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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 7:43:30 AM

MHOO314

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I read every profile, but I find naked pics offensive--especially the unsolicited c*** pics that I get in My email---I much prefer a clothed or an alluringly clothed pic--

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 7:55:51 AM

lechat

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there's a million plus pussy and cock photos on the inet what makes people think theirs would be of any interest?

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 9:20:27 AM

truesub4u

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I prefer to see a profile with a pic on it as well. So i see a face of whom I am speaking with. Though I know some put up pics of friends or other people and not themselves..(stupid but done)

But a nude pic on a profile is just not a way to grab my attention. I've seen some nice, to sexy looking pics. But I've seen one.. to die for... and a Dom in Ca, (can't remember the name) with too die for eyes. Which is what I look for and at first. And his profile was wonderfully written. Actually made me think he was more of a CM add on how to do profiles. So I e-mailed this gentleman just to tell him what I thought of his pic. (About fell out of my chair when he responded with a simple thank you)

I seen other post on this respond to all men like nude pic. WOMEN also like to see some too. LOL

Just not when clicking on ones profile. A nude pic ruins the excitement of learning.. slowly veiwing different parts of a persons true self.
And gals don't want to just see faces, and cocks. There are alot of other parts of a man that us women find sexy to gaze upon too. When the time comes to view. To some it's a nice chest on a man. I love shoulders and arms, backs. But mostly the eyes.... as they say, the eyes are the windows to the soul. So think about this one Gents, when you want to show yourself off....

< Message edited by truesub4u -- 12/18/2005 9:23:17 AM >

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 9:23:54 AM

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i rarely get a photo of a Dom or Master, and only a few times has it been unclothed; i ended contact with him and told him why. One member of the fruits and nuts brigade told me i should get off the site because i was a prude. Well, no, i'm not, but when initiating contact with a Dom or Master, i need to feel He shares my values (or at least does not reject them) and naked photos just telegraph "i'm only here for sex".

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 3:13:38 PM

Quivver

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Profiles are just a form of advertising, so target the audience you seek.
So for me I'll add Another vote for clothes...

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 4:07:38 PM

sothernnyte

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i read every profile i pull up. usually the nickname is what initially draws me in to do that...or perhaps chatting with that individual brings them more to my notice.
as for pics, i dont care if there are any or not. but if there are, i prefer the real ones, the clothed ones...the ones that show a person as they would be if i met them out somewhere,...not the strip club. i like talking to people and getting to know them...not their genitalia

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 4:21:06 PM

MissHarlet

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I must agree that I do like seeing pictures in a profile but respect reasons why some would choose not to have them.

I also will say that unless I ask to see someones nude picture because I am far along in the consideration process.... I DETEST naked pictures or pictures of someones genitalia.

IF that is the best they have to offer .. or the only thing they have to offer they are not for me. Im always most attracted to someones mindset first.

As some of you may have seen me say before, I also do NOT share well .. and why would I want a submissive who has shown all of himself to the world .. <EG> saving nothing private for me?

If this makes me a prude so be it ... but LOL that is far far from the truth!

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 4:54:11 PM

nephandi

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i just came to think of somthing, everyone of your sex usualy have the same parts as you, but whit clothing and jewlery you can show a bit of who you are and your personality, in the way you dress in the photo, and you want the wiewer to get as mutch info as possible aboute you from your profile and photo to catch pepole`s intrest.

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 5:36:24 PM

talmar

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I posted profile pics ( though I am not sure its working in my favor) & I prefer to see who I am responing to as well. I didn't think you could put graphic photo pics in your profile? I think my scene pics which I can't put in my profile make me look more appealing as a potential play partner than my vanilla pics do.

< Message edited by talmar -- 12/18/2005 5:37:46 PM >

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RE: profile pictures - 12/18/2005 5:48:27 PM

Redb

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I have my PM box filled with so many messages every day...

i immediately delete the following:

one-liners (say something interesting),
badly spelt (make an effort will ya),
blanket mails (i have more than one ID, i know that you've sent the same mail to every domme in my area)
and ones with naked pictures (i dont want to see your flabby arse before my morning coffee).

Once i've weeded out all those ones, i read the mail i've received and if it doesnt annoy me, i'll look at the profile. If he matches what i'm looking for, i'll think about it for a bit and then reply. Its a long process.. but surely thats my perogative ??

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