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oceanwynds -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/7/2008 12:25:10 PM)

I have called Sir, or his first name when we are together, and when we occassionally go into a chatroom together, i will refer to him as Mr...s/n



Gleegal67 -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/7/2008 1:54:05 PM)

Normally, I call Him Sir...other times....SSSSSSIIIIIIIIIIRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!

To Him, I'm Squeaky Toy...other times...Woosy Squeaky Toy...or His toy. :)



charlie63 -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/7/2008 2:10:40 PM)

His given name or a pet name like Darling. Sometimes Darling Sir. I "yes, Sir" and "no, Sir" him when he asks me a question, and I call him Sir or Master when we play or when we are in a serious "dynamic" mode.



velvetslave -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/7/2008 3:34:27 PM)

i usually call Him by His name, Master, my Love, my sweet, or sexy.  But when He is being really silly and teasing me i have called Him "Master Meanie".  [:)].  It was His idea though, i called Him a meanie and His response was "That's Master Meanie to you!"  [sm=yesmaster.gif]  i am a very good girl and obeyed of course!

velvetslave



SageFemmexx -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/7/2008 4:31:37 PM)

I call mine Thomas which has nothing to do with his real name. Now, he prefers who Thomas is and we've discussed a legal name change in the future. Otherwise, it's pet names like honey etc.

Sage



suessub -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/7/2008 10:43:28 PM)

She is my Domina and I am her darling.

For a reference on her name, see HBO's minseries 'Rome'. The Domina is the female head of the household, and that she is. darling is great for she can use it to give me a command anytime, regardless of company present, and I understand the context.



LydiaSciKitten -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/8/2008 7:54:45 AM)

Well, we actually started off having a relationship that was more of a casual sexual one than anything else, and only later found out that our deviant little secret needs where mutual. And although we have both had some level of involvement in BDSM before, it is for both of us the first -serious- relationship in which the power exchange elemen is so strong. Yet, because we started differently, I just can't call him Master or Sir when I speak to him. I will refer him an my Master to BDSM-related third parties, and as Vincent to my friends.
Yet, when speaking to him, except from Vincent, which I use rather rarely, I just use his family name. Using the family name is convenient to me. Respectful and intimidated, yet intimate and not overly etiquetted.



greeneyedreamer -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/8/2008 7:57:12 AM)



velvetslave

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But when He is being really silly and teasing me i have called Him "Master Meanie".


I have called mine a "sadist" more than a few times and that couldn't be further from the truth! When I am not allowed release I think it... Cause at that point I am so beyond talking. When i "come to" I tell him... Sadist. and he laughs at me. He KNOWS I love it!



hejira92 -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/8/2008 9:46:21 AM)

I call Him "Sir" most often. In very specific situations I call Him "Daddy", but that is rarely and very intimate. I refer to Him to others by His given name. And privately, to myself, I think of Him as the most amazing, heroic, stalwart, sexy, courageous, loving man ever to step out of the pages of the most bodice-ripping romance.
 
He prefers "Mr. Wonderful."  [:D]



behindmirrors -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/9/2008 8:53:30 AM)

I call mine "Keeper", and I am his "Pet". :)
Otherwise, when not appropriate, I use "Love" or his given name.

behindmirrors.



servantheart -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/9/2008 9:06:43 PM)

Master or Sir, unless the UM is within earshot.  Then it's His given name.



babygirlkitten -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/9/2008 10:53:32 PM)

We started off with a vanilla long distance relationship, so I referred to him as New York. Now, I call him Daddy P or I call him by his name.



darchChylde -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/10/2008 1:15:20 PM)

I call her Ma'am in most situations, where that would be inappropriate I call her by her first name.  I've actually got a funny story about that.

One of the first times we went to the Lair, while She and Sir were off talking with someone I was left to my own devices for a few minutes and hanging around the fire pit when i was approached by a young domme who later became a friend who introduced herself to me and asked who i was there with.  I was a little flustered as I'd not called her by anything but Ma'am for months and while i knew that She was known as the imp by many in the community, that seemed a bit impertinent coming from me.  So i stood there for 30 seconds trying to remember Ma'ams first name (for some reason it seemed to me that saying that i was with Ma'am would not get us anywhere) and looking all around hoping She could see me and save me.  I finally remembered Her name, but it was totally embarassing.  (i should note that i am often flustered in public situations).

I honestly don't know if i couldn't immediately come up with Her name at the time because i honestly forgot or if our time together had me somewhat conditioned against being able to say it.  There are actually no rules for what i call Her, it just works for us and in those few occasions that Ma'am isn't appropriate i still stumble over Her name as it doesn't feel right on my tongue.



cherrydoll25 -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/10/2008 1:29:44 PM)

I call him Daddy and mostly I call Him that everywhere we are but if its inappropriate to do so then I call Him by his given name



mummyman321 -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/10/2008 4:09:51 PM)

I call my dominant whatever she wants :). First time meeting though I use My Lady until I know what she prefers.



SltlyBrokenAngel -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/10/2008 9:26:59 PM)

Well... it certainly depends on the moment.. but I usually call Him hon or sweetie... sometimes Smarty Pants (or Mr. Pants for short) and Master in some instances.  He calls me sweetheart, hon, and His whore.....
*sigh*  I'm such a lucky girl [sm=angel.gif]



Daddysredhead -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/10/2008 9:36:15 PM)

Around nillas, I call Him by His first name.

Most of the time, I call Him Daddy or DaddyBoo.

If we are alone and we are talking to me about lifestyle things or are getting "busy," I answer Him with "Yes, Sir/No Sir."

If we are intensely engaged in "lovin' " or a scene that is just getting exponentially more intense, I call Him Master.

It's just whatever comes out of my mouth, but He can usually tell where I'm at in my head by what I call Him.  The more saucy and intense, the more submissive I become and the more elevated His "title" becomes.



bound4more -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/10/2008 10:54:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha

I call him by his name, hun or babe.

There times I call him Master.

The only name i got "the look" for was when I called him Sir Puffy Nuts after his vasectomy hehehe

[:D] ha ha ha ha ha ha ha - so another wise ass here eh?



WestBaySlave -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/11/2008 12:26:09 AM)

 

I'm currently single, but when getting to know a dominant I use his name, when he's my dominant I call him whatever he wants to be called. [:D]



hermione83 -> RE: What do you call your Dominant? (11/11/2008 12:34:23 AM)

Ooh, Keeper, I love that one. I call mine (he's not really mine.. but whatever he is so far) his name, my Love (cuz he tells me to), or "little girl" when I want to make him mad. But it doesn't work. He just giggles for some reason when I say it.. Something about how cute it is when I try to sound insulting with my little voice. Grrrr.  I think I'll try Master-Bator, Bad Uncle, Mistress, or O' Captain, My Captain!..( I also like saying my Knight, my Prince, and Sir, however, he doesn't like that kind of label stuff).



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