learning experience and one to be remembered for the next time and to may be go a bit slower as we try to regain our ideals and our goals but enjoy it all and have a great time being with us.
Have a read through the forums as you will gain more help there also.

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RE: hello - 12/18/2005 1:08:10 AM

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thank you for that reply and although i agree this lifestyle is more spiritual than sexual they do tend to tie in together. correct me if you disagree but the love involved in trying to create the perfect person in a slave and caring enough to want to do it correctly is the greatest aphrodesiac on earth.

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RE: hello - 12/19/2005 6:48:18 AM

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Hello walldawg92.. I have been in this lifestyle for 20 plus years and have found that indeed this lifestyle is a spiritual journey.. and not always sexual.. I have had submissives and slaves that were looking not for sex alone, but for the guidance and training of a good Dom/Master (Master title is earned IMHO.. as Dom states your nature - Master states your title.. and is not one to be self given) who can enrich, develop, and bring out ones "True" submissivness.. I feel you CANNOT create the perfect person in any way.. you can only help that person to develope themselves into the perfect person THEY long to be.. whether it's a submissive, a slave, a Dom/Domme.. It's the experience and genuine caring of the one Mentoring along with this person, the trust established, that allows a person who suspects they are a submissive to let that true nature of submissiveness out.. and the submissive who wants to go onto the slave... etc..
Sorry for the rambling.. just get carried away.. as I believe you can never CREATE something from something that does not exist.. you need to help mold what is already there into it's truest being.. That's my thinking anyway..

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