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Adult nursing relationships - 11/2/2008 6:27:05 PM   
WildHoneyPie


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Status: offline 		I see there have been a few postings regarding this, but I'm curious about people's take on it.  It is something my Daddy and I have been exploring.  What I find most curious about it is that even though he suckles me, in our minds he is still my Daddy and I am still his little girl. Yet, it is the only time he is not "Domly," when he can go where I go, where it is simple and all cares fall away. It is when I take care of him like he takes care of me.  I love the delicious paradox of it, as I do all the others that make up our relationship that is somehow egalitarian and D/s at the same time.  Just wondering what experiences others have had with this. For those who have this kind of relationship, do you think it is a submissive act?  A nurturing one?  Both?  It feels very much that way to me. 

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/2/2008 6:28:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's all about intent.  What is your intent?  What is your dominant's intent? 

Don't over think something that both of you enjoy.

I see suckling as a nurturing activity.

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/2/2008 6:46:22 PM   
WildHoneyPie


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Status: offline 		That's an interesting question (and yes, I am overthinking.  That's what I do), what is the intent?  I hadn't thought about it, it is something that just evolved.  I suppose the intent is to nurture, to give in the most intimate and tangible of ways.  I am so grateful to him for letting me be vulnerable, and it is a way of expressing my gratitude, by letting him be vulnerable, too. 

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/2/2008 7:03:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I see suckling as nurturing as well.  If the intent is for him to feel well-loved, content and at peace, and this is how he feels, consider your duty well done! 

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 4:28:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have a ton of questions about lactation, if anyone wants to field them.
 
Is it true you have to devote a goodly portion of your day to being suckled, by human or mechanical means, in order for this to happen?  I mean ya, it interests me, but not enough to sit still for like 5 hours a day and be suckled.
 
If you do get it to work, does it feel like breastfeeding a UM does?  I mean, like is there that whole thing with the leaking milk and engorged breasts and so on?
 
Do you get to feel the let-down response again?  That was amazing...it's one reason the whole thing appeals to me.
 
I dunno why any form of breast play would be seen as 'unDomly'.  Seems pretty much like being touched in any other intimate or sexual way to me...something you'd only do with your Dom is 'Domly' for him do, but maybe I'm missing something.
 
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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 4:38:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: candystripper

I have a ton of questions about lactation, if anyone wants to field them.
 
Is it true you have to devote a goodly portion of your day to being suckled, by human or mechanical means, in order for this to happen?  I mean ya, it interests me, but not enough to sit still for like 5 hours a day and be suckled.
 
If you do get it to work, does it feel like breastfeeding a UM does?  I mean, like is there that whole thing with the leaking milk and engorged breasts and so on?



yes is the simple answer candy... my last Master and i were trying to achieve induced lactation and i can tell you it was hard work!  i would have to pop to the toilet at work every few hours to carry out my breast exercises - both manual and with a pump.  after a short while we did start to produce results - although it wasn't exactly gushing!

in the end we decided it was all too much for me to maintain - which now i am thankful for as we are no longer together and i would have been stuck with enormous boobs leaking all over the place and no where for the milk to go....

i would say you have to REALLY want to do it - it takes time and commitment......

have a ponder candy!
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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 5:23:27 AM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		O Christ!  I totally forgot about the expansion of boobage thing!  I am  not willing to get larger. I had forgotten about the dryng-up part too.  That was pretty painful.
 
*Sighs*  O, well....it was a nice fantasy. 
 
Thanks for the answers, littlemisssnarf.
 
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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 8:13:10 AM   
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stuck with enormous boobs leaking all over the place


Watch your language, girl. I am trying to get some work done, nearly had a sticky keyboard there

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 8:46:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		My little girl lactates as a result of a medication she is on. I drink her milk at least daily. Tastes great. It is a very intimate act, she does it as an act of submission. I can easily see how it could be a nurturing act, but I choose it to be an intimate act of submission. As has been said here, It is what you make it...

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 9:34:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WildHoneyPie
Just wondering what experiences others have had with this. For those who have this kind of relationship, do you think it is a submissive act? A nurturing one? Both? It feels very much that way to me.



Interesting discussion. I would say it can be all of the above. Ultimately, I would further say this depends entirely upon how it's being done. He can milk you like an animal or "suckle" like a child. It can be maternally nurturing and warm or forceful and parasitic—and as you evoke, an amalgam of both, too.

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 12:23:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MAMandSlave

My little girl lactates as a result of a medication she is on. I drink her milk at least daily. Tastes great. It is a very intimate act, she does it as an act of submission. I can easily see how it could be a nurturing act, but I choose it to be an intimate act of submission. As has been said here, It is what you make it...


A question occurs to me: if her lactation is a result of her medication did you check to make sure that if her breast milk does contain some of the drug (sometimes that is an issue), it will not have any potential harmful effects on you?

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 12:47:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: MAMandSlave

My little girl lactates as a result of a medication she is on.
I drink her milk at least daily.
Tastes great. It is a very intimate act, she does it as an act of submission.
I can easily see how it could be a nurturing act,
but I choose it to be an intimate act of submission.
As has been said here, It is what you make it...


A question occurs to me: if her lactation is a result of her medication
did you check to make sure that if her breast milk does contain some of the drug
(sometimes that is an issue),
it will not have any potential harmful effects on you?



Valid not only as regards suckling.

Semen and urine are other vectors for medications.

No small consideration, for those who would 'indulge'.

Edited for: readability/formatting

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RE: Adult nursing relationships - 11/3/2008 4:42:40 PM   
WildHoneyPie


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Status: offline 		I don't lactate, but I have breastfed in the past and I loved it.  I have been researching and learning about relactating.  I don't want to go the medication route, I'm more the herbal teas type.  But we are both willing to put in the time to make it happen.  It is something we want a lot.  I have learned quite a bit from the website http://www.landmilkhoney.com/.  There is one section there that explains all the methods for relactation, plus different stages at which one can maintain.  If I understand correctly, it is possible to maintain at somewhat less than full milk production, which would likely be easier than explaining why I am leaking all over my blouse at work when I don't have a baby. 

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