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Noah -> RE: personality crisis (12/17/2005 1:30:01 PM)
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ORIGINAL: foxglove716
If you were looking for a short term relationship with a master/mistress/slave, do you think you could go through with it if you didnt actually like them as a person? If all the other elements were there, attractive, pervy in just your sort of way, but you just didnt like their personality, would you still consider it?
Your list of loves includes role play and humiliation.
Do these have to be at someone's direction or could you choose for yourself to play the role of someone who could and did like this partner? And if you could play this role, could you find the fact that you were doing so a little humiliating and get off on that as well?
As for me, in practice I almost certainly wouldn't bother. The conceiveable but unlikely exception might be some highly improbable case in which my dislike for the person channelled itself into fuel--or anyway accelerant--for my sadism, precisely as her dislike for me fueled her own sense of degradation. The usual sort of intimacy, that is, the sort I am after, would be absent but something not unrelated to intimacy would clearly be at work. Maybe some compelling and worthwhile result could come of it. You know, that is if we happened to find ourselves stuck in an elevator together or something. I wouldn't spend any effort to arrange for it, though. The odds seem pretty strong that any given attempt at this would just be fucked up.
AS for the question of whether to hook up and just go through the motions for a while with someone for whom I felt no affinity, whether as lover or object, well that sounds kind of sterile and pathetic.
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