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sub4hire -> RE: What is Death? (11/5/2008 8:17:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Let's say that death is curable. Your 100 years old and your death is prolonged. Look at your wrinkled prune body.  Now what.


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hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: What is Death? (11/5/2008 8:25:57 AM)

~FR~
 
Death, to me, is that point at which the brain (control center) is no longer capable of maintaining the function of the body (machine) - if there is any sort of artificial assistance necessary in order to keep the machine functioning, it should be allowed to wind down.  If the autonomic systems are incapable of running without help - you aren't alive, even if machines force a semblance of continued function.
 
Mom had a living will.  The doctors still gave us the choice of whether or not to allow attempts at life support when she went into respitory failure.  They followed our wishes, and unplugged without comment at the end of the (very limited) time period we had set for them to find a way to get her off the machines without loss of function.  The one who gave us trouble over it was mom's mother - who threw a fit and called dad and I murderers when we insisted that the doctors do what mom wanted, and not force her body to continue "functioning".  We had it in writing.  It held her signature, noterized.  My grandmother still threw an hysterical fit, denied it's viability, claimed it a forgery, called us murderers, and threw curses at us for "robbing her of her right" to decide when and if mom should be allowed to die like she'd been wanting for years.  (Come to think of it - that fight with my grandmother was one of the final straws that caused me to turn my back on her completely, and cut her outta my life once and for all.)
 
Dad has an Advance Medical Directive.  Although I'm his PoA, the one power specifically Denied by the PoA paperwork that dad drew up at the same time is the power to override the AD.  Not that I would anyway - I am 100% opposed to keeping anyone's body alive by force of machines - and if they're opposed to it as well, it would be the height of hypocrazy to go against that.  The AD specifies no heroic efforts and that if there comes a point when the only way to take nurishment or fluids is via IV, they are not to be given, period.  The nursing home staff and I have had a long talk about it - legally, because of the AD, if dad decided he was simply going to quit eatting or drinking, and quit taking his meds, neither they nor I could force him to do so - we're legally obligated to allow him to starve or die of dehydration if that's what he chooses to do.  Heart failure?  Not allowed to try and resusitate.  Lungs finally give up the fight against emphasymia and asthma?  No breathing tubes for you.  The only reason that they went ahead and did the surgery at the time of his stroke, rather than simply waiting it out while he died, was that he was still coherant enough to answer for himsef and his GP hadn't had time to write the letter invoking his springing PoA to place the decision in my hands.  Had he been unconscious, or unable to answer due to the stroke having progressed further, they would have refused to do the surgery because of the AD.




Termyn8or -> RE: What is Death? (11/5/2008 10:48:56 AM)

An, that's really how you spell it there ? grammes ?

You and stella beat me to it. What I saw and or read though did not say 22 grams, it was a fraction of a gram actually. When a person died, they actually had them on the table and at the moment of death, they actually weighed just a tinge less. It was not alot, but was enough to not even be attributable to a fart. If there is gas, which is chiefly methane, in your digextive tract, it displaces it's volume in the atmosphere, so even if you fart when you die, the fart was pretty much bouyant so the measured weight would remain the same. That's how helium and hot air balloons work. Let's try to avoid the obvious opportunities at humor here.

However I remain skeptical, that because the human soul is, and really only could be pure energy. Energy has no mass for the most part, but that has been refuted in scientific studies as well. However, the special theoiry of relativity refers to the massive gravitational pull of a star, and the bending of light. We are talking about an extreme, not one fart on a planet that pulls 1 G. To have any measurable weight, the energy would have to have mass.

Energy does have mass, that is almost proven, but it has very little. It is often immeasurable because it is so infinitesimal. So really, that fact, coupled with the fact that they were able to actually measure a loss of mass at the time of death of a human being would indicate a significant amount of energy.

When I had my death dream I was not afraid. This is partially due to the fact that I really believe that something comes after. I was patient. I figured well it might take a bit of time. Remember certain things, I am not a Christian, I belive in nothing and don't even understand what it means to believe IN something. I either believe it or I don't. To me, beliving in something is illogical, it almost specifically means believing something which cannot be proven, is far fetched and is not something that makes any sense.

Even my death dream had no effect on my beliefs, even at the time. I had no notion of calling upon God nor any other deity, Odin or what have you. Nothing of the sort. I doubt that I could explain it fully.

Time stopped. If this is all there is then oh well. It was contentment in a way, not that I am totally content with the path my life has taken, but it was then over. I was content not to have to struggle anymore, fight anymore, anything. I would never even have to take a shit again, get it ? My thoughts were free to roam and explore, yet I did not do that. I just stayed, mentally, where I was at. Dead and nothing more. Happiness and sadness at the same time, victory and defeat. I'm just there and that is it. I did not have my life flash befor my eyes, nothing of the sort.

In a way maybe that was the deepest subspace.

It is so hard to describe really. Everything was gone. No remorse, no joy, no nothing. Absolute nothingness. I don't just mean that you see nothingness, I mean you feel nothingness. No God nor devil, no thoughts of family or even the closest of friends, no thinking of the plans that were dashed by my demise, nothing of the sort.

I don't even know if it was a death dream. It's possible that my mind was readt for a hard reset. Those of you who know electronics might understand a hard reset. On various types of equipment there may be a reset button. The button just returns all registers to zero or some other default value, then when reset is accomplished, whatever data the device uses to operate is reloaded. Personal settings are still there, and everything else, but the brain needed a break.

So I don't really know, my death dream might not have been real. Maybe my brain needed a break, while they have made great strides in understanding the workings of the human brain, they still can't tell you exactly how it works. It is more complex than the most advanced of processors Man has ever invented to this day. A processor, like your Pentium or whatever you have was made by Man. To be sure, it is so complex that no one Man understands it completely, but a group of Men (and Women most likely) actually do.

Yet with all this complexity, they still have yet to get a processor to think like a human being. Granted they are getting closer by the decade, between heuristic reasoning and some fuzzy logic they are getting there, but they are not there yet.

Have you heard about the law of diminishing returns ? Cut a stick of butter in half, then cut half in half and so forth. Well when they start this type of thing, it gets to the point where we endevor to design ourself.

Think about it, we design artificial intelligence, but think again, is it really artifical ? If it walks like a duck and so forth.......

Even the most rudimentary inytelligence in a machine is a fantastic accomplishment, but being born into an age when it was accomplished we don't really think that much of it. We take lightly putting a Man on the Moon, but find someone who has been frozen in ice or somehow in suspended animation since like a hundred years ago and show him all this.

The problem is that all we have managed to do in the last thirty years oir so is to wreck the place. Before that we were wrecking the placew but at least a few good things were going on. We had industry, people had jobs, the ecomony was doing well because people had disposable income. We used TAX money to put that Man on the Moon and it didn't hurt us. We were proud to do it and show our ass to the world. What the fuck happened to my country ?

I am sorry this post is so long, but I think these things need to be said. The greatness we achieved in the past can be attained again. What it took did not come from nowhere, it came from the hard work and dedication of the many to make it happen. You could say it came from the heart and soul of us commoners, who were dedicated to creating true wealth, back when people understood such things.

This is the world I grew up in, I watched the original moonshot live on TV. Actually the one that worked, remember previously the some astronauts died, burned to death before that. That didn't scare us. We went on with it. But that wasn't war for profit, that was advancing the human race. We can now travel in space.

But all we can do is wreck the place. I really do think the reason I am so willing to accept deth when it comes is because I see how the world has changed. It is like everything is fake now. Nothing is real. Some say the moon landing wasn'r real but screw that subject for now. To those people I say this - alot of people had telescopes back then, if you walked into a Sears usually telescopes would be the first thing you see. Remember ?

I don't care now because right now it has no bearing on the state of afairs of my life or the situation in this world. So I came up in a world where all this is happening, and now I see nothing. Oh yeah a few probes, one that seems to have been working for alot longer than they expected. Wish they built cars like that. Oh ya, they used to.

I see all the bad in the world, and yes I do see some good, but the balance is way out of whack. That is why I guess, that I do not fear death. The Maker Of All Things has put me here, and during that time I am to gain wisdom and knowledge. For what purpose I do not know, but it is safe to assume that there is a purpose.

And that is that, knowing too much, getting out of the box has been hard to deal with, although I started young. Years ago I did get depressed and not only contemplated suicide, I actually hung me up a noose. It would've done the job for sure. Backed out, and with current events I will jokingly say, WHY ?

No matter what that dream was trying to tell me, the way I see it is like I am sentenced to live so many years here. It's like life is a school, as we mature we get new data and we also keep processing the old data. Together they can help one understand it all a bit better.

But what are we being schooled for ?

T




candystripper -> RE: What is Death? (11/6/2008 7:55:39 PM)

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servantheart -> RE: What is Death? (11/6/2008 10:19:13 PM)

This doesn't answer the questions in the OP, but I thought I'd share anyway.
 
A hospice nurse here once said that to witness death is to witness the birth of a soul.  I've always liked that because it's a reminder that death, although the end of this life, is also the beginning of a new phase in one's existence. 
 
Some time back I read one man's story about his friend who'd passed away.  Before his passing, the man was asked about his burial preferences.  He insisted that a fork be placed in his hand inside his casket at his funeral.  Perplexed, his family and friends inquired as to why he would desire something so odd, to which he replied that death is like dessert...it comes at the end and is always the best part.  I've always admired this man's unique view of death.  
 




Aneirin -> RE: What is Death? (11/7/2008 5:45:23 AM)

I don't want to see death seen as an illness and therefore cured, as I believe the life span we have is enough for us to do what we need to do, if we are actually here to do anything. Now what I believe leaves us at the point of death, be that the spirit, the soul, prana or whatever, what it's purpose is, who knows, but my personal perspective is that it is recording whatever information it is there to record, learning. Where the spirit goes, well who knows, everything that has been said is just speculation, maybe it is even,we are all wrong in our speculation.

If death is ever cured, and I hope not, we would have yet more problems with population and if the intellect was with the extended lives, why go to the bother of producing new life that has to be taught. Our bodies through time wear out, and for good reason, we have a use by date, a date of expiry.

What would be a step forward for us though, I believe is all that information that is lost in death, if we could access and keep that information as a data bank to use and hopefully stop making the same stupid mistakes again and allow human kind to actually progress beyond it's primitive mentality.

But if we were to do that, we were able to keep what is normally lost, would we then become our own gods ?

Has anyone ever thought that the spirit thing that is with us, is really like a juvenile and we, our bodies is the toy, or the tool of learning. That being so, perhaps the spirit is a child in the eyes of it's masters.




sub4hire -> RE: What is Death? (11/7/2008 8:52:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin
Has anyone ever thought that the spirit thing that is with us, is really like a juvenile and we, our bodies is the toy, or the tool of learning. That being so, perhaps the spirit is a child in the eyes of it's masters.


I have, how else can you explain deja vu?  In my family I was an outsider.  Not like any of the other children..or my parents.  Almost like I was exchanged at birth or something.  I'm sure my mother got tired of hearing that as I said it often. 
In any event...I was much smarter than the rest of my siblings.  Learning came quite easily to me. 

They struggled.  How else can you explain what happens with each and every one of us..when we just don't fit from day one.

Part of me believes that we are sent here to do whatever.  Whether it be touch a life somehow or what have you.  If we do not learn enough while here, we are sent back.  Until we get it right.  We keep coming back. 
When we get it right we are done with the Earth and move on.

When you have so much death in your life, as I have had.  You tend to over think things and look for answers. 





celticlord2112 -> RE: What is Death? (11/7/2008 7:28:39 PM)

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100 years ago, the question 'what is death' would probably have sounded dumb. Now, it's obviously more complex.

Death is exactly what it has always been.  Our perception and understanding may shift and change, but the underlying reality has not.

What is death?  Merely the transition to yet another cycle of life and rebirth.




Kirata -> RE: What is Death? (11/7/2008 7:36:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

What is death?  Merely the transition to yet another cycle of life and rebirth.

What goes through your mind (if anything) when you post this kind of absolute pronouncement on something you cannot possibly know jack shit about?
 
K.
 
 




Maya2001 -> RE: What is Death? (11/7/2008 8:25:59 PM)

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I know some of my loved ones have been with me after their death's. There comes a time when I believe they can no longer come back.


I have witnessed myself at a time I did not believe in an afterlife and to me dead was dead ..so was quite the shock..but at the time there was a very strong "energy field "   that I not only sensed but seen.

as for a cure for death ....for many death is a welcomed respite ..so if I am suffering I sure as heck would not want to be cured of death




suhlut -> RE: What is Death? (11/7/2008 9:09:03 PM)

i've been avoiding this thread, but won't now

Yahoo has been posting lots of stories within the last two months in regards to Death, and how it is being studied further now. Reading the articles really bothered me, because they talk about how the actual real point of death is now changing.

Before, death has always been determined to happen once brain activity ceases, but, there have been case after case of brain dead people, being brought back to life, in at least one.. over an HOUR after brain death occured, the person was brought back to life. So, if thats the case, then that surely means we linger around,and perhaps counsiously for much longer then people previously thought.

i don't know.. reading the stories bothered me.. when i thought back on to my own mothers death two years ago. Perhaps she wasn't as "dead" as we thought.. once her heart stopped beating.. once her breathing stopped..

I can't explain in words even i can really understand, how reading such things affected me..when in regards to my mothers death. i just know, it was a good thing..that she was finally able to let go.

It is also scary.. i mean..imagine. there ya are, in a bed, a doctor is standing over you.. testing for all "normal" aspects of life, finds that your brain has indeed "died", but there you are.. unable to scream at them... tell tell them that your still there.. ya watch family members grieve.. unable to tell them what your thinking.. unable to console...  i sure hope death isn't like that.




MadRabbit -> RE: What is Death? (11/7/2008 9:15:13 PM)

The point where my self awareness and conciousness comes to an end and I become the "nothingness" that the human mind cannot comprehend and therefore creates fantasies about afterlifes to compensate.




blacksword404 -> RE: What is Death? (11/8/2008 4:37:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Let's say that death is curable. Your 100 years old and your death is prolonged. Look at your wrinkled prune body.  Now what.


I would not wish immortality on my worst enemy. Immortality would kill the soul of a person eventually.




SL4V3M4YB3 -> RE: What is Death? (11/8/2008 5:27:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: candystripper
What is 'brain death'? If someone isn't altogether dead, aren't they alive?  I have heard medical terms and phrases like ' the body does not all die at once'  amd wonder how that could be -- if someone hasn't 'finshed dying' yet, how are they not alive? 


"The body cannot live without the mind." Morpheus




Aneirin -> RE: What is Death? (11/8/2008 5:51:10 AM)

Death is the only certainty we have in life, we are born to die, but so many fear it, we fear the inevitable, why ?




SL4V3M4YB3 -> RE: What is Death? (11/8/2008 6:16:42 AM)



I don't know that everyone fears death, I only know I do. I think for me it's the fact we fight to be recognised all our lives for the things we are but in the end we'll ultimately be recognised for the things we were and those things may be described by those that never actually knew us. When you are an 'are' you can still prove you are that 'are' but when you become a 'were' it is up to others how you are remembered, you get no say in it. You work all your life for something and you can only hope it is enough to not be misrepresented in death.

Also I don't much like the nothingness of death; life is the stimulation we receive from our senses and death is the isolation from those senses. If we didn't feel pain would we value pleasure so much, one experience is supposed to put the other into context. People speak of heaven as a place where there is no pain, so the question is how could the human mind tolerate that when it has been taught all its life to value the pleasure as the absence of pain and suffering? Neaven is such an impractical model and I hate that human imagination hasn't come up with a better answer yet.

Also why is a life time of evil worth an eternity of suffering? Life time = 75 years, eternity > 75 years. There comes a point surely when someone should say God your maths skills need work because no man should receive an eternity of suffering for anything they do in life. Maybe a life of suffering sure but an eternity?

I pity da fool.
 




celticlord2112 -> RE: What is Death? (11/8/2008 8:31:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

Death is the only certainty we have in life, we are born to die, but so many fear it, we fear the inevitable, why ?

Death may be certain, but what (if anything) comes after death is anything but certain.

People fear the unknown, and there is no greater unknown than what comes after death.

As Shakespeare (Hamlet, Act III, scene i) put it:
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To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub;
For in that sleep of death what dreams may come
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil,
Must give us pause:





JohnSteed1967 -> RE: What is Death? (11/8/2008 8:37:34 AM)

Life was not a valuable gift, but death was. Life was a fever-dream made up of joys embittered by sorrows, pleasure poisoned by pain; a dream that was a nightmare-confusion of spasmodic and fleeting delights, ecstasies, exultations, happinesses, interspersed with long-drawn miseries, griefs, perils, horrors, disappointments, defeats,humiliations, and despairs--the heaviest curse devisable by divine ingenuity; but death was sweet, death was gentle, death was kind; death healed the bruised spirit and the broken heart, and gave them rest and forgetfulness; death was man's best friend; when man could endure life no longer, death came and set him free.
- Letters from the Earth




sub4hire -> RE: What is Death? (11/8/2008 8:51:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: suhlut
It is also scary.. i mean..imagine. there ya are, in a bed, a doctor is standing over you.. testing for all "normal" aspects of life, finds that your brain has indeed "died", but there you are.. unable to scream at them... tell tell them that your still there.. ya watch family members grieve.. unable to tell them what your thinking.. unable to console...  i sure hope death isn't like that.


I've thought about that myself.  I had read many times when a person is on life support.  You unplug them...they actually woke up...talked to you.  Or even let out a sigh of relief that it was finally over.

The deal is.  If you are in a coma the doctor can say you have brain damage but cannot tell any of us how deep it is until we wake up.  If we never wake up they will never know just how bad it was.

I had to unplug my mother a few years back.  I stayed with her until the end.  The doctor told me not to.  I merely said, I wasn't here when she started her life I will be here when she takes her last breath.  When he realized he was not going to talk me out of it.  I told my mother she could stay here and we would deal with whatever happened to her.  Or if she was too tired she could go.  I would care for the rest of the family.
When we unplugged her there was nothing.  No sigh.  No opening her eyes.  Nothing at all.  Within one minute her heart had stopped beating.
I think if there was something left there somehow she would have told me.  I don't know if we need to worry about communicating when the time comes.





Kirata -> RE: What is Death? (11/8/2008 11:34:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

Death is the only certainty we have in life, we are born to die, but so many fear it, we fear the inevitable, why ?

Well no, there's another absolute certainty: I don't want to die right now.
 
And I think it's not so much the "inevitable" we fear, as the unknown.
 
K.
 
 
 




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