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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 10:34:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: silkenfire

I'm still on that path. My master calls me his slave and sometimes I appreciate it. Other times I can't handle it. I'm not sure where I fall yet. I'm definitely the one that submits to my master... but how much and under what terms are still being negotiated. Maybe they always will be.

Thank you silkenfire
Yes i not sure where i am in all this, which is alright. Just an observation within me, that I felt the need to explore now.
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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 10:38:54 AM

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ok, I'll stop rambling now. oceanwynds, thank you for the question. It is exactly what has been on my mind all day, hence the ramble as I try to figure out why think I am changing from a submissive to slave

Thank you for sharing suessub. Seems we both been doing a lot of thinking and pondering on this.

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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 12:05:43 PM

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For me it was gradual and even last night while at a munch and the conversation was what box you put yourself in I said I identify as a submissive.

I consider myself a slave because that is what Master started calling me and then I asked him for his definition of a slave versus a submissive. In his viewpoint, a submissive is just a play partner...no more or no less. A slave, gives all of herself and her heart to him and is a partner and the Master needs her as much as the slave needs him. With that definition, I came to the realization that Yes I am his slave.

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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 12:51:32 PM

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Somehow, I've gone from "barely submissive" to feeling like his slave, although he has never called me such. I've never been what one would call "service oriented." Now, I find myself seeking out opportunities to do things simply to please him with no thought of reward. Why? Because I love him. I serve out of love. I don't care if I'm a doormat for him. My limits have grown very fuzzy. There are many things I do not wish to do, but all he has to do is ask....and I seriously doubt I could refuse him. It's an exhilirating as well as terrifying feeling to know that I am wide open and putting myself at risk of being hurt emotionally and being used, but I don't care about that, either. I am his to use for as long as he will have me.

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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 12:54:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead

Somehow, I've gone from "barely submissive" to feeling like his slave, although he has never called me such. I've never been what one would call "service oriented." Now, I find myself seeking out opportunities to do things simply to please him with no thought of reward. Why? Because I love him. I serve out of love. I don't care if I'm a doormat for him. My limits have grown very fuzzy. There are many things I do not wish to do, but all he has to do is ask....and I seriously doubt I could refuse him. It's an exhilirating as well as terrifying feeling to know that I am wide open and putting myself at risk of being hurt emotionally and being used, but I don't care about that, either. I am his to use for as long as he will have me.

I so do understand what you wrote. I am finding myself feeling that way myself. Somedays I look in the mirror and wonder who this person is staring back at me.
Thank you for sharing
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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 12:57:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: califsue

For me it was gradual and even last night while at a munch and the conversation was what box you put yourself in I said I identify as a submissive.

I consider myself a slave because that is what Master started calling me and then I asked him for his definition of a slave versus a submissive. In his viewpoint, a submissive is just a play partner...no more or no less. A slave, gives all of herself and her heart to him and is a partner and the Master needs her as much as the slave needs him. With that definition, I came to the realization that Yes I am his slave.

heather

Thank you heather for sharing. I like your Masters definition of a slave
. It is something Sir doesn't call me. Yet, in my heart I starting to feel that i might have taken this path. For now am looking at the extent i am serving because of a desire that is within.

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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 2:34:42 PM

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I liked the fact that it is a 24/7 thing and that Master T makes the decisions. I enjoy giving myself completely and always to Him.

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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 7:06:56 PM

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My Owner told me I was her slave. That pretty much changed it for me.

*laughs* Yeah, that's about what I was going to write in regards mine... I told her she was mine, described what that meant, and so she became that which I wanted.

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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 8:23:56 PM

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I wanted to take a minute and thank everyone again for replying to my question. Some of you were told by your Master that you are a slave and some others have come into feeling this without being told. I am of the later, and will be pondering on this for awhile.It is nice to know there isn't one patten way to be with this. I do appreciate the differences.

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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/8/2008 8:42:02 PM

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It is funny how that desires grow at least it did and continues to do over time in very subtle ways. I so identify with what FlamingRedhead said: "Now, I find myself seeking out opportunities to do things simply to please him with no thought of reward. Why? Because I love him. I serve out of love. "

We are not a 24/7 couple at this time, but last time he was here, it was a little gesture I did for him, he didn't ask, I just did it and it felt right. I think it surprised him as he said "thank you" and smiled.

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RE: Discovering the slave within - 11/11/2008 12:01:47 PM

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for me it was all in finding the right Master.
i take absolute joy in serving Master, in doing all i can to please him.
but whereas my previous dom treated me like a worthless piece of meat, Master Kevin appreciates my service, respects me, cares for me, and *gasp* genuinely loves me.
my first dom held me back from doing things i loved, and kept me from bettering myself.
Master pushes me to excel. He's been helping me get ready to go back to school, has helped me with my modeling and painting, as well as helping me be more involved in the BDSM scene.
relationships like this cannot exist without a mutual respect and love.
it was finding that- and finding real joy in pleasing another- that helped me move from submissive to true slave.

hope this is helpful!

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