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abuseme666 -> is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 6:15:41 AM)
I would like my first time taking a strap on to be special, something memorable. I was thinking if I could wear a wedding dress, or something. I just want it to be very memorable.

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 6:28:25 AM)
Oh honey, it'll be special no matter what you're wearing if you've never done it before... Just buy some good lube, and hope your top is sensitive/sensible starting you out. M

thetammyjo -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 6:29:00 AM)
I think to make it special you need to talk to your partner and negotiation what will make it special for both of you. Make a list ahead of time of what you'd like to have, what you don't want to have, and then prioritize the "like" list and see if any of these are "musts". I'm not talking about things like lube though you may need to make sure you all discuss that too.

cjan -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 7:07:35 AM)
The wedding dress is a great idea. Be sure to post pics.

CatdeMedici -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 7:26:17 AM)
enemas, cleanliness is next to a good experience.

Lashra -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 8:13:38 AM)
It is rather like loosening your virginity, a special occasion. So yes make the most of it and have fun. ~Lashra

malloves69 -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 2:10:03 PM)
and after you get good at strapon by taking the bigger ones [:)] try having her fist you [:)] amazing feeling it is once she slides in because its actually a part of her thats inside of you [:)] love kissing her while shes fisting me [:)].....first time strapon is fun and yes being clean inside makes it more enjoyable ...one knowing you are for her and 2 for her while she is doing the honors there is no mess to ruin that special time once she took your anal cherry [:)] have fun ...relax ...and enjoy ..mal [:)]

Politesub53 -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 2:19:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam Oh honey, it'll be special no matter what you're wearing if you've never done it before... Just buy some good lube, and hope your top is sensitive/sensible starting you out. M Depending on the size used, it could also be memorable.... In more ways than one. [8D] Err so i heard.

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 2:28:48 PM)
Lol... I think Polite is having Diana flashbacks. [8D] M

Lockit -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 2:30:38 PM)
LOL politesub! I'm with TammyJo on this... if you picture it just the way you want it to be, you could be disappointed in some way. Talk it over when the time comes and if you want something special to happen to make it more somehow, decide with your dominant how to do that. I cannot use a strap on... and even a thigh strap on might hurt me. I can use things that are similar, but not the strap on... damn it! So I could give my submissive certain things and feelings, I can never give them that... not personally anyway. So if my guy projects and pictures things a certain way... it will be a disappointment.

pixelslave -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 4:07:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: abuseme666 I would like my first time taking a strap on to be special, something memorable. I was thinking if I could wear a wedding dress, or something. I just want it to be very memorable. It's going to be memorable regardless of any external trappings you might add. I suggest you don't don't put pressure on yourself or your domme to do anything more than allow yourselves to relax and experience it for whatever it's going to be. Being relaxed and comfortable with what's happening between the two of you is what's going to make it the most enjoyable and memorable for both of you. [8D] - pixel

StrictnSaucy -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/4/2008 4:22:38 PM)
Truth is, if its your first time you will be anxious. Anxious can be good if you have time to prepare yourself well. Truth is, second time will be better. Practise makes one at ease and makes for perfect. Enjoy!

malloves69 -> RE: is first time strap on special? (11/5/2008 1:09:16 AM)
oh and after the first time ....trust me you will be hooked [:)] at least i was [:)]and when she finds your prostate and massages that for you ...can you say awesome time indeed [:)] my mistress knows my ass and prostate well [:)] gladly assumes the position anytime she wants to take me [:)] have fun ...relax ....communicate and enjoy [:)]a woman fucking a mans ass cant say enough how much i love that [:)] mal

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