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Very New - 11/2/2008 3:40:34 PM

curiousinKY

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Hi ladies I am a young man that is very new to this lifestyle, and I am very curious. I know I enjoy older women but not sure what else. Right now Im just lookin for freinds that might help me out.

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RE: Very New - 11/2/2008 5:11:19 PM

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What can I say, but welcome to CM. I hope you have fun on your journey :)

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RE: Very New - 11/2/2008 5:30:48 PM

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Welcome aboard.

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RE: Very New - 11/2/2008 6:07:14 PM

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curious > careful posting the same post multiple place on the boards is frowned upon ..

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RE: Very New - 11/2/2008 6:14:54 PM

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i didnt know i posted the same post twice

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RE: Very New - 11/2/2008 6:56:38 PM

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Welcome curious.
You'll learn a lot here while also hopefully joining groups where you are. M

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RE: Very New - 11/3/2008 6:45:33 AM

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First, get a new pic--if you profess to either like older women OR want to be a Dom, the ballcap boy in the diner role isn't going to cut it--I can assure Domme's like Myself are bombarded by young men with mature pics AND if you are seeking to be a Dom, I can assure no female sub will see that pic as someone who can make life changing decisions, IMHO.

As for education, you can find much here as long as you put your fantasies aside, grasp reality and learn. We get quite annoyed by those seeking wanking material, it abounds on other sites. This life can be fun, it can be serious, all depends in what you seek--you will get out of it the quality you put into it.

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RE: Very New - 11/3/2008 1:38:22 PM

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Thank you for that but I have went through my pics and I can not find a picture of me without a hat on. I am losing my hair at a young age and wear a hat 98% of the time. :-(

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RE: Very New - 11/3/2008 3:19:05 PM

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Best of luck in your search!

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RE: Very New - 11/3/2008 5:25:42 PM

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Just a couple of comments:

for me, and I don't know about others, being called someone's "older woman" makes me feel like a fetish and not a person... you might focus on women older than yourself, but don't say "I like older women"...

and.. your picture makes you look ten.. again, for ME, that would be a huge turn off...

good luck...

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RE: Very New - 11/3/2008 5:30:06 PM

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Thank you for that but I have went through my pics and I can not find a picture of me without a hat on. I am losing my hair at a young age and wear a hat 98% of the time. :-(

<Throws her two cents in>
Wearing your hat 98% of the time is the reason you are losing your hair. Your hair needs air and sunshine to grow. The rubbing of the hat in the same spots causes your hair loss.

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RE: Very New - 11/3/2008 7:19:48 PM

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does my new pic look better?

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RE: Very New - 11/4/2008 6:49:23 AM

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does my new pic look better?

Yes, much.

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RE: Very New - 11/4/2008 7:25:00 AM

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WAY better! and as MoGa said, hats suffocate your hair follicles, and after all with a Mistress, I bet She won't allow a hat in the house, so you might want to get used to it.

Nice pic, nice face.

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RE: Very New - 11/4/2008 11:00:11 AM

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If that is what she asks of me then that is what I must do

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RE: Very New - 11/4/2008 11:09:46 AM

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MistressOfGa wrote: Wearing your hat 98% of the time is the reason you are losing your hair. Your hair needs air and sunshine to grow. The rubbing of the hat in the same spots causes your hair loss.

I'm sorry but that's complete nonsense in so many ways. Hats aren't air-tight. If hair needed air and sunshine and not to be rubbed by clothing, everybody's pubic hair would have fallen out years ago.

I suggest you Google for `male pattern baldness.'

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RE: Very New - 11/4/2008 1:20:49 PM

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its not that big of a deal Im not to worried about my balding right now

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RE: Very New - 11/4/2008 2:54:59 PM

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The Mistresses pass comments on all the threads that pass
Submissives ask often about submission and playing with their ass
There's a male slave is with his Mistress, he is tied against a tree
He doesn't mind the bondage, it's the beating he don't need
He gives his domme a massage before she goes to sleep
A newbie posts on Ask A Mistress with a photo in a hat
And all the dommes post and say it's no to hats
It's no to hats

The subs are busy posting but the search function they don't know
They're reading the threads for what dommes post and what they show
Some word postings differently asking dommes for information
But dommes see it as trolling for wank fodder again
You see it's funny how some questions are the bleeding same
And meanwhile elsewhere there's a couple of likely lads
The dommes perv their profiles but it's still no to hats
It's no to hats

To change my luck a little I went to a munch down the pub
I'm seeking a Mistress who may want herself a sub
I speak to one then another trying to be a bit flash
I buy a few drinks and spend quite a bit of cash
But all I get is a headache and a nasty little rash
And when the munch is over I think of what was said
But all the dommes are saying that it's no to hats
It's no to hats

Shape up on these boards don't be here on the pull
Don't ask certain questions and you won't be seen as a troll
You're posting for the first time, we welcome you to our home
Don't look for older women, or even a mature domme
You'll find here plenty of Mistresses, and some are on their own
Just keep on posting, and try out the chat
But remember what the dommes said, that it's no to hats
It's no to hats

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RE: Very New - 11/4/2008 3:02:27 PM

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LOL Stella. Great imagination there.
I loved that tune. I absolutely cannot stand hats indoors.... Even on strangers, I want to walk up and yank them off.

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RE: Very New - 11/4/2008 9:52:32 PM

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MistressOfGa wrote: Wearing your hat 98% of the time is the reason you are losing your hair. Your hair needs air and sunshine to grow. The rubbing of the hat in the same spots causes your hair loss.

I'm sorry but that's complete nonsense in so many ways. Hats aren't air-tight. If hair needed air and sunshine and not to be rubbed by clothing, everybody's pubic hair would have fallen out years ago.

I suggest you Google for `male pattern baldness.'

beeble

Well gee Beeble, could you be any more rude? I should of said in my own opinion, but I figured that we all know that when we respond to something, it is not with someone else's opinions. My brother-in-law told me that he lost his hair from wearing a hat, I assumed that he knew what he was talking about. As far as the pubic hair falling out, pubic hair is quite different than the top of your head hair. There are ways to respond to someone's post without being disrespectful, might I suggest you find one.

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