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LadyKim -> RE: Chastity training (12/20/2005 6:56:57 AM)
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talmar,
Chastity with piercings is always more secure than the non pierced variety; however, it is possible to get a snug fit with a non pierced tube. Some people put a CB3000 on once or twice and cannot seem to get the right fit, so claim it isn't secure. The trick to using a CB3000 (or similar device) is using the right rings and spacers.
To figure out the correct size ring to use, take a piece of string and place it over your cock/behind your balls like the ring will lay. Make sure it is snug but not digging into the skin. Tie it and then pull it off. Use the ring that is the closest in size to the string you just removed. (Sometimes, it may be necessary to use two rings. In that instance use the two closest to the sting size; however, be careful to not go down in size too much. You don't want to cut off the blood supply.) The next key to getting a secure fit is the use of the spacers. Remember that the amount of room at the bottom will be 4x the size of the spacer, so do not use a large one unless your balls are abnormally large. Your balls should be fanned out when the tube is secure.
It will be uncomfortable for the first few days until you get use to it, and sleeping on your stomach in it is not a good idea unless you want to wake up with self induced cbt. LOL!!
Personally, the longest I have left a subbie boy in chastity has been 84 days without orgasm; however, I do not usually use chastity for long term orgasm denial. I use it more like locking my car or home. Keep it secured until I'm ready to use it. *wiggling eyebrows* Most of the time, I keep a subbie locked when we are not together and remove it when he is with me. However, there are times I will play an orgasm control game with a submissive. One where I put 28 blue marbles and 2 green marbles. I blindfold him and have him pull out a marble to give to me. Once I see the color of the marble, I put it away and unlock the chastity device. Sometimes he stays blindfolded, but not always. I then set a timer for 30 minutes, and I begin to tease the sub (either through masterbation sex [oral or otherwise]). Of course, the subbie knows he is not allowed to cum without permission. Depending on my mood, I may tell the subbie 15 minutes into it if he is going to have blue balls (blue marble) or be allowed release (green marble) or I may wait until there is only one minute to go. If the boy pulled a green marble and does not cum within the allotted time frame, the marble is put back into the bowl and he looses the priviledge. If a boy cums when he drew a blue marble, there are instant ramifications as well as a green marble being removed from the bowl and 5 more blue marbles added.
I've used various types of chastity devices, but my favorite non piercing tubes are the CB-Curve and CB3000; however, the remington does have it's uses. For pierced tubes, Lori cannot be beat. I really like her thin spiral for frenum piercings. One of the great things about Lori, is she makes a sleeve that will fit over the cock while in chastity to allow the domme to use her subs cock for sex while he receives no feeling. Great mind fuck (and awesome punishment for a sub that cums when he drew a blue ball).
MzKim
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