RE: Very New

Oh is that so?Also if she tells you to shit upside down?
Being a sub doesn't mean you've to change because they say you've too.
you should only change stuff when you think you want to change that.
Bdsm is about respect, and trust, that doesn't mean you should listen to just anyone saying something. If a Dom shouts here you should change your picture, while she doesn't even have one on her profile herself? Then who is She to order you around? Please keep thinking for yourself, and be happy the way you are.
If they can't accept you for who you're?
Do you really want to submit to such a people?
Submission is a choise, and that's up to you whom you submit too, and not the other way around. It doesn't mean you submit to the whole wide world.

I wish you enough wisdom in this madhouse called Bdsm.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`